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Anyone who doesn't want to gamble will not gamble except the interest has already been developing underway before you could find them start gambling and whenever they have started gambling it could be very hard for them to stop because that person has already started since s/he has been nurturing the feelings internally. I believe whatever that is being implemented physically has been lingering internally so when it's finally out it could be hard to have a finite control over it.

But I am sure you know what peer pressure can do to someone who has no intention or interest in doing things, and he will definitely end up doing it as a human being. It will be very hard for you to control yourself when it comes to peer pressure, especially in the aspect of fun and money. That is why many young children tend to join smoking and the use of harmful substances, and here we are talking of gambling that contains both fun and money, so it will be very simple to be convinced, so to me, I don’t think it will be very hard for a friend who doesn’t have an interest in gambling to end up as a gambler due to peer pressure. 
Never except that person doesn't have a personal say of his or her life because as I know during those days with my circle they tried all manner of things to let me live a ganger star life but I refused focusing on studies whenever they are back they kept talking or manner of immoral things to get me attracted yet I refused. This shows that whatever life you don't want to live no one can influences you to start living that life you didn't like so it's to gamble, when your mind is ready to do it no matter what they says you would always want to do you it with all confidence in you.
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Some people have been found of finding fault from others just because they are inexperienced in that thing they are doing, but not until we also fall on the same category of this same people, we may not stop to make the mockery or complaint about them from the way we do, nobody knows what tomorrow might say or give, things can change in as much as we are alive, then we later discover that all that we are speaking against are thesame things we are also doing now, this makes it more important for us to check on what is good for us as well as for others.
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Another reason for the constant criticism we get on gambling is as a result of the environment we live in. Most of us live in societies where gambling is not appreciated and this negative perception about gambling has been passed down from one offspring to the other. It is only normal for people born into such societies to have such wrong notion or judgemental altitude towards gambling at the beginning until the stubborn ones decide to try it out of curiosity to see how it looks like. Many who tried out gambling out of curiosity have remained stucked in it because they saw more than they expected. It will take time for such people to have a positive attitude towards gambling. However, we do not have to condemn what we know nothing about until we try it out.
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It's not just a gambling thing but something that happens very often in life which is why I'm not quick to judge people for their endeavors. There's an old saying that "It's condition that made Crayfish to be bent". So if anyone is gambling, they definitely have their reasons. People that are very quick to condemn others for some activities usually find themselves indulging in the same activities they once criticized in the future. That's something I have seen happen countless times.
from my perspective to observe gambling, it seems that majority of people who castigate gambling are the ones who gambles most, and sometimes I believe that anyone who judge gambling or condemn the action of gambling frequently will be the one to that will embrace gambling very well. So I'm in support of what you just said, because some of the gamblers can hide secrets to the extent of being unable to make their gambling to be known to people.
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There used to be this relative of mine that used to procrastinate gambling of being an irresponsible activity which a responsible person is not supposed to be doing and nomatter how we have tried to explained to him that it is basically a game of fun rather some gamblers has tended to take it personally for source of income which has got them ridiculed but he will always say... Forget it, they are all the same that gamblers are gamblers which is designed for irresponsible people.

At him hearing that our neighbor won huge amount of money in the gambling he was like... Hmm! This gambling is really working and they we all took it for granted.

Within the range of two weeks he was found in gambling shop but he claimed to had accompanied his friend. He came back home with a gambling slip and does not know how to check the game on how it played because it was a sport games he played. So, he came tell me that I should not mind him that he actually gave it a try to bet one while accompanied his friend but he would need me to check the slip for him.
As I am talking to you he is now a proud gambler but though he do maintain a responsible gambling.
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Those who judge gamblers, only to find themselves gambling. To be honest, if I found the guy who talks about gambling and bla bla bla and actually he doing gambling is totally stupid. Just he judge people to not play gambling and in the end he plays is just eat your own sh*t, you know what I'm saying.

Most of the people who don't play gamble at all and tried gamble for the first time is because someone he know is winning big or watch some people win a lot from it, I believe this 80% of the reason why.

