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Quote from: len01 on November 15, 2023, 02:43:25 AM

Quote from: Dewi Aries on November 15, 2023, 02:03:15 AM

The chances of being able to stop gambling can indeed be said to be very slim, especially if they are already heavily addicted, of course it will be difficult to get rid of the addiction that has been attached and ingrained. Not to mention those who cannot accept advice from other people, friends or family, they can even rebel when advised because their brains have been quasi by gambling so they cannot accept when advised, the main key is in themselves. if they are sure and consistent to stop gambling maybe they can do it, but on the contrary, if they do it without really doing it, it will only be a waste of time.
It's true what you said. People who are already heavily addicted will do anything when they have run out of capital to gamble, even if it is at great risk to them, as you said committing crimes such as stealing or others which essentially with great risk, of course this is clearly endangering themselves. and in the end they will be confused themselves.

stopping a gambling addiction is indeed a difficult thing when an addict still has a budget for gambling and if it is possible that he runs out of budget he still has a way to continue to indulge in the desire to gamble and what I know is that a gambling addict will be able to stop if God reminds him.
I mean a compulsive gambler who finds it difficult to accept advice from other people, they will only become aware and have the desire to stop gambling when they no longer have anything, even they have lost their house, etc. as if they have become addicted and at that time the addict will feel sorry for their actions and want to recover from their addiction.

but all of that still depends on one own commitment because there are many people who have lost whatever they had by gambling and trying to steal, being caught by the police and in prison. after leaving prison, they are still gambling, which means that commitment is very important.

Even when they have run out of money they can take out loans or worse, they can commit crimes that harm them and can even harm them. It is true that you said they will realize after losing money and all their valuable assets such as houses or whatever they have, it is difficult for them to accept advice from others who try to help them get rid of the addiction. But it's a fact and most of them are like that.

And I think those who have tried to quit will also be easily tempted again if they don't have a strong stance and commitment like you said, Even they can undo their intention to stop gambling because they see their friends who get big wins that all gamblers want, So does commitment play an important role in this? or is there something else?
I think there are many other important things and everyone also seems to know the important things related to quitting gambling.

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Quote from: South Park on November 14, 2023, 03:15:47 PM

Quote from: Wakate on November 08, 2023, 01:38:29 PM

when an effected gambler that is addicted with excessive gambling and does not want to stop or reduce the way they gamble, it is always better for people to leave the person alone for them to continue gambling because no matter how hard we try to help the person, the affect gambler might not know the worth. Anybody that is ready to change from being an addicted gambler to being a normal gambler, just little effort from people to help him would work and have a great effect on them. This is why we don't have to force people to stop the lifestyle of excessive gambling if they don't have to adhere to instructions.

It is true we can only help those that want to help themselves, and this is true not only in gambling but in life in general, we see this here when a newbie comes to this forum and wants to invest in a coin that is an obvious scam and forum members try to help them out and suggest they do not do it, but since those newbies believe this is the way to make a lot of money they refuse to listen the advice that we give them, only to lose their investment and come to the forum to tell the story of their failure.

That is a compete tragedy of life and we need to make sure that we don't get deceive because we want to make.more money from different investment. A lot had cried and lost everything through the simple scenerio you just illustrated. There are people that don't listen to anyone opinion even when they ask for advise. They mostly feel like they are okay and knows everything but when they finally got deceived, they will come back crying for their loses not for the mistake they made and ready to make a new leave.

There are also people that listen to other people's opinions based on their state of emotions, they mostly allow emotions to eat them up and they can only take your suggestions when they have made the worse mistake and ready to make adjustments because of their loses.

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Quote from: len01 on November 08, 2023, 01:04:54 PM

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whatever happens, in the end only the family is able to give an addict the strength to quit his addiction. there is no medicine or medical treatment that is the best except family.

so I also often say that if you often engage in gambling activities, it would be better not to hide this activity from your own family at least 1 member of the family must know so that if something bad happens like that, they can provide good support.

