Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 23. (Read 10012 times)

Your point is very much valid, an addict will have first admit to the fact that he has gotten to the level of addiction and needs help, if they can firstly realize this, then they can now further proceed to seeking help. Because only when you admit that you are addicted and need help that you will definitely wish to seek one.

Some may excuse their self with the fact that they win and make good money off gambling so they are not addicted but little did they know that consistently gambling without knowing how well to control your self and resist the urge whenever they come at times is a great aspect of gambling that can't be overly emphasis. The best way for an addicted person to get hell is to first admit they need help that way it will make seeking help easier.

Maybe for some people this is not a big problem because they have not yet entered the realm of gambling addiction. However, when someone has become an addicted gambler, it will be very difficult to stop and also to manage it. Not everyone consciously wants to manage themselves to be able to control emotions, enthusiasm, and also various things related to gambling when they are in an addicted condition. this is quite difficult to do. Even though it is possible, the percentage may be very small.

Many cases are found to be the result of addicted gambling, it is true that even worse, they can commit criminal things because they are truly addicted, and have nothing left to gamble on. Because of that, in fact, if someone is really addicted to gambling, one way is to control and also help from people around them and also therapists or psychologists or whatever their names are who really have the skills to handle addicted gamblers. This is not only for online gamblers but also offline. but unfortunately not many people choose to go to them.

Yes, it's true, it's difficult for gambling addicts to give advice on how to stop gambling. They always thought that they would be able to reverse previous loses. They will look for various ways to gamble even though they don't have money, they will borrow for different reasons, usually they don't say borrow money to gamble because they know that if they borrow to gamble then no one will lend them money.

Addicts usually don't want to admit that they are addicted to gambling, maybe they are embarrassed because they are gambling addicts. They must be helped by professionals so they can get out of the gambling circle before it is too late

You are the only ones who could really be able to stop such possible addiction towards gambling on which you wouldnt really be putting yourself on such risks if you are really just that responsible towards your actions on which it would really be just that needed for you to have that control so that you would really be able to get away with that potential addiction which is something that you might be that ending up on a disaster if you arent that mindful towards your actions. Addiction is something a huge problem that you would really be potentially be able to experience if you arent that
something that would really be that responsible towards your gambling activity. You should be aware and you should really be that careful so that you wont really be ending up
on something that most gamblers been experiencing.

It is true we can only help those that want to help themselves, and this is true not only in gambling but in life in general, we see this here when a newbie comes to this forum and wants to invest in a coin that is an obvious scam and forum members try to help them out and suggest they do not do it, but since those newbies believe this is the way to make a lot of money they refuse to listen the advice that we give them, only to lose their investment and come to the forum to tell the story of their failure.

That's because they don't think about suggestions from other people and only think about their pleasure. They should be able to reflect on what they have done in gambling and if gambling has more negative impacts on them, they can take a break first if they cannot stop gambling so that at least they can think about it further. If they don't find any benefit from gambling and it only results in more losses, they don't need to continue gambling otherwise they will experience a gambling addiction later. They need to act maturely in their attitude towards gambling and there is no need to gamble if it only results in more losses.

A moderate attitude is very important, we must have limits in gambling. I myself also apply a moderate attitude and be responsible in gambling so that I do not experience a gambling addiction that will harm myself.

therefore I always prevent myself from overdoing my gambling activities, indeed gambling looks tempting if we can win the jackpot but we have to be aware that this will only make us have the ambition to continue gambling, we have to realize that if we make money by gambling is something that is difficult to obtain.

when an effected gambler that is addicted with excessive gambling and does not want to stop or reduce the way they gamble, it is always better for people to leave the person alone for them to continue gambling because no matter how hard we try to help the person, the affect gambler might not know the worth. Anybody that is ready to change from being an addicted gambler to being a normal gambler, just little effort from people to help him would work and have a great effect on them. This is why we don't have to force people to stop the lifestyle of excessive gambling if they don't have to adhere to instructions.

An addicted person will hardly take your advice because what he seem to be doing will be always correct in his eyes and that because he is never content and the feeling to keep going is always driving him crazy. I kind of believe, the only way an addicted person can help himself is to find out the core cause and discipline himself because if it is only advice then I can bet my money that it won't be easy to stop it.

whatever happens, in the end only the family is able to give an addict the strength to quit his addiction. there is no medicine or medical treatment that is the best except family.

so I also often say that if you often engage in gambling activities, it would be better not to hide this activity from your own family at least 1 member of the family must know so that if something bad happens like that, they can provide good support.

Agree, seems so easy if you are not attached yet or you don't have that problem with your gambling control, but the truth is the reason why there are many gambling addicted people is becuase they can't resist the lust that being established inside them, the urgency that they need to please that desire and pleasure that they are attaining each time they play or bet, that's something that undeniable.

