Success breeds success; failure breeds failure- You ran away to Canada
I ran away from the USA to live in squalor in the Philippines, so that is likely what I would have done.
- Defected as a conscientious objector (not likely for approval)
Several times in my life, I've burned my bridges in order to restart without morass so I could maximize my future degrees-of-freedom in order to attain success (a.k.a. creative destruction).
What you are is an entitled 20-something who grew up in suburban America in a nice part of town.
You forgot where I wrote in my prior post that I grew up in squalor in Louisiana and was for a while one of only two white kids in the entire PUBLIC elementary school (my sister being the other one).
I actually grew up with those rednecks you see in the video. I know that life intimately.
Sorry but those weak people lack a backbone! And you can see that in the video. They don't have the capacity to stand up and fight their way out of their hole.
Keep this statement in your back pocket. Life has a way of beating down everyone at some time or another. I think you will change your opinions as you grow a bit older and wiser.
Hey I am about as beaten down right now as a human can be. A product of divorce at age 5 and my only sister murdered ostensibly by her drug addict husband. I am blinded in one eye, I have an apparently incurable debilitating disease, I have extreme family problems, I am nearly bankrupt, I am getting old turning 50 this June, etc..
But hell no, I am not going to blame my problems on others nor give up! It is time to get out there and win and go back to top. Fuck this situation I have! I will kill myself with Herculean effort trying to win, rather than stay mired in failure.
Everyone can learn from knowing Michael Jordan more intimately:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cygBtiZY40ABasta, when we surround ourselves with failure, we fail.
Even Michael Jordan learned that when he tried to play with crappy players when he came back in his 40s to play for the Wizards. He has been learning ever since that as team owner and general manager of an NBA basketball team, he is not as talented as he was as a player. He wanted to be in control of a team, because his main failure as a player was due to the owner of the Chicago Bulls letting his dream team break up after they won the 6th championship in 1998.
(Note luckily Jordan was not GM for the Bulls, because he wanted to acquire one of his old teammates from North Carolina, thus his loyalty clouded his analysis. And look how he screwed up numerous times such as drafting Kwame Brown for the Wizards.
http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/blog/ball_dont_lie/post/Michael-Jordan-takes-on-Kwame-Brown-again?urn=nba-265111http://probasketballtalk.nbcsports.com/2011/10/07/kobe-bryant-tells-a-story-that-sums-up-kwame-brown/http://www.atthehive.com/2010/8/23/1638364/the-kwame-brown-story-will)
All of us are products of circumstance. MJ had outstanding luck. He had one-in-million physical talents. He had great parents, a great team, the world's best coach the Zen master Phil Jackson, etc..
Each of us has to maximize the circumstance we have.
The greatest compassion of all is not helping people feel sorry for themselves, and showing them by example (not words!) how to pull themselves up by their bootstraps.
So if you find me not wasting too much time on people who can't get their shit together, read this email to understand why.