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Quote from: Blitzboy on December 22, 2023, 12:08:41 PM

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Quote from: fruktik on December 21, 2023, 01:06:44 AM

but this process has been recognized as a serious disease - gambling addiction. It is quite difficult to recover. It's a bit like drug addiction.

Yes, that's what happens in many cases of young people or even old people who are addicted to gambling. What can be reduced is the intensity of gambling, to reduce gambling activity gradually. it is very difficult to ask a gambling addict to stop. What is done is a process of understanding to be able to better control the gambling that is carried out. and the process will of course not happen simply or even in a short time.

but in some cases, it depends on the gambler himself. because of course, there must be a willingness to reduce their activities. whether it's due to worsening finances or coercion from people around you.

Gambling addiction can still be handled gradually if they are able to stop themselves from frequently engaging in gambling activities, they must have a strong determination to stop, especially for husbands and wives who are addicted to gambling. They must be able to stop for a better survival it is not easy but If husband and wife are able to support each other to stop together then the process will not last long because usually family factors are very important for the gambler himself.

For other people, addiction may be something that is difficult to cure, but this depends on the gambler himself, if they don't have the intention and determination then it will be something that is very difficult to cure as long as they have a supportive family gambling addiction will get faster to handle.

Family-based gambling addiction treatment is unique. Mutual determination between husband and wife can change lives. Addiction is sometimes an indication of deeper difficulties. Sustainable recovery requires addressing these issues. Therapy can reveal and treat these difficulties, facilitating rehabilitation. Society needs to evolve its view of gambling addiction. Not merely a "bad habit", its mental illness. Awareness and stigma reduction can increase help-seeking. Gambling industry regulations like responsible gambling can also prevent.

Family support is crucial, but its only part of the rehabilitation ecology. Personal drive, professional assistance, and social support are needed. Together, these factors can make addiction recovery attainable

Aside from all that you have said, I did like to state and make it categorically clear that, the idea of a husband and his wife both being addicted to gambling is nothing but a pure assumption, or should I call it speculation or a wishful thinking.

In a real sense, it's pretty difficult, more like impossible for a man and the woman of the house to both fall into gambling addiction, this is nothing but pure speculation, for those who are not married, family life is full of expenses, most especially when children are already a part of the family, I personally believe that, it's practically impossible for a man and a woman to become addicted to gambling while being married to themselves, this ever happening will be the height of stupidity if you ask me.

The truth of the matter is that, bills that comes with being a family Persons, won't even allow the husband and the wife to gamble enough to the extent of getting addicted to it.

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Quote from: klidex on December 22, 2023, 01:33:38 AM

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Quote from: fruktik on December 21, 2023, 01:06:44 AM

but this process has been recognized as a serious disease - gambling addiction. It is quite difficult to recover. It's a bit like drug addiction.

Yes, that's what happens in many cases of young people or even old people who are addicted to gambling. What can be reduced is the intensity of gambling, to reduce gambling activity gradually. it is very difficult to ask a gambling addict to stop. What is done is a process of understanding to be able to better control the gambling that is carried out. and the process will of course not happen simply or even in a short time.

but in some cases, it depends on the gambler himself. because of course, there must be a willingness to reduce their activities. whether it's due to worsening finances or coercion from people around you.

Gambling addiction can still be handled gradually if they are able to stop themselves from frequently engaging in gambling activities, they must have a strong determination to stop, especially for husbands and wives who are addicted to gambling. They must be able to stop for a better survival it is not easy but If husband and wife are able to support each other to stop together then the process will not last long because usually family factors are very important for the gambler himself.

For other people, addiction may be something that is difficult to cure, but this depends on the gambler himself, if they don't have the intention and determination then it will be something that is very difficult to cure as long as they have a supportive family gambling addiction will get faster to handle.

Family-based gambling addiction treatment is unique. Mutual determination between husband and wife can change lives. Addiction is sometimes an indication of deeper difficulties. Sustainable recovery requires addressing these issues. Therapy can reveal and treat these difficulties, facilitating rehabilitation. Society needs to evolve its view of gambling addiction. Not merely a "bad habit", its mental illness. Awareness and stigma reduction can increase help-seeking. Gambling industry regulations like responsible gambling can also prevent.