The same goes with the people of the church in my area.  They are so against gambling activities and often preach that gambling will lead people to sin and ruin but when they need funds for certain activities, they rely on raffle draws.  This is the best example of hypocrisy, IMO, and supports the topic about people who look at gambling as a disgusting thing and end up using it to fill their cup when needed.  This kind of thing does not happen only once but for every activity of that said church where a fund is needed.

I think this is one of the reasons why we don't have to criticize people for nothing just because we don't like such a thing.

Not only that, we must also know the details of the subject matter before saying anything, may it be positive or negative.  It is best to have knowledge about stuff being discussed than just saying something irrelevant or stupid because people see it that way.
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Those who judge gamblers, only to find themselves gambling. To be honest, if I found the guy who talks about gambling and bla bla bla and actually he doing gambling is totally stupid. Just he judge people to not play gambling and in the end he plays is just eat your own sh*t, you know what I'm saying.

Most of the people who don't play gamble at all and tried gamble for the first time is because someone he know is winning big or watch some people win a lot from it, I believe this 80% of the reason why.
I think this is one of the reasons why we don't have to criticize people for nothing just because we don't like such a thing. There is nothing wrong with one being a gambler which might be different from other people's perspective but I think that should just be there business. Gambling is actually fun but some regions do not support it which I think it's okay for me. It's not everybody that would want to support what we like or what we think is moral. Morality is diverse and we should just understand that once it's nig illegal and would not force us to do things  that are illegal then that should be moral. We all think different and we understand things differently too when it comes  to different aspects of life.
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At first some judge gamblers often and later they become gambling addicts. I found it very serious to be curious and know what may have been their reason for the sudden change of mind. I know that there are difficult times to make money and maintain money, which is a world problem. I have had some thoughts on it and this is what I think may have been the reason.

1. In the beginning they may have been doing well financially and see no reason to gamble, maybe life later on throws them a financial curveball, or perhaps responsibility compels them to look for quick money through gambling. If not attempting gambling was an ethic for them they should have stuck to another alternative why did they choose this one?

2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.

However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.

Do you have any actual examples? The world is full of hypocrites but they are not necessarily that vocal in the scenario that you've mentioned. There are usually societal pressures on people to be against gambling, often driven by religion, so people have no choice but to reject it publicly - even if they enjoy it in private. If they did not denounce it, they might find themselves ostracized from their community or families even, as we see the grip that religion can often create. It's not often that you see the more financially well off go down the path of gambling and it would usually require some pretty big life events to send someone far off the rails like you described in point 1, but maybe they always had an unstable streak bubbling away underneath the surface.
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However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.
That's why it's never good to judge people for what they do irrespective of their condition, because you never know what your tomorrow may bring, which is what I think those who judge gamblers for trying their luck may have forgotten, and today finds themselves in that same situation when hit with life challenges. Because in as much as we are told people gamble for two reasons (i.e for fund and for money), 90% of those who gamble today, do it for the money and nothing more, which is why you could see a man who when he was financially buayant and disgusted gambling, could be seen gambling when he is broke.
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However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.
Just like you have said those who once criticise gambling never expected to be gamblers but the lose of job or fall of their business made them to go into gambling. The truth is that most of the people playing gambling are not gambling because they have interest in it at first but they only came in thinking that it can be a source of income for them. Their is nothing bad for those who criticise gambling in the past to start up gambling because sometimeswe say bad about something but still turn around to go after it,  but it will be so sad if they end up getting addicted to gambling when they already know about the addiction in gambling,  because it is the addiction that made them once criticise gambling.
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Influenced or not they just fell into gambling, simple as that. I don't think there's any purpose on blaming someone to introducing you to something, at the end of the day it's YOU who's responsible for choosing to stay (and in this case, get addicted). Otherwise, everyone would've been at some point a drunkard, addict, or anything badly influential lol. Even responsibility won't point you to gambling, pretty sure it'd point you to looking for a job instead.
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2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.
Some people are not really interested in gambling, and they don’t really have plans to become a gambler. But some people do end up being gamblers just because of the success stories they hear about people close to them, so they do think they can earn money from gambling, and they will decide to start gambling, but they don’t really know things don’t really work like that. Having the mindset to make money from gambling is really bad, because if you are desperately trying to make money from gambling, then you might be addicted to gambling, and you will be losing more than you will be winning.
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Ofcourse this can be the case where a person hates gambling or thinks bad about gambling, try gamble once or twice and may win good amount. This is enough for him to change his point of view about gambling and stand with those who are gamblers  Cheesy


I have this habit of associating with anybody regardless of the type of person you are by default. Whether you smoke or you drink, it doesn't stop me from liking you but you can't influence me with your lifestyle and I wouldn't say you should stop, after all you are an adult and you have the right to choose the kind of lifestyle you want, that's how I will view anyone that gamble even I don't do it but some people will think they are better than you because they don't like what you do.


