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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Well, because I had worked very hard to save the money he had stolen, I would initially be furious and feel pity for myself. Considering my circumstances, I would assume that he had no respect at all for me. Are there other parents out there who don't lose their tempers when they discover their kid has taken money from them? Whatever their motivation, stealing is never a good thing for children to do.
Perhaps you can ask your parents, right? But if they don't give you money, you should work instead of taking the money that your parents worked so hard to provide for your needs. Instead, you stole it from them just so you could gamble, but in the end, you lost.

If I were his mother, I believe I would still discipline him and let him know how disappointed and worried I am about his behavior, even if he were to win a multi-million dollar prize. After all, it doesn't erase the fact that he stole money from me. We would gladly take advantage of me once more if he had already taken money from me once. By doing so, I would keep an eye on him to make sure he didn't repeat what he had done.

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You should know that as a parents there is this disciplinary spirit in us that always wants us to be defensive whenever we think that our children aren't doing the right thing and normally we know that what they did is a wrong thing so we must not keep shut to allow them go worster so, we must speak and voice out the evil did they are doing to enable us plays the parental role instead of keeping shuts while they goes the wrong way, as a parent if my son win i don't mind still shouting at him to know that he has done the wrong thing for uttering my money but would let him know that what made me to spare him was the winning he made but next he shouldn't try that again then i will further tell him how to spend the money to amicably benefits him and the entire family.

There is nothing wrong when you cuation your child for doing wrong thing and let known of them their evil did and shouldn't partake of that next time to avoid a further damages, maybe next time he went further to have a higher amount than what he has taken before so, caution your son also shows that you are a responsible parents irrespective of how much y/our child has made from gambling because he was lucky enough to have that winning that very day.

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Which parent wouldn't be mad at their child for stealing? No matter the reason for stealing or the what the money stolen is used for, it doesn't in any way make it right. Any parent who celebrates his/her child for making money through questionble means should be questioned because such act will only be ruining the child the more. When a child begins to steal from his parents, it is a wake up call for the parent to act fast before the habit becomes part of them.

A gambler who steals to gamble is irresponsible and their is no guarantee that he will make good use of his gambling win if he eventually wins. Stealing, taking loans and selling off properties to gamble is an act of irresponsibility and should be highly discouraged. Once a person starts cultivating these harmful gambling habits, it might become difficult for them to be responsible even if they win.

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Well, I don’t know where do you live exactly and in which country 15$ worth that much to be honest, even though I’m living in a third world country this amount of money doesn’t worth all this story.
To answer your question, we need at least to know this kid’s age in order to justfy his behavior and if he is legally allowed to gamble, if not then how did he manage to open a casino account in the first place?
As a parent, I would first put the blame on myself because I let something like that to happen, I would question the way I educated my own kids.
It’s something very important to get from this story which is educating our children about gambling and the dangers of gambling in a bad way, more like always keeping an eye on them and their activities online. Especially, nowadays casino ads are everywhere on the internet and ad posters are very tempting.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

if I'm not mistaken, we have this kind of thread before. Anyhow, as a parent it's instinct is to really discipline their child right? Specially we all know that stealing is generally not accepted in any society. And so the burden is really on the parents and maybe we can say that they are part of the problem if the child turns out to be a thieve and really give a parent a hard time.

But regarding the question it's a going to be a dilemma to the parent, but for me, he should be discipline by his mom, period, if he accepts that winning money, it's like giving him permission to gamble and that it is allowed in the household. Maybe right now they have money, but what if the kid gamble it all along and in worst case scenario, losses everything and started to stole money again? If not from his mom, he could do it to other people and the consequences will be very bad for the boy and his mom.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

The truth is she wouldn't have been that mad at him if he had won big amount of money. Such winnings may even make the woman start giving him money to gamble for her if she cannot do it herself. I have seen it happen a couple of times. This does not mean I'm in support of what the young man did.