Family support is crucial, but its only part of the rehabilitation ecology. Personal drive, professional assistance, and social support are needed. Together, these factors can make addiction recovery attainable

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 10, 2023, 06:55:58 AM

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

In as much both couple gamble responsibly with moderation to avoid addiction nothing is wrong with both of them gambling, I had come across couples who take excessive alcohol which I believe is completely wrong, however in the case of couples involved in gambling I am sure none of them would quit it for another because it seem both of them are engrossed in gambling, thus way out is both of them should be transparent with their gambling activities by gambling with the amount of money they can afford to lose therefore it mustn't affect family expenses especially money for feeding, payment of bills and other relevant expenses atleast whatever income earned from gambling would also help their home

I think whether it's alcoholism or gambling addiction both are basically negative and if you can it's better to avoid it, it's okay because the fear of something going wrong is very possible. If indeed in this case both spouses are already involved in gambling then yes maybe I would also agree with your idea which is quite confusing to choose who should stop, I can't choose one of the two because after all they both have an important role in a family.

The wife has the job of managing the household as well as allocating the money given to her by her husband to fulfill all the needs, and the husband acts as the head of the family where he has a greater responsibility to earn a living, so both roles are involved in money, and of course if one of them is gambling aggressively then it is very likely that the money earned from the main job is allocated to gambling and forgetting some of the more important needs. That's right, there's nothing wrong with quitting if it's going to be very difficult for both of them, so I think they need to be committed to keeping their gambling activities in check in terms of always being strict on limits and not going overboard, all for the sake of the balance between money for gambling and money for family needs.

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Quote from: I_Anime on December 22, 2023, 02:03:55 AM

If they are financially capable and can handle the risk in it I don't see any issues there.

No issues if they can but the question is will they be able to handle it? Risk changes and it varies from their situation that sometimes will definitely not in their favor.

Quote from: I_Anime on December 22, 2023, 02:03:55 AM

One thing about gambling is that is not easy to stop it as it is easy to start it. So the thing that no gambler can boldly say he or she haven't loss in a game before because that just one thing about it. But in time you can also experience winning but doesn't losses can be neglected that why you got to find your way of winning are to manage your greed. And how to many the percentage you using.

Whether they have ways to win or they'll just eventually going to lose. What matters to them is that they should not neglect their duties as parents. But that can't be guaranteed because of how they're doing things together with parenting. That's not sufficient to give all of their full efforts to their duties as parents because there is gambling and it's not just their time that shall be used there but also their money.

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Quote from: I_Anime on December 22, 2023, 02:03:55 AM

If they are financially capable and can handle the risk in it I don't see any issues there. One thing about gambling is that is not easy to stop it as it is easy to start it. So the thing that no gambler can boldly say he or she haven't loss in a game before because that just one thing about it. But in time you can also experience winning but doesn't losses can be neglected that why you got to find your way of winning are to manage your greed. And how to many the percentage you using.

People who are financially capable can continue gambling and do not need to decide who should stop gambling. But we know that gambling can cause a person to lose self-control, and if that happens, a person can lose all their money.
It needs to be realized that if they can both decide to reduce their gambling activities and stop gambling, it will be better for their family. They can supervise their children better because they have no desire to gamble.
There is no need to choose who should stop, not the husband or the wife, but by both stopping gambling, they can save money for their children.
They don't need to pin their hopes on gambling to make money, especially if they both work and can earn a salary. Of course, it will help his family financially.

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 10, 2023, 06:55:58 AM

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

In as much both couple gamble responsibly with moderation to avoid addiction nothing is wrong with both of them gambling, I had come across couples who take excessive alcohol which I believe is completely wrong, however in the case of couples involved in gambling I am sure none of them would quit it for another because it seem both of them are engrossed in gambling, thus way out is both of them should be transparent with their gambling activities by gambling with the amount of money they can afford to lose therefore it mustn't affect family expenses especially money for feeding, payment of bills and other relevant expenses atleast whatever income earned from gambling would also help their home

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Since both parents love to gamble, they can make a competition between each other. That will be fair I think. They can start with identical budget, and by the end of a period, calculate, who was more successful in gambling. That persons can continue gambling freely, but the other person only after all the duties are done. And after a period of time repeat competition. Wont that be a solution that dont harm anyone?

