Topic: Those who judge gamblers, only to find themselves gambling. - page 3. (Read 1606 times)

Problems do occur on the moment that you will really be making yourself doing such acts on which arent supposed to be done.If we would really be talking into those people who are getting involved with gambling
then there would really be no issues with that. It is really just that there are people who do really love to see and loves to get involved on someones activity on which if they do look that they are doing negative
then they would really be trying out to make those negative thoughts and making up those kind of comments as if they are really that a perfect person.One of the shit behavior of some people is that they do
love on making gossips or even with those words on which arent that even true.

Dont make yourself that being too confident that you wont really be able to eat up those words because we know that we cant be so sure on whats upcoming. You cant be able to
say that you wont really be touching up gambling never ever.

Gambling is indeed a game that can be played and it involves money. This game is owned by certain people and they are looking for profits from this game. Those who visit and play have a small chance of winning while the chance of losing is greater. However, even so, there are definitely times when we can win, especially if we are very lucky, we can get a big win even with a small bet amount.

When we are in trouble or have problems, of course asking for help is one of the things we can do and that's not bad, but the problems that occur with gambling can be prevented by doing it correctly ourselves. do not take decisions or steps that are clearly risky, consider everything carefully so that you can accept the results that occur even if the results are disappointing. There is no element of coercion in gambling, everything is purely up to us.

It's difficult because I felt that too when telling them to stop something that they like to do. They will not like what we suggest to them even when we show them about the bad effect that they can gets from what they do. They can blaming us because they thinks that we are too interfere their life and what they do but that's not right as we only wants them not to gets any problem from gambling.

But we don't have to stops what we do to them and still trying to advice them to playing gambling moderately and asks them to do other things that gives fun. We must take care of ourselves from gambling and not follow what they do because that will be the same as we can addicted to gambling too. We do that for them because we don't wants them getting the bad things from gambling especially if they are our family members that we must take care.

Sometimes it's also good to correct what someone think is right but the truth is it was wrong, so that they can also correct their life and they might give inspiration to other as well. Everything can make a mistake but it's not always the cause of you correcting others, so we shouldn't think about it and feel bad about our selves. Those who criticize us experienced gamblers can investigate about that person who criticized us because maybe they are also a hidden gambler. Usually there are no real benefits like money on criticizing other people but those who criticize others can make them feel contented or superior, and that is why they constantly does this.

Well, if the person's reason for gambling is because of financial needs and they later hit a jackpot and become wealthy, there are two things involved, it's either they quit or continue gambling but in a case where addiction is involved I don't think it would be easy to quit except help come from somewhere, like advise from loved ones or they make a decision to minimise excess gambling and stand on their ground.

 We all know that addiction is not something that one could easily stop, sometimes you might not necessarily intend on being an addict to a particular thing but the fact that you turned it to a habit then you'll definitely get addicted and in the case of a person who's purpose of gambling is for financial needs you never can tell how often they must have been gambling before they hit the jackpot.

 So I think that if such person become used to it, even after he become rich through it, he might likely continue gambling until he can get over it, or seek help in order to quit his addiction.

Let me ask you this simple question based on the example you gave to your relatives. Do you think that the same reason that propelled someone to start gambling can be the same reason why he is going to quit gambling if he eventually gets addicted to it for a long time? In a case where someone starts gambling because of financial needs and later becomes very rich through gambling or other means, can the person quit gambling because he has become rich and there is no need for gambling anymore? Or is the addiction inevitable that he will continue to gamble until he can get over it?

Anything is a game, including gambling. Some days you win, some lose. House wins most of the time. Its maths. Just the way it is - nothing personal. The wise choice? Treat gambling like a show. This is amusement, not retirement. Healthy living starts there. Regarding "luck"... Its intermittent. Out of your control.

The luckiest men have bad days. Everyone's vulnerable. Thats why listening matters. They cherish you and dont want you hurt. When told to slow down, do so. Love, not control. Asking for help is fine. Not weakness, but strength.

BTCBTCthis is true, and according to my observations, religious people are also strong critics of gambling (maybe because the forbidden fruit is sweet?) But still, most of all, former players are the biggest haters of gambling because they left solid funds there; I know several people who lost very substantial amounts over a long period.

It is difficult to say what exactly made them do what they themselves had previously condemned; there could be many reasons for this. Including those you are talking about, the opinions of others. And I also think that if they are dependent on people’s opinions, then they will then want to show that they can be more successful in this than other people. But this often leads to very bad consequences.

When it comes on convincing someone on making up some advise about stopping on the things on what they are doing then its not something my line or something that i would really be that doing. Why?
I dont really like on getting scolded or would really be having that kind of blaming or something being that having those bad words coming on their mouth about minding my own business considering that its their money
then why would really be that im making those kind of advises on which it would really be that something that do talks about their own funds so its their full rights on what they should gonna do.
We do know that when it comes to this aspect thn its true that its their money and they could do anything they do want and its not really that good when you are really that trying out to tell them on what they should gonna do but if we do speak about family members then it would really be just that normal that you would really be having that kind of concern since its family or even to close known friends or relatives on which
we do have at least showing up some concern on what they are currently dealing with.

