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Topic: Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? (Read 3416 times)

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January 13, 2018, 04:55:50 PM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
What if someone is controlling himself from not putting much money on stake but still he is not making any progress? Brother this is not about controlling, this is all about the nature of the source. If you don’t have a wise mind, lend it from someone and just consider this gambling. Check whether it is profitable for you or not. You will easily get the answer for this complex game.
In fact most of the gamblers have no limits for their game and they gamble till they lose everything and many people wants their money back at the same time and goes into debt. I have seen many gamblers who lost their houses in gambling. It means that they have no controls on their minds to stop gambling when they lose all their money and gambling more leave them in debts.
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January 09, 2018, 09:33:43 AM
When I started learning about BTC back in Feb. I started claiming from faucets. There was one faucet who made my $0.27 into $20 by gambling. I thought it was a good deal and started putting real money on it. Started with $20, $40, $100. I've lost it all. That's where I started asking for loans to recover my losses and long story short, I even lost the rest in gambling. I've lost 0.1 BTC overall. Should be worth something today if I've just kept it. Well, I now only play with my faucet claims, and use my free money in trading. Much lesser gains than gambling, but much lesser risks. And I'm back here trying to get something extra to recuperate my losses.
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January 09, 2018, 09:25:21 AM
I think the best solution for them is to stop gambling and pay their debt,
They should work hard to pay for their debt it is their fault after all.
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January 09, 2018, 09:02:38 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
What if someone is controlling himself from not putting much money on stake but still he is not making any progress? Brother this is not about controlling, this is all about the nature of the source. If you don’t have a wise mind, lend it from someone and just consider this gambling. Check whether it is profitable for you or not. You will easily get the answer for this complex game.

Telling a gambler to self control is like telling a pizza lover hey there's pizza but don't eat it. Gambler's can never do self control it's just not made for them. I remember myself down in debt of 5k and I was litteraly scrapping through my way, doing odd jobs to pay of my debts and that was one of my worst time of my life I yet get the cold running during my back, when I remember those days.
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January 09, 2018, 08:25:19 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
What if someone is controlling himself from not putting much money on stake but still he is not making any progress? Brother this is not about controlling, this is all about the nature of the source. If you don’t have a wise mind, lend it from someone and just consider this gambling. Check whether it is profitable for you or not. You will easily get the answer for this complex game.
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January 08, 2018, 02:48:09 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.


Agree mostly those gambler that has a debt the family mostly paying the debts because he cant repay it . Mostly of the gamblers will loan a money because thinking that they could get back their losses but end up lossing more. Mostly those addicted one is really a lot of debts because they cant mostly control their feelings on spending it , they only just bet and bet and hoping they could win big and not thinking their debts

I hate those kinds of people, those who will beg that I should let him borrow my money and he will return it immediately but after a month I learned  that he just used his borrowed  money to gamble and he got lose. Now,  he still got some guts to borrow again,  I'll definitely give him a hard punch in his face
That's how the real life of an addict of gambling, they do promising a lot of things but the reality it's just a lie , the game itself destroy everything around. You have a plan but then get broken by the greedy. Since money always involved here then getting loan fund become the worst idea ever that no one should do it.
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January 08, 2018, 02:06:29 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 


Exactly, there are many out there who call themselves gamblers but they don't fit that description because they lack the discipline and self control to be able to compete against the house effectively. I call such folks irresponsible risk takers and not gamblers.
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January 08, 2018, 01:07:30 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 

I don't think that they won't fit in, but they would fit in in the addicted gamblers label because they can't control themselves anymore. If you have no way of controlling what you do then that's definitely how the things are going to get going. You need to really come up with a way to control yourself.
It seems that this problem was always been there as problem gamblers suffer with emotions, thinking that they can win back those loses that they already got and keep trying to find some luck, and instead of quitting after winning some they usually continue and suffer again big loses, it will just keep repeating so better to find solution or start quitting this activity.
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January 07, 2018, 11:20:34 PM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 

I don't think that they won't fit in, but they would fit in in the addicted gamblers label because they can't control themselves anymore. If you have no way of controlling what you do then that's definitely how the things are going to get going. You need to really come up with a way to control yourself.
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January 07, 2018, 07:53:19 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
Self-control is paramount. If you do not know how to control yourself then you do not fit in the gambling world. Gambling without self-control will only make you a loser. For example, owe only to gamble, it is a real loser.
 The real loser in the gambling world is like that.
 
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January 07, 2018, 07:10:39 AM
Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.