The first rule is that you must not gamble with what you cannot afford to lose. The money wasn't his so he cannot afford to lose it. The moment one engage in gambling with money that should not be lost, he is already 60% defeated because emotion and fear will take over, this will produce poor judgement cum poor result. I wish him well in handling the situation and hope he learns from it.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

First of all it is irresponsible behavior to leave the cell phone not protected with fingerprint or any other security like face id to your phone.I know most of us who are parents tend to trust their children,sons and daughters yet I because of my profession as I work in a bank,I like to keep everything 2FA and heavily guarded even at my home.As a parent of course I would be disheartened yet I would talk with him to educate him about probability and statistics which shows that you cannot apply with such bet to be a lucky winner otherwise there would not be betting sport casinos open,they would all be closed by now if winning that huge amount would be that easy as this son thinks.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

The age of the child should be very important in dealing with this issue. If he is up to the age of gambling it is a stealing problem but if he is underage, the case will become more complicated.

The child shouldn't be forced to bring back the money especially if he is still depending on the parents financially except they want him to steal to repay what he has lost. What he needs is sound counseling and not threats or severe punishment. He should be told the implications of what he has done and the future consequences if he becomes addicted. He needs to know that this behavior could make him steal outside the home because he wants to satisfy his gambling urge.

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Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Let's call a spade a spade, stealing is an immoral behavior regardless of the consequences. I will be mad at him and even discipline him but will still accept the win. He needs to know that I didn't support his actions and shouldn't repeat such behavior. I will be happy that he won big but I will concentrate more on his misbehavior than the money h won. From then I will keep a close eye on him to monitor his gambling activities.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Whoever intervenes to scold and teach a child a lesson, whether it is his mother, father, older brother, uncle, or even if everyone joins in scolding the child, the child will still not be able to return the money lost due to gambling. , at that very moment. and the only hope is that this incident can be a valuable lesson for both children and their parents.

This is not only the child's fault, because he stole money from his mother's account. However, parents and families are also at fault, because they are unable to provide a good education to their children, which causes their children to become people who behave badly and are unable to respect their parents and family. So this is where the importance of early education carried out by both parents for their sons, as parents we must not judge a problem from just one point of view, but we must assess it from every aspect, including introspection towards ourselves.

However, it needs to be understood, in this case it does not mean that I support the child's actions, because it is clearly something that is wrong and cannot be justified.

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I don't know why there is a belief in relating certain topics to this board

Anyway, everyone takes care of his children as he wants, sometimes these are issues of a nature as complex as the social and family environment.

This case is the typical coinflip.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Wether the boy in question end up winning millions or not, it doesn't change the fact that what the small boy did was very bad and that could be as a result of poor care from the mother and everyone around him. For a minor to be engaged in gambling activities, it means that he's been introduced into gambling an adult and it took the carelessness of his mother and guardians not to detect him when he's never known much about gambling.

There's no way the child is gonna provide the money because he's already lost it but the more important issue now is how to try stop him from gambling more in the future in other not to end of as a gambling addict.

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Quote from: Miles2006 on January 20, 2024, 03:51:09 PM

The first question we should point out is how did she train the child or maybe he learnt such habit from school, church etc cause nowadays peer pressure has affected children either the positive or negative way. Such child should be discipline for his action and they should make sure he never repeat such act again. If no proper care is taken at this early stage he will start stealing outside to satisfy his desire to gamble and it will be very difficult to handle.
The child winning or not has nothing to do with the mom except she supported his action from the start but since she never supported him the winning or loss should not hinder the discipline process.

There's no way that we could tell on where that child do learn up those things its either that he hadnt been guided out well or teaches about stealing is bad or just simply making out those actions basing up on the things that they are currently dealing or get involved with. We do know that once addiction in gambling would becomes that too severe then there's no way that you couldnt
really be able to experience that kind of urge on doing something which it isnt ethical. We do know that stealing something could be considered theft and even lets say
that you are just still young then stealing would really be always stealing and there's no way that you could really be able to changed it up.
As a parent then disciplinary actions should be made so that they would be able to learnt up that the things that they have done was actually wrong. So it would really be
on your choice as a parent on what you should gonna do.

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The first question we should point out is how did she train the child or maybe he learnt such habit from school, church etc cause nowadays peer pressure has affected children either the positive or negative way. Such child should be discipline for his action and they should make sure he never repeat such act again. If no proper care is taken at this early stage he will start stealing outside to satisfy his desire to gamble and it will be very difficult to handle.
The child winning or not has nothing to do with the mom except she supported his action from the start but since she never supported him the winning or loss should not hinder the discipline process.

