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Parents still have a great deal of influence in the life of a growing child. But parents today are beginning to share the responsibility of bringing up their child with lots of other people. For some, I would think babysitters wields a great amount of influence in the life of a child than the parents themselves who spend little to no time with their children.
Despite having access to smartphones and all of that, parents still have a great deal of influence. It’s left for them to use it properly in bringing up the child right. In this case, the parents have a share of the fault in the stealing habits cultivated by the child in order to gamble.
Without a doubt parents still hold some influence, but this influence can get eroded really quickly with social media, friends, teachers and other adults that take care of the child, so parents no longer hold the same authority they had on the past, so even if they make the best effort possible to get their kids on the right path, it is now very easy for kids to ignore that advice and go astray, and as such I really think we cannot blame the parents when that happens.
Here I completely agreed about this all your statement because now things are completely change and kids are going through with social media which is killing all respect and honor as this is happening around me in our area as well with mostly kids are not talking with their parents and also not taking any precautious about their activities which are surely not ideal and many cases things are gone from bad to worse as well society is completely change and parents are clueless about things which were doing good and having good influence as well.
In few countries we are having laws which are working better for this relationship but as society is engaging with social media all are wrapping up which is more trouble with parents influence are needed for the positive effect.
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Without a doubt parents still hold some influence, but this influence can get eroded really quickly with social media, friends, teachers and other adults that take care of the child, so parents no longer hold the same authority they had on the past, so even if they make the best effort possible to get their kids on the right path, it is now very easy for kids to ignore that advice and go astray, and as such I really think we cannot blame the parents when that happens.
It's different these days.

With the influence of social media, kids today are tougher than before. Tough in a sense that they can attain not to listen to their parents because they think that they can do better while they're young.

It also varies on how their parents have introduced them in the real world because if they're focused on their children and always give them the reminder, as they grow older, they'll remember that such stealing to gamble is a big thing and mistake that they should have never done.
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Parents still have a great deal of influence in the life of a growing child. But parents today are beginning to share the responsibility of bringing up their child with lots of other people. For some, I would think babysitters wields a great amount of influence in the life of a child than the parents themselves who spend little to no time with their children.
Despite having access to smartphones and all of that, parents still have a great deal of influence. It’s left for them to use it properly in bringing up the child right. In this case, the parents have a share of the fault in the stealing habits cultivated by the child in order to gamble.
Without a doubt parents still hold some influence, but this influence can get eroded really quickly with social media, friends, teachers and other adults that take care of the child, so parents no longer hold the same authority they had on the past, so even if they make the best effort possible to get their kids on the right path, it is now very easy for kids to ignore that advice and go astray, and as such I really think we cannot blame the parents when that happens.
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Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.

Parents still have a great deal of influence in the life of a growing child. But parents today are beginning to share the responsibility of bringing up their child with lots of other people. For some, I would think babysitters wields a great amount of influence in the life of a child than the parents themselves who spend little to no time with their children.
Despite having access to smartphones and all of that, parents still have a great deal of influence. It’s left for them to use it properly in bringing up the child right. In this case, the parents have a share of the fault in the stealing habits cultivated by the child in order to gamble.
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I don't have a kid yet but I already know that I'm going to be livid that my kid is going to go this low at such a young age and the reason for the theft is gambling, there's no way around it for me, I can't be mad for the kid for long though and I know that there's going to be a lot of talk about responsibility and the implications and consequences of the actions that they'd commit, it's a long talk definitely and I do hope that if I ever become a parent and this similar situation ever happens to me, I do hope that it will never be awkward for me and my children to do this serious talk and this serious talks should change the kid for the better.

Parenting is a difficult thing to do, some parents don't even deserve to be a parent in the first place but they do. I think that in a situation like that, I believe that it's the failing of the parents that they're children are like that, they're the ones that got more experience and the adults in the setting after all, they're going to be the person that I'm talking about if they didn't do the adult thing in that situation or overall parenthood. A stolen money will always be a stolen money, even if that lead to something big but when it comes to morals, it's a different debate.
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It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.
I would never support stealing even though the child was fortunate enough to use the money to bet and make huge profit from gambling. I know there are parents that would be happy about that but that is not in my own case. Stealing is absurd and we should not tolerate anything that looks similar to that. What if the opposite happened, what are we going to say? It is good we are very strict with the way we handles children because any lite tolerance, it could lead to something unbelievably to us. We need to be act like we are a full grown parent that knows what and how things ought to be.

If it happened that the son won the  game, that can not erase the fact that he stole from his mother to win the game. Irrespective of the amount he won, it would soon finish and when it does he would still repeat the same act by stealing from his mother again.
I believe he knows nothing about life hence stealing from his mother was his resolve. I was wondering if he has no elder siblings that would instill discipline in him for perpetrating such act.