You're absolutely right mate, most gamblers were addicted that they will bet as much as they can aiming to win but in the end they will go home nothing left in their wallet. In the worst case they will do bad things like robbery and commit a crime. This all thing was happened due to greediness of a gambler person and having too many debt. Also, a gambler person can't control easily because of being addicted and they must be discipline and if possible to go in a rehabilitation.
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December 25, 2017, 01:24:06 PM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
People always tend to lose control whenever they are gambling, they put limits on how much they are going to gamble but they end up going way overboard in the process.  They can't seem to help it at all. But since they have hope of winning money they keep on coming for more.
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December 25, 2017, 12:43:07 PM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.

I beg to differ because a lot of gamblers have been successful too and can't say that gambling is  a bad thing because it even gives employment to some people and they pay taxes to the government. Those that play it can be bad people and not gambling itself because irresponsible people also play and they loose their monies most of the time and earn that bad name  for gambling which shouldn't be so,.
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December 25, 2017, 05:12:38 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.

You know that gambling is not a good thing overall , don't do it when you always losing control.
Because the debts come from the desire you want to recover what you have lost and it was an addiction.
I do believe a lot of people get in this kind trouble , that is the life of a gambler.
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December 25, 2017, 04:14:42 AM
I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really. Sad
I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.
It means that you passed some hard time in the past and it is all because of gambling. Better not to gamble again. I have seen a lot of gamblers who have lost even their homes, cars, businesses and everything and they never make anything form gambling.

Gambling is not good and also illegal in many countries, the reason for banning is that it is a bad thing and you can come to roads from a palace.
Gambling can really make your life miserable and experience things that you didnt even imagine that would happen into your entire life.It can really wreck out someones life if you let your addiction control you specially on gambling we do know it involved money and money is the main thing we do need to live on this world. Sustaining our needs, food,shelter and other priorities and if you did compromise it because of gambling you would really suffer the consequences.
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December 25, 2017, 04:12:32 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.


Agree mostly those gambler that has a debt the family mostly paying the debts because he cant repay it . Mostly of the gamblers will loan a money because thinking that they could get back their losses but end up lossing more. Mostly those addicted one is really a lot of debts because they cant mostly control their feelings on spending it , they only just bet and bet and hoping they could win big and not thinking their debts

I hate those kinds of people, those who will beg that I should let him borrow my money and he will return it immediately but after a month I learned  that he just used his borrowed  money to gamble and he got lose. Now,  he still got some guts to borrow again,  I'll definitely give him a hard punch in his face
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December 25, 2017, 03:58:33 AM
I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really. Sad
I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.
It means that you passed some hard time in the past and it is all because of gambling. Better not to gamble again. I have seen a lot of gamblers who have lost even their homes, cars, businesses and everything and they never make anything form gambling.

Gambling is not good and also illegal in many countries, the reason for banning is that it is a bad thing and you can come to roads from a palace.
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December 24, 2017, 08:00:06 AM
Being in debt is the worst thing one can get into. Having debt is quite stressing and quite demotivating.
Gambling can offcourse cause debt. But being in debt and still being involved in gambling is the most threatfull thing.

When one is already in debt, doing something that may possibly and cause and potentially bring more debt is not suggestive. One should try and come out of debt and then only think of gambling or any sort of such game or investment.

One will end up getting more deep into the pit of debt if they continue gambling.
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December 23, 2017, 02:41:54 AM
It's kind of useless to ask an addicted gambler who is in debt to stop gambling, and thats because the only way for him to pay back people or cut his losses is to gamble even more. I learned that after recovering from similar situations so i would suggest that he play smart and remain focused and maybe luck will be on his side.
Addicted people always try to arrange money from different sources either they are in debt or credit, As gambling is a game of luck and no one can become lucky for every time. Therefore most of the gambler remain as in debt. But I think it is not right to say that they will stop playing gambling. They will even manage to get money and will continue playing gambling

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.
Yes that is right but I think still most of the people even having limit for their gambling but still they cannot control themselves from playing gambling. In fact gambling is such kind of games which compel people to continue playing gambling even after reaching to their limits even they take loan for continue playing gambling and that is the reason that most of the gamblers remain in debt.
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December 20, 2017, 02:47:25 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.

Not many people do that anyways i think. People who are desperate and can think of no other ways to make money are probably those that do this. You're just making things a whole lot worse. There may be those that are saved by gambling but that mostly happen in movies

and we can hope that if someday we are in debts, we don't use that money to play gambling to make money. I think there are many people that realize about this and somehow they can use that money to open their business and after running for some period they can pay the money.
This totally depends upon how intelligent a gambler is. If he’s smart enough, he will definitely not gamble from debts because it will put him in financial crisis which would be situation difficult to handle for his family and himself also.

But if the gambler is so addicted and is absent minded and also relies on a single statement “I will see” then surely he would play with his debts when empty handed and the results will be not in his favor.
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