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Of course it is bad behavior because the child himself dares to steal money just for betting, meaning that he is desperate in this case, maybe it can be called addiction, because it is impossible to steal if not an addict.

I will be angry because it is disrespectful, maybe I will educate again how he should do good and should not steal again because this is a bad act what if this happens to someone else not his own parents? Then he will get punishment from the authorities.

From $15 to millions of dollars is still very impossible especially if it's a child who says he is still in education so he is not in a professional gambling game.
Besides, it is possible that the child will be silent even if he wins a large amount because not all parents will be happy if their children play gambling.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

There are two problems here, the first is how old is her son? If he is a minor and he is not allowed to gamble by law then that by itself is wrong and it is showing a dangerous tendency at such an early age, the second issue is of course the theft of that money, and while 15 dollars may not seem to be a lot for some of us, the act itself is what is worrying, also I do not see how the outcome will change anything, stealing is wrong even if the son won a massive amount of money with it, and if he was a minor then that will not matter at all as the casino will not pay him due to a violation of their TOS.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

Well I think you already know the answer to this question, I mean it's obvious that she would ofcourse be delighted if the son came home with billions or millions of naira if the child told her the winning before telling her he stole the money but all the same the chances of the boy winning was against him and beside you don't have the right to gamble with people money because the money isn't yours even if it's from your mother, that's calling stealing.

Wel I know the society am staying will surely do something about this boy although I don't know why and what the parents are doing that it got so bad that the boy got this worse and collects money from her account.

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If I were his mother, I would probably be frustrated, especially if I lost money just to gamble.
For a mother, gambling is something that is not beneficial at all. But on the other hand, a child's mistakes will always be forgiven by the mother.
The child should have realized that it was a fatal mistake. Moreover, his mother also involved many parties in wanting to give him money to gamble. And he should have realized that he would not be able to return the money easily, especially in gambling.
The way he got into gambling was wrong, how could he possibly win just to return such a large amount of money.

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It's not an issue whether the amount is small. It's about the action of the child and of course, the parents should discipline this kid for stealing and worse gambling.
But I don't understand why she's calling someone else but maybe because of Child Protective Services. It's the same issue in my country where if you hit the child with your belt today, you could lose custody already.

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would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?

She still will need to discipline the kid even if he won millions. If I were in her position, the kid would not get any amount, it's my money he used to bet.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

My question is how old is the child? I believe from your narration, he is still below 18 years old which is below the age bracket of gambling and this is wrong in all directions. How does he even open account in the first place and how did he sent out the money from his mother phone without her consent, there should be evidence of transfer or perhaps she neglected that. The mother should investigate him how he opened the account and what influence him to do that because I think some people really influence his child to gambling.

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Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

The parent should not scared him, I know how painful it's for a mother to see his child behaves the way you don't expect but instead of been harsh towards him, ask him nicely so he can open up because if you want to forcefully discipline him, he will hide some information out of fears and he will surely go back to that gambling. I'm sure you guys don't want to lose another brother as a gambling addict.

You guys should tell him what gambling is about, the implications and the risk because he has develop the mind of doubling money from the way he's starting, who lose $15 all to gamble. You guys should be more open and free to get all information and tell him too to avoid complications.

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Quote from: EluguHcman on January 20, 2024, 02:55:19 PM

My friends aunty called him on the call while we were conversing today, and she was complaining about how her son has withdrawn #20,000 approximately $15 from her account through mobile transfer to play bet and he lost it all.
She complained bitterly and pitifully because she struggled to safe such amount of money.

Now, the mum is calling on everyone she could to intervene, discipline the child and force him to provide the money in any means he can without the concern of how he could refund the money.

Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?

No parent would really be happy on what his son/child has done on which it would be just that typical that you would got angry and on the time that you do get angry
then you would definitely be that applying those kind of disciplinary actions and to those disheartened acts isnt really that totally that true on which this is something that
letting our childs do really be able to realize on the wrong thing that they have done on which they are really that obliging to repay back those amounts. Yes $15 might really be that
small in most peoples eyes but if you are living in poverty and living in a country which does have that have crisis then this amount would really be that significant.

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