Topic: Those who judge gamblers, only to find themselves gambling. - page 2. (Read 1606 times)

Their critical and self-righteous nature makes them lose sight of their own problems, sometimes they disregard other people's perspectives and are ready to oppose sincere assessments, and we will also encounter deadlocks and no small problems when dealing with these people, once we express our views, they will consider knowledge and education but when those are not at the same level as them, they are more grumpy and judgmental of us. With just a common scenario and unified circumstances, judgmental people will actively shut up and understand the discomfort and how others become addicted and thus sympathize.

That is right and there's no stopping those who will judge people just based on their action. In today's life, there are rarely people who would even think about the other side of the coin especially with how fast the news comes in.
I've been on that side before and I regret all the judgmental things that I thought about other people just because they are gambling. When I learned about gambling, it changed my point of view because I learned that it all depends on the gambler if he will be responsible or not.
We cannot really tell it just by have the simple knowledge that they gamble. We don't know if they are playing just for fun or that's their job.

Almost every player can become addicted to the game, many players are just overconfident and think that it will happen to anyone or everyone, but not to them. I even remembered that hypnotists know who is the easiest to hypnotize, those who think that this will never happen to them. So I thought that I would never win back when I lose, but this happened to me, and even several times. Now I understand how thin this line is, which can be broken very simply and easily. From this I understood only one thing, that you can never say never and be sure of everything. You always need to be more careful and prepare for the worst not only in the game, but also in life.

The reality is that many people like to see the problems in other people but usually are hard to find the same problems in themselves.

It's just a common thing. Similar to how it is easier to simply blame someone else for your problems.

Actually owning your life and accepting its challenges is not easy but it is definitely something to be proud of. It is what forges your life.

That is the effect if someone difficult to stop himself when playing gambling so he will continue playing gambling. He will tell that is just one more time to gambling but the reality, he will do that over and over again. He will not stop playing gambling for a while because he found that playing gambling gives excitement for him. We may have our experience and difficult to stop gambling but we must try to stop gambling especially if we lose our money before. There will be not good for us if we keep losing our money because that can make us becomes emotional and we will not have a chance to control ourselves. We must remember that playing gambling is just for fun and not chasing the win.

In this world that we live in, it is natural for most people to be too judgmental towards others. We all have experienced these feelings, even if we don't want to or know that it shouldn't be like that. We manage to be like that.

And one of the examples here is that when someone gambles, others think they are bad people, and life will be messed up—something that is not like that; instead, it just depends on the gamblers who gamble how they manage it.

These set of people that judge gamblers as irresponsible people then for whatever reasons finds themselves into gambling, it'll be a sad and shameful story for them. I believe that most of them will be driven to consider gambling because of financial problems. When they have lost hope of raising money from any other means they'll remember a story of somebody that hits the jackpot with a small amount of money. If they're not careful they'll end up being addicts by chasing loses and end up becoming worse off than the people that they were judging.

I don't see anything wrong with gambling, so far a person is gambling responsibly. Meaning that they gamble with the amount that they can afford to loose, don't chase loses and they don't depend on gambling as a major source of income. So it's wrong for people to judge what they don't understand.

Whenever we do tend to teach up someone then just make it sure that you should not make yourself getting involved on what you are trying out to tell people on avoiding something.
Its true that there are tons of instances or situations on which these advisors turns out the ones that they are already dealing up on something on which they had earlier told out that it was bad.
This is why it will really be that best that if you do tend out to speak to someone about avoiding something or whatever it would be then make it sure that you are also doing the same thing.
You would be that ending up on being laughable on the moment that those people whom you do talk into would be seeing you that that you are on such bad situation or condition.

Unfortunately, people don't always practice what they preach, even the strong ones change their minds when it worked out for others, they will always want to try.

Most people in this category are strugglers, people who aren't rich and are looking for ways to survive, even if they knew that something is bad, they can only say no when they have means that pays better, once that route gets blocked they will go back to their vomit.

No condition is permanent in this painful world, you never know what's awaiting you the next day, if hardship comes can you  really stay away from those things you once vow to never do? You are at a greater risk if you think that humans can always keep their words.

You give very good advice. I know many people who speak extremely badly about gambling, although I am not sure that they have ever tried to play blackjack, poker or dice. But they say that every gambler is a problem and addicted player, and this is not true.

In the thread of my locale there are many great guys who gamble, and they are in full control of themselves and they are very upset when they are passively insulted by calling them problematic. Gambling is sometimes a great way to relieve stress and have a good time for little money.
Of course, with the right attitude to gambling.