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Actually, it is the money which determines people's decision to gamble or not. Those who are gambling and winning they won't leave it and even those who are losing always have the hope of winning. Usually, people who never gamble, say bad about gambling. Once they gamble themselves, they tend to like it.

If indeed people don't loss money in gambling, some of the parents that see gambling as evil thing to indulge will also be doing it. Some parents don't see the good side of gambling even though you remove the loss effect, they tend to see it a phycologically thing that affect the way a child think which is true to some extent but not entirely the way the convey it, gambling actually makes you think smart if you remove the greed for the money involved.
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People are judgmental because it's in our nature. Especially people who don't think highly of themselves will try to belittle and criticize others to make them feel worse and weaker. In other words people are constantly trying to climb steps and if that means throwing some people on the ground to walk on their backs, so be it.

You shouldn't give them attention. If they judge you, make sure you're doing what your conscience and ethics tell you to do and ignore the noise.
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At first some judge gamblers often and later they become gambling addicts. I found it very serious to be curious and know what may have been their reason for the sudden change of mind. I know that there are difficult times to make money and maintain money, which is a world problem. I have had some thoughts on it and this is what I think may have been the reason.

1. In the beginning they may have been doing well financially and see no reason to gamble, maybe life later on throws them a financial curveball, or perhaps responsibility compels them to look for quick money through gambling. If not attempting gambling was an ethic for them they should have stuck to another alternative why did they choose this one?

2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.

However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.
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On the moment that you have some bad sentiments or words towards gambling but ending up on dealing with it just because of some financial reason or simply your last resort because you've seen that this is the fastest way on earning easy money on which it's true but come to think that this is also the fastest way on losing too.Also, you had just eaten up your words earlier and this is why it's never been that ideal or recommended that making some early conclusions.

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Influence and anything around on surroundings could really be that highly influencial on which at the moment you do find yourself that getting interested on the things that you are seeing, the most likely you would be having considerations on doing it also.You might hate up gambling earlier but if you do saw that people around you are playing then it won't be shocking that you would also do it.
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At first some judge gamblers often and later they become gambling addicts. I found it very serious to be curious and know what may have been their reason for the sudden change of mind. I know that there are difficult times to make money and maintain money, which is a world problem. I have had some thoughts on it and this is what I think may have been the reason.

1. In the beginning they may have been doing well financially and see no reason to gamble, maybe life later on throws them a financial curveball, or perhaps responsibility compels them to look for quick money through gambling. If not attempting gambling was an ethic for them they should have stuck to another alternative why did they choose this one?

2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.

However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.

I think that in principle there is no need to condemn anything (what is within the law). Everyone has their own habits, everyone is used to spending time differently. Some people like to play football, some like to drink beer with friends, some like to gamble. But when a person begins to condemn something, and then does it himself, then this makes him twice wrong, because he condemned himself with his own words. Perhaps the person who condemned other players once saw that they were able to make money also chose to engage in gambling, but where there is risk, there will always be the possibility of losing money. So you shouldn’t judge anyone, because you can end up in the same place and it will look doubly stupid.
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2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.


Actually, others tend to join gambling due to the influence of their friends, especially if the act that they want to join involves money, so there will be a high interest in joining. There is a truth that must be believed in, which is that out of all your friends, it will not be hard for you to find one or more that are not gambling, even though they are in online casinos. You will definitely have one, so there is no way that you will make those from your side stop, and if that doesn’t work, you will have to join them, as there is a proverb that I know that says, “If you can’t beat them, join them.” That will definitely be the result.
 