I think there is no problem if both of them compete, it's just that if they don't have children, maybe they're free, but it would be a problem if they have children, no one is taking care of them and their time is spent gambling, so one of them has to give in or take turns taking care of other household needs so there's no chaos. in taking care of the household, the problem discussed by the OP is one of having to give in to taking care of the family.

Although perhaps no one needs to give in, they can even play at the same time at certain times, but the important thing is not to neglect time with children and family, so there is no jealousy from both of them if they can do it, but if they can't, it's better if one of them has to stop playing. think about the interests of children and families.

I agree that no one should give in, or they must find a compromise that is suitable for both, husband and wife, but my solution I think is a nice alternative of quitting. As no one quits, they just reduce amount of time one of them gamble. Regards children, they require attention and parenting from both parents equally. We have to be honest, but there are father can never replace mother and opposite. If they have children, then all priority must be given to them, and gambling should be put aside for both of them.

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If they are financially capable and can handle the risk in it I don't see any issues there. One thing about gambling is that is not easy to stop it as it is easy to start it. So the thing that no gambler can boldly say he or she haven't loss in a game before because that just one thing about it. But in time you can also experience winning but doesn't losses can be neglected that why you got to find your way of winning are to manage your greed. And how to many the percentage you using.

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Quote from: rozak on December 21, 2023, 01:20:52 AM

Quote from: fruktik on December 21, 2023, 01:06:44 AM

but this process has been recognized as a serious disease - gambling addiction. It is quite difficult to recover. It's a bit like drug addiction.

Yes, that's what happens in many cases of young people or even old people who are addicted to gambling. What can be reduced is the intensity of gambling, to reduce gambling activity gradually. it is very difficult to ask a gambling addict to stop. What is done is a process of understanding to be able to better control the gambling that is carried out. and the process will of course not happen simply or even in a short time.

but in some cases, it depends on the gambler himself. because of course, there must be a willingness to reduce their activities. whether it's due to worsening finances or coercion from people around you.

Gambling addiction can still be handled gradually if they are able to stop themselves from frequently engaging in gambling activities, they must have a strong determination to stop, especially for husbands and wives who are addicted to gambling. They must be able to stop for a better survival it is not easy but If husband and wife are able to support each other to stop together then the process will not last long because usually family factors are very important for the gambler himself.

For other people, addiction may be something that is difficult to cure, but this depends on the gambler himself, if they don't have the intention and determination then it will be something that is very difficult to cure as long as they have a supportive family gambling addiction will get faster to handle.

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Quote from: 348Judah on December 21, 2023, 03:39:23 PM

Quote from: Onyeeze on December 20, 2023, 06:36:02 PM

Gambling is kind of thing we do base on our knowledge and not basically that someone pushed us into it, I know that gambling have to do with something I know very well that most people who plays gambling doesn't quite in gambling because of someone's advice, the major reasons why so many of them leave gambling might be aa result much losing, so if you don't want to be participating in gambling due to you are not benefiting in gambling again, you can as well understand that you have to leave gambling base on your detriment and your betterment, gambling is something we do without anyone teaching us the way forward.

Someone who have been gambling so a while shouldn't quit gambling all because of the considerations they had with losses while gambling, they may only pause for a while when they are financially incapable of affording gambling or when they are having a complicated health challenges, most people cannot because of loosing bets take decision on quiting for gambling when they are already finding pleasure with it.

When they are at a point in their life being unable to afford some gambling, maybe it would be better for them to quit gambling entirely and focus on building a financially free life based on hard work. If gambling can blow a hole into their bank accounts such that it has profound subsequent consequences, choosing to gamble is a bad choice in my opinion and instead they should make more general and basic plans to change their lives instead of waiting from paycheck to paycheck to be able to gamble again.