The approach taken by his family can be carried out as long as they can find an approach that is suitable for him in treating his gambling addiction. The approach from his family can encourage a gambling addict to see that his family still supports him in being able to cure his gambling addiction and is still with him in every therapy session. Maybe it will give him a quicker time than usual because the encouragement and encouragement from his family can show the gambling addict that he is not alone.

So we should be really careful when gambling, especially if we hide our gambling activities so that no problems will arise after we finish gambling. We also don't want to worry our family if they end up finding out that we are gambling. Maybe it would be better if we really reduce our gambling activities and try to live it as well as possible until we can finally stop gambling.

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Quote from: South Park on November 06, 2023, 02:28:01 PM

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Once a person is in that state it is very difficult for them to stop without any help, however even if their family members were willing to help them, it is unlikely they will actually listen as they are not going to believe they cannot recover the money they have lost, it is only once they have lost it all when they finally understand what they have done, but by that time it is too late and there are even some of their family members which will at the time want nothing to do with them as they will be incredibly mad at how irresponsible they were.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

What you say is true; even most addicted gamblers find it difficult to explain because their minds are closed to changing or reducing their gambling addiction. Unless they themselves initiate that, they really want to change and get rid of their gambling addiction.

Therefore, in the case of a gambling addict, it only proves that it is not easy on their part to make a change in themselves in the world of gambling. But I hope they can overcome it with their own effort.

Not easy as their minds is already polluted and what matters in them is just to keep playing and please the desire that they want, and like both of you are saying without that self-will from the gambler itself there's no changes that will take place, it's needed to come first from the person itself and initiate his desire to quit away,

from that point there are relatives and friends who can help in assisting him to change his direction, even to the point that he needed to have a professional help, it will be hard and nothing can argue with that especially if the level of addiction is already deep.

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Quote from: Dewi Aries on November 15, 2023, 02:03:15 AM

The chances of being able to stop gambling can indeed be said to be very slim, especially if they are already heavily addicted, of course it will be difficult to get rid of the addiction that has been attached and ingrained. Not to mention those who cannot accept advice from other people, friends or family, they can even rebel when advised because their brains have been quasi by gambling so they cannot accept when advised, the main key is in themselves. if they are sure and consistent to stop gambling maybe they can do it, but on the contrary, if they do it without really doing it, it will only be a waste of time.
It's true what you said. People who are already heavily addicted will do anything when they have run out of capital to gamble, even if it is at great risk to them, as you said committing crimes such as stealing or others which essentially with great risk, of course this is clearly endangering themselves. and in the end they will be confused themselves.

stopping a gambling addiction is indeed a difficult thing when an addict still has a budget for gambling and if it is possible that he runs out of budget he still has a way to continue to indulge in the desire to gamble and what I know is that a gambling addict will be able to stop if God reminds him.
I mean a compulsive gambler who finds it difficult to accept advice from other people, they will only become aware and have the desire to stop gambling when they no longer have anything, even they have lost their house, etc. as if they have become addicted and at that time the addict will feel sorry for their actions and want to recover from their addiction.

but all of that still depends on one own commitment because there are many people who have lost whatever they had by gambling and trying to steal, being caught by the police and in prison. after leaving prison, they are still gambling, which means that commitment is very important.

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Quote from: TelolettOm on November 14, 2023, 06:45:12 PM

Quote from: Oilacris on November 14, 2023, 04:15:10 PM

You are the only ones who could really be able to stop such possible addiction towards gambling on which you wouldnt really be putting yourself on such risks if you are really just that responsible towards your actions on which it would really be just that needed for you to have that control so that you would really be able to get away with that potential addiction which is something that you might be that ending up on a disaster if you arent that mindful towards your actions. Addiction is something a huge problem that you would really be potentially be able to experience if you arent that
something that would really be that responsible towards your gambling activity. You should be aware and you should really be that careful so that you wont really be ending up
on something that most gamblers been experiencing.