Things that if possible, better to stay away or not to let yourself to be involve that much, or else, you will suffer and prone to become addicted.

Yes, it rarely happens to most gambling addicts, so if anyone manages to do it, he is one of the lucky ones who can get back his normal life, so he should really pay attention to his family from then on. He doesn't need to go back to gambling again, especially since he has experienced difficult times gambling and has even developed a serious gambling addiction. Fortunately, everything has gone well, so he can get a second chance to organize his life with his family again. He is a great person who is willing to try for his family and do anything to recover from his gambling addiction so that the people around him can appreciate him.

And we can salute him because his struggle has given him another opportunity to start from scratch and use his past as a valuable lesson. He was finally able to work again as a taxi driver, and it was a good job because he could earn income to meet his family's needs.

It was a joyful moment for his wife after finding out that her husband had completely recovered from his gambling addiction. It was really a surprise for his wife and family that they could still be together again, but this time, they started with a new life different from previous years.

This proves to us that even a serious gambling addict can cure himself by undergoing all the therapy he needs. Cases like this are rare, and only a small percentage can cure gambling addiction, but if this is improved further, the recovery from gambling addiction will increase. This requires help from all parties, not only from his family but also from the gambling addict who really wants to heal himself and prove to his family that he is capable of doing it. And with strong encouragement from his family, he was able to cure his gambling addiction.

Yeah! I myself was very surprised when, many years ago, his wife took me aside and quietly said to me: “You know, my husband now has no desire to gamble at all. He is completely cured! I pray that this nightmare does not begin  again!".  And many years have passed since then. 
And everything in their family has been good since then. 
This is probably that rare case when gambling addiction is overcome and a former very gambling gammbler, who suffered from gambling addiction in the past almost to the point of illness, becomes a completely normal person.  Satisfied with life.  Even though they and their family do not live richly.  But overall they are doing well.

One of the things that you should really be having in mind is that you shouldnt really be that making yourself getting hooked with gambling or else you would really be having that kind of huge problem.
It might really that simple as it looks or sounds on easy on quitting but its not, if you are on such situation then it would really be that not so easy on getting out until you would really be making yourself not to be able to stop until you lost it all specially with your finances. Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that having that kind of moderation in towards gambling dealing.
Each of us does have that kind of will on whats good and whats bad, it is really just that there are people who are really cant be able to control themselves in speaking about
money and do such foolish things around.

Gambling addiction is indeed very difficult to cure, right and yes, perhaps gambling addicts have to really feel the loss of everything first to make them aware and regret their actions because they gamble too much and this will have an impact on their financial condition and relationships.
I personally don't really like someone who is too obsessed with gambling, but that doesn't mean I don't allow my partner to gamble, gamble in a reasonable amount and not too excessively so that one day if you want to leave gambling it won't be too difficult because we won't reach the "addiction" stage. ".

Even the family and loved ones of an addict would get tired of trying to help him out. They’ll surely try but an addict that’s hooked with no immediate plans to sober up, would constantly be a liability to everyone around.
It’s obviously not easy to quit gambling when you’re already addicted cause like any other addiction, it started as a habit.
You would first make the decision within yourself to quit that habit that has gotten you addicted. Only then would you be open to help and ideas from family and friends on how to get better.

Of course, because if at the beginning of the registration, they will not realize that what they are doing is wrong, maybe because they only think about the victory they will get so they don't think about the harmful effects of gambling. It is difficult to realize that so they will not be easy to stop gambling addiction.

It is not difficult anymore, there is even a possibility that those who are addicted to gambling will not listen to advice from people, some are even angry when advised, so if it is difficult to advise someone who is addicted to gambling, in my opinion, it is better to leave it alone, let him alone realize the impact of gambling that has harmed them.

I also believe that your families are very helpful in this problem because you have someone to fight with. So if you are ashamed to tell your family that you are addicted to gambling, don't be. They are your family, they are the first one to help you when you are in trouble. It's okay to fight alone if you really can but it's even better if you have someone to lean on, you're not alone.

regret always comes later and that is what will be experienced by gamblers who have lost everything and they want it all to come back to them. and therefore before it is too late, a gambler must first realize that what they are doing is wrong. even though it is quite difficult to advise them, as the closest people of course we have to be able to give them advice, even in the end they will reject it, but no one can give them advice other than us, the closest people to them.

it is difficult to find a gambling addict who has destroyed his own life and the life of his family and after that he was able to get up to stay away from gambling and improve his life and if we can find an addict like the one described above he needs to be appreciated because he is one of the great people because he was able to defeating himself or defeating his desires in order to live a healthier life.

It is very rare for a gambling addict who is very serious to recover by himself without the help of other people and usually ends tragically, but he is able to realize his commitment to stop being addicted and fight the urge to gamble and choose to become a private driver/taxi driver.