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Quote from: 348Judah on December 21, 2023, 03:39:23 PM

Quote from: Onyeeze on December 20, 2023, 06:36:02 PM

Gambling is kind of thing we do base on our knowledge and not basically that someone pushed us into it, I know that gambling have to do with something I know very well that most people who plays gambling doesn't quite in gambling because of someone's advice, the major reasons why so many of them leave gambling might be aa result much losing, so if you don't want to be participating in gambling due to you are not benefiting in gambling again, you can as well understand that you have to leave gambling base on your detriment and your betterment, gambling is something we do without anyone teaching us the way forward.

Someone who have been gambling so a while shouldn't quit gambling all because of the considerations they had with losses while gambling, they may only pause for a while when they are financially incapable of affording gambling or when they are having a complicated health challenges, most people cannot because of loosing bets take decision on quiting for gambling when they are already finding pleasure with it.

That's true. One of the main reasons why gamblers cannot terminate their habit is because of revenge. In their mind there still remains the desire to take back whatever they had lost and it's a cycle that never ends.
A few days ago I said to myself that I was going to lessen playing casino games, especially the originals because I had been losing in a bad streak. But, I tested again yesterday and I found myself winning and I dropped the ball of Plinko at x1000. After that, I kept on winning although not as big as the first time and then I withdrew the funds. How can a gambler stop if he is given a chance again to win? Right now, I am thinking about gambling the same way again and try if I can win one more time. I am just waiting for my funds and then I will try again.
That's just one of the reasons why a gambler cannot quit. There are other reasons from different gamblers on why they keep on doing it but I know that it's always about revenge and that luck coming to them one day to take advantage of the profit they can make.

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Quote from: n00ber on December 20, 2023, 09:44:29 PM

I have seen many couples engage in responsible gambling. They have a solid financial base and are always disciplined in gambling.

The fear is not about them, they can be doing fine by themselves, its about the legacy they create for their children, unless its about couples who don't Care about having kids. These tiny legs are super observant and a silly mistake from their caregivers can get their lives ruined and get them off on the wrong path.

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I believe that in the near future, gambling will be legalized in most countries, and there will be widespread information on the internet and the streets. Your children's lack of understanding of gambling knowledge is the foundation for gambling addiction. Thus, the more it is banned, the more curious it is for children to learn. It is important to show them clearly the negative effects of gambling on life and the economy so that children can control their decisions. It is facing the sweet temptation of betting games. Let's raise gambling awareness among our children.

Children under the age of 16 should not be exposed to gambling, reason being that they're not psychologically sound and matured enough to make good decisions for themselves and gambling decisions is one of the toughest decisions to make because of its addiction possibility. Its More like congesting their childhood. Please things children are exposed to should be greatly regulated. That's why you see 18+ in most platforms. They're not stupid, they know the dangers of involving children in those things at a tender age. It doesn't go well with them in the long run.

As a parent whether husband or wife then it would really be just normal that both of you would really be that responsible when it comes on raising up your kids on which it is really just that right that you should really be that mindful about on the things that you are dealing with on which it cant really be seen by your kids because if they do then high chances or probability that they would really be doing the same thing and this is something that we dont really like to happen. Gambling isnt bad if you are really just that responsible on what you are doing or simply being that kept secret or something that cant be seen by your kids
because everything that they would be able to see into their parents are actually that good or right things which not all the time to be that way.

You would really be just that mindful on quitting up things when everything is already that been messed up. This is why it would be better that you should quit up before it too late.
Doesnt matter on whose the one, the important thing is that one of you would really be able to quit and would help out the other one on doing the same.
Yes, its hard but its not really that impossible.

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Quote from: n00ber on December 20, 2023, 09:44:29 PM

I have seen many couples engage in responsible gambling. They have a solid financial base and are always disciplined in gambling.

The fear is not about them, they can be doing fine by themselves, its about the legacy they create for their children, unless its about couples who don't Care about having kids. These tiny legs are super observant and a silly mistake from their caregivers can get their lives ruined and get them off on the wrong path.