Maybe for some people this is not a big problem because they have not yet entered the realm of gambling addiction. However, when someone has become an addicted gambler, it will be very difficult to stop and also to manage it. Not everyone consciously wants to manage themselves to be able to control emotions, enthusiasm, and also various things related to gambling when they are in an addicted condition. this is quite difficult to do. Even though it is possible, the percentage may be very small.

Many cases are found to be the result of addicted gambling, it is true that even worse, they can commit criminal things because they are truly addicted, and have nothing left to gamble on. Because of that, in fact, if someone is really addicted to gambling, one way is to control and also help from people around them and also therapists or psychologists or whatever their names are who really have the skills to handle addicted gamblers. This is not only for online gamblers but also offline. but unfortunately not many people choose to go to them.

The chances of being able to stop gambling can indeed be said to be very slim, especially if they are already heavily addicted, of course it will be difficult to get rid of the addiction that has been attached and ingrained. Not to mention those who cannot accept advice from other people, friends or family, they can even rebel when advised because their brains have been quasi by gambling so they cannot accept when advised, the main key is in themselves. if they are sure and consistent to stop gambling maybe they can do it, but on the contrary, if they do it without really doing it, it will only be a waste of time.
It's true what you said. People who are already heavily addicted will do anything when they have run out of capital to gamble, even if it is at great risk to them, as you said committing crimes such as stealing or others which essentially with great risk, of course this is clearly endangering themselves. and in the end they will be confused themselves.

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Quote from: Tuturtinular on November 14, 2023, 06:24:55 PM

Quote from: DaNNy001 on November 08, 2023, 01:21:20 PM

Quote from: moneystery on November 07, 2023, 10:17:24 AM

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

Yes, it's true, it's difficult for gambling addicts to give advice on how to stop gambling. They always thought that they would be able to reverse previous loses. They will look for various ways to gamble even though they don't have money, they will borrow for different reasons, usually they don't say borrow money to gamble because they know that if they borrow to gamble then no one will lend them money.

Addicts usually don't want to admit that they are addicted to gambling, maybe they are embarrassed because they are gambling addicts. They must be helped by professionals so they can get out of the gambling circle before it is too late

I think that is a common problem with gamblers where they are still unable to accept advice or advice from others, because they still have the thoughts that you said that they still feel they can reverse their previous losses. Yes that's right, borrowing money to gamble is common but the reason for gambling is not mentioned because as you said, they wouldn't lend it if it was for gambling so most of them lie when saying the reason for borrowing money. Many people or gamblers make loans here and there, some even make online loans so that they can return to gambling, but along with gambling that always loses they cannot return the money they borrowed from others. And at times like this they are at a loss to return the money they originally borrowed. And I am sure that even if they have money again, it is not to return it but to gamble, because the desire for gambling is so high that they ignore other things, and if it continues like this, life will certainly not be calm, life is surrounded by debts that they do themselves.

It is true that you said that gamblers will not admit that they are addicted, maybe it's because they are ashamed, but even if they are helped by professional people, I think it will still be difficult to do.

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It would depend on how addicted the person is, if they are very addicted to it that it is on their mind most of the time then it would really be hard for them to quit, but if they are just playing for fun then they could just seek for other things that would fill up their needs or entertainment.
Quitting on something not just gambling would take time and effort and of course consistency, so it would all end up on the person's dedication.

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Quote from: DaNNy001 on November 08, 2023, 01:21:20 PM

Quote from: moneystery on November 07, 2023, 10:17:24 AM

Quote from: South Park on November 06, 2023, 02:28:01 PM

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Once a person is in that state it is very difficult for them to stop without any help, however even if their family members were willing to help them, it is unlikely they will actually listen as they are not going to believe they cannot recover the money they have lost, it is only once they have lost it all when they finally understand what they have done, but by that time it is too late and there are even some of their family members which will at the time want nothing to do with them as they will be incredibly mad at how irresponsible they were.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

What you say is true; even most addicted gamblers find it difficult to explain because their minds are closed to changing or reducing their gambling addiction. Unless they themselves initiate that, they really want to change and get rid of their gambling addiction.