These days, children behave the way they like and go away with it without proper discipline. Just imagine his mother can not do anything but calling her brothers and sisters to come to her rescue. If she can not do her part as his mother by disciplining him first what does she expect others to do or say?
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Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.
Every child is unique, with their own personality, hobbies, and values. As a result, it is critical that parents remain open-minded and tailor their approach to their child's specific needs. It is not always easy to do, but it is critical to realize that children have choice and are capable of making their own decisions, even if they do them incorrectly.
When a child starts gambling at a young age, people will always blame the parent of the child, when a child starts misbehaving people intend to blame the parent, this is obvious as parents we should train our child in a right manner, the mother in question should be blamed at some extend cause why will a little child develop the habit to steal money. Sometimes parents suffering from this situation tried all their best to take care of the child but the society nowadays seems different with the influence from peer pressure, social media etc. Social media nowadays can easily corrupt a child even with gambling habit.
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It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.
I would never support stealing even though the child was fortunate enough to use the money to bet and make huge profit from gambling. I know there are parents that would be happy about that but that is not in my own case. Stealing is absurd and we should not tolerate anything that looks similar to that. What if the opposite happened, what are we going to say? It is good we are very strict with the way we handles children because any lite tolerance, it could lead to something unbelievably to us. We need to be act like we are a full grown parent that knows what and how things ought to be.
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It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.
This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.
In the end, this will not be separated from parents because if they can guide well, the possibility of things like this can still be minimized.

Indeed, what children do is a mistake that even this becomes a double mistake where apart from gambling they also commit theft in order to fulfill their desires in gambling but in this case the parents are also the ones who are affected because there must be several reasons that make the child like this.

Some conditions that occur are when the child is too liberated so that they can do anything without checking first from parents who do not really supervise properly which makes this uncontrollable. In addition, another possibility is when the parents show too much of their activities in gambling which makes the child get used to this which makes the situation a little worse because of the addictive effect it has. This should be something to watch out for lest something like this happens to other parents because it is obviously very troublesome.

That was the reason why under age are not meant to enter into any gambling hall ,because the more they keep going to that gambling hall that's the more they are learning,you know those children catch up so easily.probably they can decide to give it a try, from there dey keep trying over and over again. in the process of trying it becomes addiction,  if they don't have money for gamble they can decide to steal money from there parents,as a child they are not wise enough to know the implications.if I happens to be the father of that child he will be punished so that he won't grow up with that lifestyle either.
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Gambling is already a bad habit, but if someone steals money and participates in gambling, it becomes even worse. If that bad thing happens to one's own child, then the matter looks worse and becomes a humiliating matter. But I think in this case there is a lack of proper education for that child because in academic education he must not have been informed about the serious crime of stealing. Or even if he was informed about the theft, he might not have taken the knowledge because he was a good student and would never have taken his father's pocket money or participated in the Jura by stealing. But one thing is more important that if the child was taught proper education and manners as a guardian then surely he would not have done such a bad thing like stealing.
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It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.
This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.
In the end, this will not be separated from parents because if they can guide well, the possibility of things like this can still be minimized.

Indeed, what children do is a mistake that even this becomes a double mistake where apart from gambling they also commit theft in order to fulfill their desires in gambling but in this case the parents are also the ones who are affected because there must be several reasons that make the child like this.

Some conditions that occur are when the child is too liberated so that they can do anything without checking first from parents who do not really supervise properly which makes this uncontrollable. In addition, another possibility is when the parents show too much of their activities in gambling which makes the child get used to this which makes the situation a little worse because of the addictive effect it has. This should be something to watch out for lest something like this happens to other parents because it is obviously very troublesome.
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I guess what goes around comes around. That time when I was younger, I did took my parents money and did every shit that I can when I was a kid so this is to be expected that my kid will also the same thing to me. But I will not tolerate that, I won't say that it's okay because I did the same thing when I was younger. Because if I do, the state of mind of my kid will think that it's okay to redo it and much worse a bigger amount might be taken and that can process more addiction to his mind as he keep growing because pops has got money.

That's what we should avoid and we need to discipline our kids so that they're not going to tolerate such wrong actions from themselves and also to anyone that they know as they encounter some of it in the future. We can be tolerant but with specific actions like this, we can't just tolerate it and say that never do it again. There has to be some punishments that I have to make but it goes to play a part depending on how tough the punishment and the mistake of my kid does.
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Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?
YES!!!
 No matter how much he won at the end, I'll still question him about how he got to pull off with that stunt... Always learn to call a spade by it name..  If not, that'll always give him the impression that whenever he steals from your bank or wallet, he always gonna havw justifications for that... There's actually an attitude you'll condone today and it becomes a problem for you tomorrow... Always advice your children no matter how lucky they might be on their way doing crippy things.

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Winning the game or gambling isnt an excuse or valid reason for you as a parent wont really be that tending to scold and discipline your child. Stealing is stealing and it doesnt matter
whether its small or not.Its not something that should really be tolerated and as a parent then it would really be just that wise that you should be disciplining them on the time that they would really be
committing out those mistakes on which it is really just that right for a parent to do so. Dont get that be easing out on such situation just because he turns out to be a winner.

