Also are you really saying with a straight face that XMR (or any other coin) can take #1's BTC marketcap spot?
It admittedly seems a long shot today. However, if Bitcoin does not stop pushing usage away, where do you think people will go to make transactions?
How can XMR deliver in its duty to be a censorship resistant tool when the network is centralized in such a small amount of nodes and it will only get worse as the blocksize becomes humongous?
Decentralization is not measured in absolute number of nodes. It is measured in lack of barriers in becoming a first-class citizen of the network. And while you seem to be panicked over your 300 Baud modem and an old PC-xt class of processing, the more forward looking amongst us understand something about the march of technological progress.
[OK... there was sarcasm employed there. A little.]
Seems to me that BTC with the future anonymous feature additions will be safer.
OK, I'll bite... _what_ anonymous features? We've been working over four years on a simple maxblocksize increase.
You use some sarcasms using about 300 Baud modem and old PCs not being able to be nodes, but yet you seriously say that bitcoin is pushing people away from the network because they have to pay a couple cents to send a transaction? get real.
Monero has bigger problems to scale than bitcoin. Bitcoin has a solid roadmap, we'll eventually get LN, no need to rush, nobody is going to care about bitcoin in the grand scheme of things until years from now.
Monero will need a 2nd layer solution too if they want to scale anywhere notable, since it's impossible to scale onchain unless you want datacenters running nodes, which renders the anonimity features of the coin useless.
And yes, it's not only about amount of nodes, but how widespread they are. A network of 5000 nodes ran by random people on their basements is indeed way more secure than a network run by super computers on isolated bunkers.
As of the Bitcoin anonimity features, Mimblewimble, confidential transactions, schnorr sigs etc, will be more than enough if the network remains decentralized (a conservative blocksize is kept, it doesn't mean 1mb forever btw, but it means no delusional flexible blocksize attempts which are proven to not work)