Therefore, in the case of a gambling addict, it only proves that it is not easy on their part to make a change in themselves in the world of gambling. But I hope they can overcome it with their own effort.

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Quote from: DaNNy001 on November 08, 2023, 01:21:20 PM

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

Your point is very much valid, an addict will have first admit to the fact that he has gotten to the level of addiction and needs help, if they can firstly realize this, then they can now further proceed to seeking help. Because only when you admit that you are addicted and need help that you will definitely wish to seek one.

Some may excuse their self with the fact that they win and make good money off gambling so they are not addicted but little did they know that consistently gambling without knowing how well to control your self and resist the urge whenever they come at times is a great aspect of gambling that can't be overly emphasis. The best way for an addicted person to get hell is to first admit they need help that way it will make seeking help easier.

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Quote from: Oilacris on November 14, 2023, 04:15:10 PM

You are the only ones who could really be able to stop such possible addiction towards gambling on which you wouldnt really be putting yourself on such risks if you are really just that responsible towards your actions on which it would really be just that needed for you to have that control so that you would really be able to get away with that potential addiction which is something that you might be that ending up on a disaster if you arent that mindful towards your actions. Addiction is something a huge problem that you would really be potentially be able to experience if you arent that
something that would really be that responsible towards your gambling activity. You should be aware and you should really be that careful so that you wont really be ending up
on something that most gamblers been experiencing.

Maybe for some people this is not a big problem because they have not yet entered the realm of gambling addiction. However, when someone has become an addicted gambler, it will be very difficult to stop and also to manage it. Not everyone consciously wants to manage themselves to be able to control emotions, enthusiasm, and also various things related to gambling when they are in an addicted condition. this is quite difficult to do. Even though it is possible, the percentage may be very small.

Many cases are found to be the result of addicted gambling, it is true that even worse, they can commit criminal things because they are truly addicted, and have nothing left to gamble on. Because of that, in fact, if someone is really addicted to gambling, one way is to control and also help from people around them and also therapists or psychologists or whatever their names are who really have the skills to handle addicted gamblers. This is not only for online gamblers but also offline. but unfortunately not many people choose to go to them.

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Quote from: DaNNy001 on November 08, 2023, 01:21:20 PM

Quote from: moneystery on November 07, 2023, 10:17:24 AM

Quote from: South Park on November 06, 2023, 02:28:01 PM

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Once a person is in that state it is very difficult for them to stop without any help, however even if their family members were willing to help them, it is unlikely they will actually listen as they are not going to believe they cannot recover the money they have lost, it is only once they have lost it all when they finally understand what they have done, but by that time it is too late and there are even some of their family members which will at the time want nothing to do with them as they will be incredibly mad at how irresponsible they were.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

Yes, it's true, it's difficult for gambling addicts to give advice on how to stop gambling. They always thought that they would be able to reverse previous loses. They will look for various ways to gamble even though they don't have money, they will borrow for different reasons, usually they don't say borrow money to gamble because they know that if they borrow to gamble then no one will lend them money.

Addicts usually don't want to admit that they are addicted to gambling, maybe they are embarrassed because they are gambling addicts. They must be helped by professionals so they can get out of the gambling circle before it is too late

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Quote from: klidex on November 08, 2023, 09:13:15 PM

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Quote from: klidex on November 07, 2023, 09:26:30 PM

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One of the things that you should really be having in mind is that you shouldnt really be that making yourself getting hooked with gambling or else you would really be having that kind of huge problem.
It might really that simple as it looks or sounds on easy on quitting but its not, if you are on such situation then it would really be that not so easy on getting out until you would really be making yourself not to be able to stop until you lost it all specially with your finances. Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that having that kind of moderation in towards gambling dealing.
Each of us does have that kind of will on whats good and whats bad, it is really just that there are people who are really cant be able to control themselves in speaking about
money and do such foolish things around.