So it is not bad to see some that hate gambling to be gamblers, it happens, and they might have many reasons for that; some might be as a result of curiosity or even a change of habit. 
Anyone who doesn't want to gamble will not gamble except the interest has already been developing underway before you could find them start gambling and whenever they have started gambling it could be very hard for them to stop because that person has already started since s/he has been nurturing the feelings internally. I believe whatever that is being implemented physically has been lingering internally so when it's finally out it could be hard to have a finite control over it.

But I am sure you know what peer pressure can do to someone who has no intention or interest in doing things, and he will definitely end up doing it as a human being. It will be very hard for you to control yourself when it comes to peer pressure, especially in the aspect of fun and money. That is why many young children tend to join smoking and the use of harmful substances, and here we are talking of gambling that contains both fun and money, so it will be very simple to be convinced, so to me, I don’t think it will be very hard for a friend who doesn’t have an interest in gambling to end up as a gambler due to peer pressure. 
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At first some judge gamblers often and later they become gambling addicts. I found it very serious to be curious and know what may have been their reason for the sudden change of mind. I know that there are difficult times to make money and maintain money, which is a world problem. I have had some thoughts on it and this is what I think may have been the reason.

1. In the beginning they may have been doing well financially and see no reason to gamble, maybe life later on throws them a financial curveball, or perhaps responsibility compels them to look for quick money through gambling. If not attempting gambling was an ethic for them they should have stuck to another alternative why did they choose this one?

2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.

However, it is a sad story to see people who cast away gamblers thinking they are irresponsible, and then fund themselves on this same web doing the same thing. It reminds me of how vulnerable humans can be, and that anyone can change habits when a condition falls on them.

I have never encountered a gambling criticizer to be gambling himself as in my beginning some of my relatives then knew I was gambling as I was gambling offline because of the difficulty of gambling online in the years previous to 2000 when the Internet did had a real boom.The maximum I have seen such person was playing a multi 10 games ticket together with me which I convinced him and the brutal thing was we got all 9 games correct and one with odd 1.10 I don't remember which was but a team from Romania made us lost our bet,we had 1 dollar for 164.28 dollars and that was the max he did for gambling.He never got to become addicted like I was at some point during my gambling journey,he used to talk to me to stop gambling in 2010-2012 a period where I had become addicted yet himself he never found himself being addicted or having problems gambling.
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2. On second thought. I feel it is the influence and conviction of people around them who are into gambling that made them go into gambling at the end of the day.


Actually, others tend to join gambling due to the influence of their friends, especially if the act that they want to join involves money, so there will be a high interest in joining. There is a truth that must be believed in, which is that out of all your friends, it will not be hard for you to find one or more that are not gambling, even though they are in online casinos. You will definitely have one, so there is no way that you will make those from your side stop, and if that doesn’t work, you will have to join them, as there is a proverb that I know that says, “If you can’t beat them, join them.” That will definitely be the result.
 
So it is not bad to see some that hate gambling to be gamblers, it happens, and they might have many reasons for that; some might be as a result of curiosity or even a change of habit. 
Anyone who doesn't want to gamble will not gamble except the interest has already been developing underway before you could find them start gambling and whenever they have started gambling it could be very hard for them to stop because that person has already started since s/he has been nurturing the feelings internally. I believe whatever that is being implemented physically has been lingering internally so when it's finally out it could be hard to have a finite control over it.
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Those who judge gamblers, only to find themselves gambling. To be honest, if I found the guy who talks about gambling and bla bla bla and actually he doing gambling is totally stupid. Just he judge people to not play gambling and in the end he plays is just eat your own sh*t, you know what I'm saying.

Most of the people who don't play gamble at all and tried gamble for the first time is because someone he know is winning big or watch some people win a lot from it, I believe this 80% of the reason why.

Yes they are hypocrites, they condemn gambling but in the end they are involved in the activity, and as you said they are someone who eats their own excrement or licks their own saliva. But on the other hand there are several factors that could be the reason, and also in my opinion it is something that is quite natural to happen in the context of gambling, because a change in mindset can always be a reality if we talk about an activity that can really attract attention to increase interest. .

On the other hand, maybe I would agree with your idea that in most cases someone will usually fall into or try to get involved in gambling when they see or hear other people, especially their friends, who have achieved big wins in gambling, and usually they are gamblers who Most end up getting addicted because from the start their involvement was based on the hope of producing wins like other people they saw.
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