Topic: Gambling game is not good and everyone should stay away from it - page 12. (Read 2360 times)

Well that's right, they need to take a little time to meditate or think with a calm atmosphere and of course with a clear mind too. You have to think and ask yourself if what you're doing is benefiting you in many ways or even making you worse especially in terms of finances, if indeed they can't think on their own to straighten out their wrong mindset then maybe they should see a psychologist for help, it would be much better and I think it might work, although there is no definite success but maybe by doing that you will be better off in the future.

I admit your way to avoid gambling is pretty good my friend, by doing meditation indirectly it will obviously make our minds calmer, and after that we can think whether gambling is really profitable or not, I'm sure when you are calm then you will be able to be more realistic in seeing gambling. Your calm mind will know what to do and avoid, so this is a pretty good way, because actually what can cure you of gambling addiction is to justify your own mindset, and that's good.

Before any gambling negative consequences will affect the family members, it must have first dealt with you first in such a way you least expect, gambling is not what is not good, but our character and attitude towards how we gamble, if we have a bad mannered culture in gambling and the way we live life in general, it will affect us from hownwe gemble and the people around us as well will have to complain about it, this is more of how are we able to deal with our personal behaviours and cope with how others also cope with us through what we do.

It all comes back to each person principles of how they consider gambling as entertainment or to double their money. and currently, according to the analysis that I can understand from the environment around me, gamblers currently have a very bad mindset, considering that gambling is a place that provides an opportunity to get rich instantly, even though they already realize that it is all about luck, they continue to chase that luck. and believe that no effort is wasted and these bad thoughts are the cause. someone who has an unhealthy mindset towards gambling will definitely get lost in their own thoughts because they have high hopes for gambling to win large amounts and whoever is here this thread is very helpful to make a gambler with big ambitions aware because chasing luck is not good unless you bet, try your luck with a small and consistent amount and if you get a win that you think is a big win, quit immediately.

That is a difficult thing to do and would require a bit of meditation as well. Not everyone can be alone with their thoughts but if they can spend just an hour doing that they would be a better person, I try to do it as much as I can but that doesn't mean that it would make sense to gamble right afterwards.

It means that whenever I want to gamble and shouldn't, I just take an hour alone with myself and relax, it doesn't have to start at the high level, you can literally just put on some nice sounds, like white noise type of thing, or ocean sounds, and then lay next to it on your bed, and just think, if yo udo that for an hour you will not gamble that day. Or at least that's how it happens to me when I want to avoid it.

That is a bad thing and it is better for them to immediately realize it and not return to gambling again rather than having to experience losing money, which might be even more.
It is better to replace their dream of becoming rich with something other than gambling because it is difficult for them to achieve.
Moreover, they also know that gambling is about luck and skill so they cannot always win and get money.
If they understand this and are willing to start looking for other ways besides gambling, their chances of making money can be greater than gambling.
But if they don't want to try it, we can't do anything because we can only suggest it to them and the rest is up to them to do it.

I don't think it's a bad thing if the gambler seeks help for his family here. So long as he manages his gambling properly, right? That's fine as long as he doesn't have a "gambling addiction." They appear to be gambling responsibly". Because it is better to stop gambling first if it truly destroys the family or something else; it is that easy.

You can't blame others either, because for some, gambling is their only hope of getting out of poverty, based on their beliefs. You can't stop them from betting on that, just like you can't stop them from betting on the lottery. It is entirely up to the individual to manage it effectively.

The problem is that we are talking about people who are gambling BECAUSE they are people like that, and that's an issue. They are gambling because they do not have self control, they are gambling because they are poor with a dream of getting richer and all that. Which is of course a terrible thing but there is nothing to do about it.

This is why I believe that we are going to end up with a lot more issues, and should be considered a lot more troublesome on the long run. I get that we are going to end up with some issues one way or another, but that doesn't mean that we are going to end up with anything that would cause too much trouble on the long run. I believe that we need to end up with some issues short term if we are careful.

Of course, that's a better alternative than constantly chasing a win that's clearly not there. I'm sure they will also get bored with such conditions, the mental pressure there is very large, especially if they never have any luck at all. They need time to go on vacation and calm their minds, then after that talk to their closest friends or family to find a better solution, I'm sure some of their closest people will also definitely suggest finding a new hobby that is more fun and definitely not related to gambling. But well I understand it's not easy, but that doesn't mean it's impossible. You can start slowly and the way I think is by limiting your gambling time and also by reducing the amount of your budget, do it slowly until your mind considers that this is just a stupid activity that is not profitable at all, your hopes are just nonsense about winning.

The average is like that, it's true that usually those who come to gamble are from among people who are financially poor they come with high hopes, always praying that the money they bring can be multiplied with victory. So the actual facts in gambling are not really taken seriously, they only focus on unreasonable beliefs and eventually lose again. So don't be easily tempted, because it's just the beginning of the trap.

You know when gamblers read the stories of those who are addicted to gambling and how it has ruined their lives, the first thing that comes to their minds is that , it can't happen to me. They think that the other person was careless and they would be careful with their gambling. What they don't know is that you may be in denial of your gambling addiction until someone points it out to you or until an area of your live have been affected.

We may not be able to help to brighten your life but you have to step forward yourself to brighten your life. You have to work hard but can find light in your life. Here you say your father was a gambling addict and your life has been completely ruined by your father's gambling addiction. Here I will blame you the most because you as your father's son had your responsibility to bring your father back to the path of light. But you may not have tried that. If you had tried to bring your father back to the path of light with good advice, you would surely have succeeded.

