Gambler avoiding friends after a big win. - page 27.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

He didn't act appropriately at the time; what does it mean for them to be friends? He showed to them that their friendships have boundaries; they may hustle to raise money to gamble with, but he cannot share the winnings with them. He is a bad friend to his colleagues because even though he can't give them a penny from the money he won, he can't just avoid them like that; that is very bad even in their community; that is how some people see it.

Did you know if his colleagues had previously won a little sum of money and avoided him as well, despite the fact that it may still be difficult to judge this situation? We can damage someone by taking advantage of a tiny opportunity, even though we may think they didn't take it serious, but they keep it on their mind. We can't predict what will happen tomorrow; perhaps they had done it to him in the past, and now that he had won a large sum of money, he couldn't forget what they had done to him and decided to pay them back. I'm just stating that possibility, But there are still a lot of foolish friends who avoid their friends simply because they are wealthy; if they do not use their money carefully, they may end up without knowing how they spend it.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It's not unusual for people who frequently win at gambling to be frugal with their money it's just in their nature since they believe they struggled before placing the bet and have the very negative mentality that I suffered alone and I will eat alone. there is Sharing in love, as far as your friend is concerned. Due to the devaluation of the naira, winning a million naira might not even be enough for him to spend, so he tries to avoid paying his friends' bills or even giving them money, but that does not stop the money from being completed unless he wants to invest it. And in conclusion, avoiding them is not necessary, you can just give them a little share of the money.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money.

He may not really be avoiding his friends or maybe he is avoiding them for a good reason. When people know that you have some kind of money sometimes, they can put you under the pressure to spend anyhow on things that will bring momentary pleasure to you as well as them. Maybe this friend is taking time to make his choices and decision regarding the most reasonable way to spend this money he has won before he wins another. These friends need to cut the sense of entitlement and know that the money is not theirs to expect something from. Whatever amount of the money that the friends finally see as okay for them to spend together as friends that gamble together, it is okay, they should be thankful and not expect more because they know what he won.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers

What does it mean? Are there mentally bald people who don't look bald?

Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

This is completely rational behavior. I remember there was a topic here about a player who won a lot of money and he immediately had many relatives and friends who began to borrow money from him (knowing that he was kind-hearted and would not insist on repaying the debt). Apparently this lucky person insures himself against such stories.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

I can think of only 3 reasons why that colleague would behave in this way.

1. He wants to stay low because he doesn't want many people to know about his winning. We know that lots of money brings unwanted attention and may be that's why he is keeping distance from everyone until he figures out what to do with this money.

2. He would be thinking that his colleagues would ask him for money and he doesn't want to give them any.

3. He might be busy enjoying his reward elsewhere.

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Quote from: Eternad on October 11, 2023, 10:33:42 AM

Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Probably you didn’t know what’s the customary when winning a huge win. Probably the person who won the prize wants to enjoy himself the prize money and wants privacy because you will tons of requests asking for share on the huge profit since they are acquainted to you. It’s some kind of socializing to maintain good connection with the community.

I will the same if I win huge jackpot since your life might put into danger once you soak in on that spotlight since having a money comes with greater risk of being robbed.

His friends gonna rob him? Or maybe he avoids them because those guys are bad luck. Grin

We can only assume what the guy is thinking but these are never facts. He could just be needing another set of new gambling friends since he now can afford to become a high roller.
Something bad is going to happen to him thats for sure. If he avoids them for good then he will not have good friends anymore. Sooner the new friends he would meet are the ones with motives.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

When I see stuff like this, it irritates me. Why do you have to change after winning money? Actually things like this happen frequently but it doesn't make sense. But use money to test people's behavior if you want to learn more about them. It Simply demonstrates that the guy is not a true friend. Why will you stop hanging out with your friend's now that you are wealthier than them? Perhaps he thing his friends will put all their financial problems on him, but if he is careless and ends up spending the money carelessly, he will return to the friend's he avoiding when he was wealthy. Allow someone to be wealthy if you truly want to get a sense of their true character. Not everyone you call a friend is actually a friend, some are simply acting like one because they are getting something out of you, but once they have money, you'll be able to see what they're really like.

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Quote from: Die_empty on October 11, 2023, 10:37:51 AM

Depending on the amount of money he won, it could be he avoiding them because of security reasons.

It could also be because he feels that they might become parasites so he needs to avoid them. Some friends will seize this opportunity to beg or take a loan from you until they finish the money. It can also be that thier friend feels that they are no longer in his class. Be as it may, it is not good to abandon good old friends.

You have stated two good reasons which can be connected. He can first avoid them for them not to be parasite. Some friends can because of the stinginess of their friend that won big, kidnap him to collect money because he is stingy. But if we also still think about it, the friend can avoid them but that does not mean they can not still kidnap him. I think more towards the parasite direction. What I will also say is that friends know themselves more than other people, I will not conclude in something like this also.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Depending on the amount of money he won, it could be he avoiding them because of security reasons. They are his friends so he knows them more than we do. He might feel insecure because of the amount of money he now controls. There are friends that I will avoid if I win big. We have seen situations where friends organize the kidnapping or robbing of their pal all because of money. When it comes to the issue of money, you can not trust anybody. It is important to regulate your movement when you have some amount in your account.