A moderate attitude is very important, we must have limits in gambling. I myself also apply a moderate attitude and be responsible in gambling so that I do not experience a gambling addiction that will harm myself.

therefore I always prevent myself from overdoing my gambling activities, indeed gambling looks tempting if we can win the jackpot but we have to be aware that this will only make us have the ambition to continue gambling, we have to realize that if we make money by gambling is something that is difficult to obtain.

You are the only ones who could really be able to stop such possible addiction towards gambling on which you wouldnt really be putting yourself on such risks if you are really just that responsible towards your actions on which it would really be just that needed for you to have that control so that you would really be able to get away with that potential addiction which is something that you might be that ending up on a disaster if you arent that mindful towards your actions. Addiction is something a huge problem that you would really be potentially be able to experience if you arent that
something that would really be that responsible towards your gambling activity. You should be aware and you should really be that careful so that you wont really be ending up
on something that most gamblers been experiencing.

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Quote from: Wakate on November 08, 2023, 01:38:29 PM

when an effected gambler that is addicted with excessive gambling and does not want to stop or reduce the way they gamble, it is always better for people to leave the person alone for them to continue gambling because no matter how hard we try to help the person, the affect gambler might not know the worth. Anybody that is ready to change from being an addicted gambler to being a normal gambler, just little effort from people to help him would work and have a great effect on them. This is why we don't have to force people to stop the lifestyle of excessive gambling if they don't have to adhere to instructions.

It is true we can only help those that want to help themselves, and this is true not only in gambling but in life in general, we see this here when a newbie comes to this forum and wants to invest in a coin that is an obvious scam and forum members try to help them out and suggest they do not do it, but since those newbies believe this is the way to make a lot of money they refuse to listen the advice that we give them, only to lose their investment and come to the forum to tell the story of their failure.

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Quote from: Wakate on November 08, 2023, 01:38:29 PM

when an effected gambler that is addicted with excessive gambling and does not want to stop or reduce the way they gamble, it is always better for people to leave the person alone for them to continue gambling because no matter how hard we try to help the person, the affect gambler might not know the worth. Anybody that is ready to change from being an addicted gambler to being a normal gambler, just little effort from people to help him would work and have a great effect on them. This is why we don't have to force people to stop the lifestyle of excessive gambling if they don't have to adhere to instructions.

That's because they don't think about suggestions from other people and only think about their pleasure. They should be able to reflect on what they have done in gambling and if gambling has more negative impacts on them, they can take a break first if they cannot stop gambling so that at least they can think about it further. If they don't find any benefit from gambling and it only results in more losses, they don't need to continue gambling otherwise they will experience a gambling addiction later. They need to act maturely in their attitude towards gambling and there is no need to gamble if it only results in more losses.

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Quote from: Oilacris on November 07, 2023, 09:36:16 PM

Quote from: klidex on November 07, 2023, 09:26:30 PM

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One of the things that you should really be having in mind is that you shouldnt really be that making yourself getting hooked with gambling or else you would really be having that kind of huge problem.
It might really that simple as it looks or sounds on easy on quitting but its not, if you are on such situation then it would really be that not so easy on getting out until you would really be making yourself not to be able to stop until you lost it all specially with your finances. Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that having that kind of moderation in towards gambling dealing.
Each of us does have that kind of will on whats good and whats bad, it is really just that there are people who are really cant be able to control themselves in speaking about
money and do such foolish things around.

A moderate attitude is very important, we must have limits in gambling. I myself also apply a moderate attitude and be responsible in gambling so that I do not experience a gambling addiction that will harm myself.

therefore I always prevent myself from overdoing my gambling activities, indeed gambling looks tempting if we can win the jackpot but we have to be aware that this will only make us have the ambition to continue gambling, we have to realize that if we make money by gambling is something that is difficult to obtain.