Finally I want to say that gambling is not a bad game. This gambling should be taken as entertainment but gambling should never become an addiction. Those who have become addicted to gambling are the ones who have suffered the most. OP you should learn from your father. If you can learn from this extreme situation of your father, you will definitely not become addicted to gambling.

Thinking from the person's point of view they think that casino gambling is profitable. Preventing addiction these are usually based on the individual's own will apart from luck bets are placed in this game rather it is a test of present intelligence. It gives an opportunity to win huge amount of money quickly. This advantage is counterbalanced by the fact that betting can also lead to significant financial losses people who engage in betting often end up in debt which can lead to serious financial problems. Hope back to bitcoin is really good here there is not so much risk as gambling it is easy to get good profit if you hold for long term.

That means they have to learn to balance their thoughts and start trying to divert them to things that have nothing to do with gambling. This can be done if accompanied by a desire to do something else or do other activities so that he will not think about gambling. But often, those whose finances are not good try to gamble because they hope they can win and get money even though it won't give them a win. They put aside their daily needs and prefer to gamble because of the temptation to make money from gambling, even though they know gambling is not a place to make money. They think that playing gambling can give them both winnings and money so they never stop trying.

And yes, that's the point of learning self-control so we don't use gambling as a source of income. It won't work well because people will face many losses and could cost them all their money without realizing it. It is difficult to apply complete self-control because we will see so many temptations in gambling that we are often tempted and continue to gamble. That's why we must practice it often to resist the temptation and not continue gambling if we've gambled enough.

It's really hard to change especially when you are in an environment that always tempts you to get back to that addiction and when you have some friends who always lure you to do the same thing. that's why the number one remedy is to get away from such things. find someplace that makes you forget everything including your routine and also your friends that you hang out with every day while gambling. It's important to always take care of ourselves first before taking care of others while we are struggling and about to fall into addiction. thankfully you were able to change yourself before it's too late.

What did you mean by a common man can never afford to gamble?
Did you mean an average Joe cannot afford to gamble? If you mean that, I am sorry to inform you that I have seen a lot of active gamblers from 3rd world countries. Winning and losing is a part of gambling. whoever starts gambling knows these things. However, you suggest people start trading Bitcoin. Do you think all trade results will be won? Of course not. The most experienced trader may have a loose trade as well. If Bitcoin investors cannot wait enough time, they will end up losing.

Sure, and sometimes there are those who find it difficult to balance everything in their lives, one of the things that usually happens is when their minds are always difficult to balance between needs and wants, they are often deceived and assume that this is their need when it is just their desire. For example in gambling, maybe they already know that gambling is risky and also they know their finances are not good but their desires driven by curiosity always want to do it, instead of getting the victory as they expected at the beginning at that time instead ended up losing and their money ran out. I don't know why they are so convinced that putting aside their needs to continue living just to gamble and lose, it's not healthy. And well, many have done it because their expectations are too high in seeing this gambling.

Well self-control is indeed the main point wherever you gamble or in any field that is indeed risky, but honestly it seems to me that it is difficult to be able to apply self-control completely, it is very difficult, especially when they are too ambitious and always want more than what they have got. I think if you really feel this is not profitable at all then it's better to find a way to stop but well by pushing yourself with self-control too, limit all your activities there slowly.

Every coin has two sides... Gambling is a vice, and like many other vices can bring fun & entertainment, but if we abuse it it can ruin us. That's something we learn as we live, nobody is born with knowledge and experience, we test everything around and in that process, we need to learn about our capabilities and limits. And of course, we make mistakes, it's natural... it's one of the learning ways.

Whether it is difficult or not for someone to survive depends on their will because if someone is still trying to survive, they still have the opportunity to get something that can help them survive. Indeed, he must be careful with gambling because gambling can make him suffer due to a lack of self-control, leading him too deep into gambling. That is why if you want to gamble, you must always remember self-control because if not, you will not be able to prevent the desire to gamble continuously and it will be more risky for you. We can only get pleasure from gambling without having a big opportunity to make money, so we have to look for money from other places.

its a two way thing, it can make you and also ruin you. you need some luck to win and that is very scarce. Most times the issue is how to stop or take a break before you get addicted. the hope to win after every trial is what makes people want to try more. no matter how you say it for people to stay away it still wont work because its an easily presenting opportunity to make money. not many people can have a change of thought and turn back so its a good thing that you are able to do that and  i hope you will remain patient enough after coming back to bitcoin.

Majority say gambling provide fun but I think even with the fun people still gamble with the major interest to actually add up some little earning because I think that's just the nature of humans. Gambling is not actually a good habit likewise not also a bad habit because if there is control and limit to fully knowing your boundaries then I don't think you will have any problem with the act

I think it is not the gambling that ruins your father's life but his own decision.  First, no one forced your father to gamble, it is his own.  Second, your father failed to control himself, if only he prioritized his family than his own entertainment then he could have gambled responsibly and did not experience any financial difficulties.  

The same goes with any person, I always believe that anything that happens to a person is the result of his own decision unless he is forced to do something out of his will and gambling we all know don't do that because it is not capable of doing such kind of action.

The best action I can think of is to avoid gambling if we are not confident that we can have self-control or can't gamble responsibly.  But if we are capable of moderating ourselves, I do not think that gambling will affect us negatively.