It could also be because he feels that they might become parasites so he needs to avoid them. Some friends will seize this opportunity to beg or take a loan from you until they finish the money. It can also be that thier friend feels that they are no longer in his class. Be as it may, it is not good to abandon good old friends.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

For me it doesn't really matter if he will avoid each and everyone. Maybe there's a backstory about that, I am not siding to the gambler but maybe he has been betrayed or they don't want for his friend to ask for little money or even to lend some money who knows right. Or maybe just like us he has been persecute because he is a gambler by his so called friends.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Probably you didn’t know what’s the customary when winning a huge win. Probably the person who won the prize wants to enjoy himself the prize money and wants privacy because you will tons of requests asking for share on the huge profit since they are acquainted to you. It’s some kind of socializing to maintain good connection with the community.

I will the same if I win huge jackpot since your life might put into danger once you soak in on that spotlight since having a money comes with greater risk of being robbed.

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Because they don't want to give money to anyone after a big win. Cheesy

Money can blind all close friends and even want to avoid it, that's "money" shows the behavior of who they really are. Undecided

No wonder guys! We always find this when we are around you, I have heard this story, actually I need to tell it. A friend is always with another friend even if they are gambling, but when one person wins a big win, they avoid it for some reason, because they already know that he or she has won big, maybe the intention is not to give the money but the friend says it's too painful because they forget. him after receiving huge money from gambling.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It is because people are different in life and I think only the person that gamble and won huge amount of money would be the best to answer that question. He may avoid them maybe he is not ready to gamble again or he does not want to lavish the money. But he can do all these things without leaving this friends. He is the one that can answer the question correctly.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Maybe you shouldn't think negatively about people who talk about this to their friends, they are close friends, we don't know what is going through the minds of people who win a certain amount of money in gambling or maybe their friend is too pessimistic about their friend, maybe they avoid it for a while to avoid things that we don't know yet and that their friend doesn't know yet.

Why do I say that? There are certain reasons for judging friends who win at gambling and avoid us.
Example:
* I have a friend who gambled and he won, after winning his cell phone was not active, he couldn't contact him and he avoided not seeing us for three days.
But on the fourth day he called and wanted to meet with us, then we met and asked what happened, why are you avoiding and not communicating with us.
He answered: I'm not avoiding and running away from you, it's just that I don't want anyone else to know that I won gambling, except you who know, but now it's safe so we drink and eat.

Maybe the person you saw had their own reasons for that, maybe we should think positively, unless the person who won the gambling really avoided the friend who talked to them for a month or two, maybe you have to ask why and what happened.

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Maybe he’s decided to avoid them because he associates them with gambling and knows if he meets them he might do something stupid and blow his winnings by gambling them away.

Maybe they always ask to borrow money from him and with a big win they will expect him to give them some. There could be lots of reasons why he is avoiding them, let’s not judge him without more context.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It's normal someone avoids other people after a big win, especially if envy and opportunism is spotted on them. Actually, it's a security measure gamblers should adopt, even regards family and relatives. After a big win, lots of people will start approaching with interest on your prize and on what you can proportionate them in material matters.

We can't judge if those bald men were close friends to the winner gambler and how their relationship was. Maybe the winner has his personal reasons to get distance from them and wants privacy to enjoy his prize, what should be understood and respected, in every cases. People around should stop paying attention to friends' lives and focus on thriving their own.

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Well, this is not surprising, in fact, this is something that is very common amongst friends most especially those that live in trenches, a place we call ghetto locally.
This is why it is commonly said that, you never know who your brother, sister or friend is until he or she have made some good amount of money.

I have heard or read a story of two friends who put money together to bet on one game, the game won and the total amount of money they won was amounting to over 200 million in their local currency, that is a very huge amount of money, but unfortunately, one of the two friends, packed his things and absconded with the bet ticket while the other was asleep.

This is to tell you how wicked a man can be to his fellow men. Never trust anybody, no matter how good they seem to be, for they might just be hiding their true self in order to please you.

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The other 2 colleagues must have been expecting a handout from the lucky gambler. And maybe the lucky one couldn't share because he already has allocated his funds somewhere and he does know how to say it to his 2 friends. Someone also shared the same story somewhere and that's exactly what happened.

He could really just start saying he has plans for the money he won and buy drinks for the 2 as a way of saying it's all he could share.

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Quote from: Nheer on October 11, 2023, 09:22:48 AM

The saying "Money reveal people" is quite common. I usually don't believe this phrase, and I used to imagine that friends would always have nice intentions towards one another, but I later realised that this is not true because life is full of diverse individuals, each with their own personalities and viewpoints.

It's best to never expect anything from anyone because everyone is out for themselves. This kind of behaviour is nothing new to me anymore, and whenever there are three friends, I usually anticipate one of them to have such an attitude. Why should you be surprised if it occurs amongst friends when it has even happened between blood brothers? When you put expectations on people all you will get from them disappointments so i have learned to live on my own and not expect much from people.

I have come across situations in my life more than once when you expect a friend to do something that he will not do, and then it came as a complete surprise to me when it came to money. After this experience, I stopped believing in trusting relationships between people. There is even an expression that you cannot build a business with friends or relatives because you will definitely quarrel. You also cannot lend money. Many people think that these are just words until they encounter it.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 09:08:54 AM

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

If there is this kind of person who, after winning millions in gambling, avoids acquaintances, almost all or most of those who have won gambling with the jackpot price have this behavior, or sometimes the others are the ones who are not avoided.

If you look at it as a bad attitude, right, but we can't blame him either because what he won is a large amount, maybe the best thing to do if I'm the friend of the winner is to understand him and don't expect that this person will catch up with his won.

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