Those who haven't faced life's difficult moments are the ones who easily condemn what others do from afar due to they don't have an idea of what they are doing or they don't like it. They only see what others do as a waste of time and money. But as time goes on, they begin to learn that, life difficulties hit differently, and it can force someone to start up something new to support what they are already been doing.

I have seen people who condemn gambling at first instance but later find their way to it that it can pay them off hugely if they should engage in it(idea given to them). As time passes in all though, they become used to it which leads them to addiction in pursuing what is hard to accomplish

Large profits can occur if indeed we have luck that can be considered a god level, because for even a small number of victories it is sometimes difficult to obtain. The mistake that occurred at the beginning was that they thought by doing gambling they could get a victory, while the risk of gambling is the defeat or loss that is clearly greater than the chances of victory then the defeat will be more common. There is nothing for sure to be able to get a victory that is definitely a later, even though they have a strategy that he believes is very accurate, it does not guarantee that he will definitely get a victory, keep in mind that gambling is a probability and luck game so the victory that exists in the future depends on everyone's luck.

Reminding each other is something that is not wrong, we as humans must be able to remind each other and help but we must be able to see in what kind of help we help. In addition, respecting the opinions or suggestions of others must, because basically mutual respect is good behavior. A addict will receive advice and suggestions from the closest people but the decision of the sipeje itself who will either continue to gamble by ignoring the advice he has received or even will be aware of the advice he has received. But please note that usually someone who has been addicted will become hars ludder, it is not strange if they ignore the people around including the advice that has been done by the closest person.

If they can helps addicted person to gambling by always reminds and asks them to do something else, they can see that person can have their chance to cure their gambling addiction. They can't just advices those addicted person to gambling to leave gambling forever without showing how they can do that as their minds will not say to quit gambling.

But people who wants to helps those addicted person to gambling can drag into gambling without they realizes especially if they don't have good control to holds themselves from gambling. It needs strong will and power to stay away from gambling and helps the addicted person to gambling so they can really helps without getting the bad effects to themselves. However, they must prevents themselves from the will of playing gambling especially when they already see what the bad effects that can happens to them if they becomes addicted to gambling.

Exactly, human are so unpredictable and are so quick to judge others, base on their first encounter with some people or how they feel life will always be for them. They never dreamt of seing themselves in thesame situation as the person they castigate. Forgetting that things do change just like they said table turns around, this case is not only in gambling but in all. it might be better for you today and you see others as less or they are not hardworking people,  but when life hits you the hard way you become the product of what you vowed never to be.  Some people later became an object of mockery. we must be mindful, humble and calm the way we speak to people, if not it will definitely affect us some day.

If there is a person who criticizes another for gambling frequently, then in my opinion, this criticism does not arise without reason. This is a subconscious manifestation of interest in gambling. You know, there are a huge number of passionate gamblers who have been harsh critics of gambling in the past. This happens, by the way, not only in the gambling sphere, but everywhere in general. It's the same story with Bitcoin adoption. Often a person wants to find out more information about what he is subconsciously attracted to, but cannot do this because his current beliefs prevent him from doing so. This is a kind of conflict between internal desires and an outdated worldview.

One who is not an addict can actually help those that are addicted, you can't just say we can't help them, yeah if only the addicts willing be to play along considering the fact that we can advise them to go for a break or probably quite, encouraging them to seek for a professional specialist that deal with anything related to addiction, they can encourage to limit the time and resources they spend in the gambling arena, we can tell to have a particular amount of money to allocated to gambling at every point in time and above all gambling is a just a game and shouldn't be taken too serious hence it will continue to become problematic.

Well, you said it perfectly. Most people gamble in order to make some quick money. Gambling is all about giving you large returns in fractions of seconds. But similarly, the risk involved is also high. Hence, in order to try their luck, people gamble. Some succeed, but the majority of them fail. Some also started gambling in order to see how it works; later on, when they find it interesting, they become addicts. Sadly, we can’t really do or help these addicts; they need to be themselves and become cautious to invest a suitable amount in gambling.

Respecting other people's decisions as well as not imposing our thoughts on others is something we should remember because there is no guarantee that one day we will not fall into that situation. Life always has surprises and the future is unpredictable. Also, if we can't help them, don't try to teach or criticize them, because it's their choice and their life.

Honestly, it's puzzling that people who know nothing about gambling, have never gambled, and have no gambling experience like to criticize and lecture others. Criticizing or interfering in other people's decisions has never brought us any benefits, why do many people like to do it?

Exactly, and if even if we didn't push them to do that but the influence of gambling around social media has come to huge popularity due to advertisements. People has their independence to decide whether they'll gamble or not, because the comfort on access is really easy. Most specially they'll be able to install through their smartphones and through websites is very convenient at anytime.

Definitely, non gamblers must talk ill of addicted players because they've not gone through similar mental challenges. To cover up for their misdeeds, they wouldn't wager openly, hence most of them get vulnerable to addiction. Gamers shouldn't make it a one man show, but a one time non player who has been mocking addicts, first, goes unprepared into the game and can't seek for advise due to his previous reactions on gamblers. It's quite necessary not to judge but to advise players even as a non gambler. But society and addicts pushes them to think this way and it's not their fault engaging in the game later on in life. Nobody knows for sure what led them into gambling.