Don't judge what you can't understand, before I started gambling I have this friend that gambles on a regular basis and I was wondering why he kept losing high amounts of money, on several occasions I have said he was crazy and he needs to go to a rehab, after a while I started doing the same thing then i when I started chasing my losses I understood the reason why my friend was losing such a huge amount of money in gambling. Gambling under pressure or to settle your needs might be the worst anyone can ever do, I'm talking out of experience

But such things are quite common occurrences because indeed everyone will only do what they think is right and may judge everything they consider bad, but people with this attitude actually also have bad things in their lives but never consider them to exist.
Usually people who feel the most right and the smartest will eventually do what they previously thought was wrong and bad, certain condition that will make someone do it like when they are short of money and see gambling can make money.
In the end, everything will make someone fall into the same hole and maybe it could be much worse, the most appropriate attitude is not to interfere too much in other people affairs or be too judgmental of other people activities as long as what people do out there does not cause harm to anything.

There are many people like that who will eventually swallow their own spit, and what is even more embarrassing is that they are the ones who are more depressed than the people they criticize. I think it's okay when we don't like what other people say, as long as only we know or in other words we don't express it in public.
Actually this is a different story, but I think it is very related to this. A few years ago, my friend was very critical of those who play online games (as we know now there are so many online), he criticized harshly and I think he shouldn't have said something like that. Well now he is the one who is very addicted to online games, he doesn't even know the place, be it a hangout or any place he always plays. Now my other friends are talking about my friend, because he swallowed his own spit.

I agree with you, there are many in the world who commit this type of blasphemy, where I live there is a very good saying that applies to this subject, "he who spits up, falls" so a person when he does not know about something, well, he should not give his opinion, because he would be eventually making a fool of himself and even more so when comparisons are made with things that have to do with money, whatever activity is done should not be criticized , we ourselves can fall into that, so it is better to stay out of it and It is better not to say much.

We can't actually tell what would cause such retake on their words. There might be so many reasons why they later turned to gamble at the end. Probably a friend who made much bigger wins introduced them to a better way to play and they got interested. There's no one who would want to miss out on such opportunities. Also I don't actually mind such people most times when they make gambling look so ugly. yes we know that most religions are against it but no one is making it a force on you. You don't like to gamble then leave it and don't criticize others who do or enjoy what they like.

Sometimes I think about how some people who feels that they are successful simply because they have well paying jobs and are living comfortable lives will belittle and condemns what others does. I believe if everyone was to be okay in life we would have had less gambling addicts because majority of people who would be playing gambling will just see it as fun and not depend on it for income or earnings. If you watch majority of this gambling addicts it's mainly people who have no jobs because since they don't have jobs they automatically sees gambling as an escape root to get quick money.
      Humans only commends you when you are successful in what you are doing and even if you are successful in what you are doing and there comes a time when it becomes very complex and difficult you will still see people mocking at you even when they are aware that you once benefited from such platform. But when the table turns they now find themselves in your shoe they won't even care how they criticized you in the past and will even want to mingle with you in order to get tips on how they can go about it. It's not that people basically choose to gamble but it's as a result of the conditions of things that makes people to engage more in gambling activities, that not withstanding, gambling is not bad even though if some people sees it as a bad habit but it depends on the approach of the gambler about their gambling habits that makes it good or bad.

I would say it’s less of being a hater and more so them being jealous. In the end a lot of these folks like many have said end up copying what they did and doing it themselves and that’s where the jealousy does it’s final work. Its end product is a money driven hustler willing to risk it for the biscuit.

It shows that the person has a poor resolve.

If they cannot follow what they are preaching, they need to improve on that. Because gambling affects everyone in the same manner, you dont want to become an addict like the one you know, you would want to be better at managing your money.

Gambling once in a blue moon would never hurt, similar as allocating bankroll for a month and sticking to that.

Those who become gamblers after previously judging gamblers, are people who swallow their own saliva, and they are not much different from hypocritical humans. They criticize gamblers and devalue what they do because they have not experienced how to gamble and how they can get pleasure from gambling. And after they try it a little out of curiosity, they find it quite interesting, and eventually they become addicted - they become what they judge. So never judge someone because we have never felt on their side.

Many people or society certainly have a negative view of gambling because many people experience the destruction of their lives by gambling, but that is not entirely true. because they experience addiction or ruin their lives because they themselves gamble excessively, while gambling itself does not have the element of coercion to continue doing it even though they have lost money. I myself don't view gambling like that because when gambling is done correctly and there are limits then everything will be fine.

I myself gamble and have experienced bad incidents that have occurred, and this incident made me realize that it is not good to gamble excessively, therefore we must gamble with certain limits to prevent major losses that start with addiction. I learned from the experiences I have had, and I think it is not wrong to share my experiences which are now better because of the awareness and boundaries that emerged when a bad incident occurred at that time.