On the time that you wont really be tending to control up your son on what he had done, then dont get surprised that one day that they would really be potentially or likely
become that theifs on the time that they dont have anymore money for them to gamble on. This is why it would really be always best that you should really know
on what you should gonna do as a parent. Parenting does gives out that impact into someone.
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Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.
Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.
Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.
Every child is unique, with their own personality, hobbies, and values. As a result, it is critical that parents remain open-minded and tailor their approach to their child's specific needs. It is not always easy to do, but it is critical to realize that children have choice and are capable of making their own decisions, even if they do them incorrectly.
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Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.
Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.
Without a doubt the role of the parents has changed with the introduction of all of these new technologies, but their role as guides remain, however a guide can only suggest a path of action, but it is up to the kids to listen to that advice or not, so if their kids decide to not listen then we cannot blame the parents, which did their job in order to try to make their kids avoid that dangerous path, and instead we must blame the kids which purposely took a path they knew it was dangerous.
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Question: would she be so disheartened and mad as this if the son had won the bet on a multi million price?
Dear fellows, let's assume you are the mom, what would be your state of mind on this context?
YES!!!
 No matter how much he won at the end, I'll still question him about how he got to pull off with that stunt... Always learn to call a spade by it name..  If not, that'll always give him the impression that whenever he steals from your bank or wallet, he always gonna havw justifications for that... There's actually an attitude you'll condone today and it becomes a problem for you tomorrow... Always advice your children no matter how lucky they might be on their way doing crippy things.

Sandra 🧑‍🦰
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It sounds absurd. Stealing his mother's money is a sign of disrespect to her coupled that she went through a whole lot to get that money. Who knows If that was the last money she kept for the house use that he stole from her account? Possibly that boy must be an addicted gambler to start with because this act of his speaks of more volumes than what they could imagine. He should be properly punished for that irresponsible act and made to undergo rehab to get himself free from addiction.
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This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.
Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.
Not only just that limited to gambling but also into other things as well on which it could really be potentially be influenced out and this is something that cant really be avoided because of todays
era or days on which technology is so advanced or simply with the easy access then its unavoidable for your kids to see those things without you knowing. This is why parenting do becomes even more challenging. This is why it would really be better that you should really be telling them about those dangers and risks so that on the time that they would be able to see it online
then they would really be already know on how to adjust and act accordingly. Somewhat its not really that guaranteed but at least as a parent you've been able to do your part.
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This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.
Parents may have had great influence on the past, but now as soon as a kid grabs a smartphone and begins to look for things on their own, the influence of the parents diminish significantly, as now kids have a source of information and entertainment that is with them anytime they want, something that even the most dedicated parent is unable to do as they have many other things to worry about, so unless the parents directly or indirectly introduced gambling to their kids, I do not think we can blame them if their kids begins to do this at an early age.
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It is very sad because if your child becomes addicted to gambling and loses his wealth. Although in the present generation it is nothing because there are many things happening around us which we know very little because it is a shameful act. All I understand is to get your child out of the gambling side and give him a chance to love because the longer he stays on the gambling side the more addicted he will become. So it should be decided as soon as possible. Although there were some ways to get addicted to gambling such as: his friends and people around him. So first of all, you have to leave with them, only then you can avoid this and father's money will not be wasted.
This is clearly due to the lack of understanding given by parents to their children regarding gambling and its risks. a child who still has no income is forced to earn money from gambling, that is something bad.
the role of parents should be encouraged for such situations. Keeping away from gambling may not be easy, but parents must provide reasonable explanations to build better thinking in children towards gambling. so they can decide for themselves whether gambling is good for them or not.
improve our relationship with children. then everything will be fine.
This discussions around parents and their gambling children always sounds very vague to me, owning to the fact that this days, most parents don't even know anything, or usually don't know anything about their children getting themselves involved in gambling, most especially; teenagers who have friends in schools and around their homes, and most of the time, it's completely impossible to (as a parent) know what your child is up to when ever he or she leaves your sight, and as a matter of fact, it is completely impossible to keep tabs on your child for 24 hours a day and 7 days a week, completely impossible.

So, for me, the only way I sometimes blame parents is in their failure to ask their children how they come about the money they are sometimes spending, so as to know the source and possibly take the necessary actions when the source of the fund is from something the parent don't for the child, this is where most parents miss it completely.

A mother usually knows what their kids are doing and how the way her kids think that's why when the mother has a gut feeling, it's usually along with her suspicions base on what the kid had previously done. Maybe fathers don't have all the knowledge but when you have a kid, you always want to how he's doing and what he thinks.

If a father can do that, and he has a greater influence on the kid and the kid looks up to his dad like a hero, the dad will be able to prevent future disasters like a kid gambling so early in his life.
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