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Quote from: DaNNy001 on November 08, 2023, 01:21:20 PM

Quote from: moneystery on November 07, 2023, 10:17:24 AM

Quote from: South Park on November 06, 2023, 02:28:01 PM

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Once a person is in that state it is very difficult for them to stop without any help, however even if their family members were willing to help them, it is unlikely they will actually listen as they are not going to believe they cannot recover the money they have lost, it is only once they have lost it all when they finally understand what they have done, but by that time it is too late and there are even some of their family members which will at the time want nothing to do with them as they will be incredibly mad at how irresponsible they were.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

when an effected gambler that is addicted with excessive gambling and does not want to stop or reduce the way they gamble, it is always better for people to leave the person alone for them to continue gambling because no matter how hard we try to help the person, the affect gambler might not know the worth. Anybody that is ready to change from being an addicted gambler to being a normal gambler, just little effort from people to help him would work and have a great effect on them. This is why we don't have to force people to stop the lifestyle of excessive gambling if they don't have to adhere to instructions.

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Quote from: moneystery on November 07, 2023, 10:17:24 AM

Quote from: South Park on November 06, 2023, 02:28:01 PM

...

Once a person is in that state it is very difficult for them to stop without any help, however even if their family members were willing to help them, it is unlikely they will actually listen as they are not going to believe they cannot recover the money they have lost, it is only once they have lost it all when they finally understand what they have done, but by that time it is too late and there are even some of their family members which will at the time want nothing to do with them as they will be incredibly mad at how irresponsible they were.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

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Quote from: maydna on November 08, 2023, 05:55:15 AM

Quote from: len01 on November 07, 2023, 10:01:19 AM

Quote from: maydna on November 07, 2023, 06:17:51 AM

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it is difficult to find a gambling addict who has destroyed his own life and the life of his family and after that he was able to get up to stay away from gambling and improve his life and if we can find an addict like the one described above he needs to be appreciated because he is one of the great people because he was able to defeating himself or defeating his desires in order to live a healthier life.

It is very rare for a gambling addict who is very serious to recover by himself without the help of other people and usually ends tragically, but he is able to realize his commitment to stop being addicted and fight the urge to gamble and choose to become a private driver/taxi driver.

Yes, it rarely happens to most gambling addicts, so if anyone manages to do it, he is one of the lucky ones who can get back his normal life, so he should really pay attention to his family from then on. He doesn't need to go back to gambling again, especially since he has experienced difficult times gambling and has even developed a serious gambling addiction. Fortunately, everything has gone well, so he can get a second chance to organize his life with his family again. He is a great person who is willing to try for his family and do anything to recover from his gambling addiction so that the people around him can appreciate him.

And we can salute him because his struggle has given him another opportunity to start from scratch and use his past as a valuable lesson. He was finally able to work again as a taxi driver, and it was a good job because he could earn income to meet his family's needs.

whatever happens, in the end only the family is able to give an addict the strength to quit his addiction. there is no medicine or medical treatment that is the best except family.

so I also often say that if you often engage in gambling activities, it would be better not to hide this activity from your own family at least 1 member of the family must know so that if something bad happens like that, they can provide good support.

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Quote from: Oilacris on November 07, 2023, 09:36:16 PM

One of the things that you should really be having in mind is that you shouldnt really be that making yourself getting hooked with gambling or else you would really be having that kind of huge problem.
It might really that simple as it looks or sounds on easy on quitting but its not, if you are on such situation then it would really be that not so easy on getting out until you would really be making yourself not to be able to stop until you lost it all specially with your finances. Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that having that kind of moderation in towards gambling dealing.
Each of us does have that kind of will on whats good and whats bad, it is really just that there are people who are really cant be able to control themselves in speaking about
money and do such foolish things around.

Agree, seems so easy if you are not attached yet or you don't have that problem with your gambling control, but the truth is the reason why there are many gambling addicted people is becuase they can't resist the lust that being established inside them, the urgency that they need to please that desire and pleasure that they are attaining each time they play or bet, that's something that undeniable.

Things that if possible, better to stay away or not to let yourself to be involve that much, or else, you will suffer and prone to become addicted.

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