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I believe that in the near future, gambling will be legalized in most countries, and there will be widespread information on the internet and the streets. Your children's lack of understanding of gambling knowledge is the foundation for gambling addiction. Thus, the more it is banned, the more curious it is for children to learn. It is important to show them clearly the negative effects of gambling on life and the economy so that children can control their decisions. It is facing the sweet temptation of betting games. Let's raise gambling awareness among our children.

Children under the age of 16 should not be exposed to gambling, reason being that they're not psychologically sound and matured enough to make good decisions for themselves and gambling decisions is one of the toughest decisions to make because of its addiction possibility. Its More like congesting their childhood. Please things children are exposed to should be greatly regulated. That's why you see 18+ in most platforms. They're not stupid, they know the dangers of involving children in those things at a tender age. It doesn't go well with them in the long run.

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Quote from: Onyeeze on December 20, 2023, 06:36:02 PM

Gambling is kind of thing we do base on our knowledge and not basically that someone pushed us into it, I know that gambling have to do with something I know very well that most people who plays gambling doesn't quite in gambling because of someone's advice, the major reasons why so many of them leave gambling might be aa result much losing, so if you don't want to be participating in gambling due to you are not benefiting in gambling again, you can as well understand that you have to leave gambling base on your detriment and your betterment, gambling is something we do without anyone teaching us the way forward.

Someone who have been gambling so a while shouldn't quit gambling all because of the considerations they had with losses while gambling, they may only pause for a while when they are financially incapable of affording gambling or when they are having a complicated health challenges, most people cannot because of loosing bets take decision on quiting for gambling when they are already finding pleasure with it.

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 10, 2023, 06:55:58 AM

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Though I've not heard of such situation where both spouses are gamblers, but if they could manage their finance properly in a way that there's always money to cater for the family needs and children's educational expenses, then I see no reason for any of them to quit. They can still be gambling, having fun while raising their kids but in the case where one of them is not being prudent with his or her gambling habit or spending, then help should be sought after or should quit gambling.

In fact, if gambling weren't so addictive and dangerous for people with poor self-control, it would be a great development. For example, on Friday evening, you and your wife decided to buy beer together and sit and play slots. I think this will cause a lot of emotions, and they will be stronger than when watching a TV series or a computer game, but the price for this is too high. That's why I don't drag my girlfriend into this. I don't want her to have her self-control tested.
Women are weak and such entertainment affects them much more strongly than us men.

I had always played this local whot card game with my woman whenever she's around for the weekends because she's not always around due to her kind regards of job and the location far from home, so when she's around we play that game together for fun and entertain ourselves you know that lovebirds kind of thing. And I haven't seen her play any other game cause the purpose she plays that with me is not for money making but fun between two lovers.

It is when he two couples/lovers introduce money into the game making it seem as a challenge between the two that's when you have got to be worried if she can be capable of holding herself together going forward from falling into addiction , because what I discovered is that people that gamble for entertainment rarely fall into gambling addiction compared to those that gamble for money making.

It's great that you have this way of spending time together. Money in this card game would really ruin such a touching relationship.

I think that the greatest gambling addictions occur among those who do not have a partner. Such people want to prove to themselves and others their importance. Plus, they understand that with a lot of money they will definitely not be left to live alone, but in reality they get such huge debts that such financial responsibilities will scare off any girl. The game cannot solve all life's problems, and this is obvious to any person who considers himself a highly accomplished person.

Actually doing gambling both you and your wife wont really be an issue as long you are really just not forgetting other things or priorities or simply do really make this some sort of fun or leisure time together.
If you are really that still intact with your finances and having that kind of control on the things that you've been dealing with then its not really an issue. Things do really just that become messy on the time that you would really be not minding about those things which are important and you are already that putting importance on gambling rather than on to those things and this is where issues do really kicks in.
This is why it would really be always important that you should really know your limitation and you should really know on what you are doing.

On the time that you and your wife had already do commit out things like having those financial struggles or problems just because of too much gambling then this is already that considered to be bad.
Quitting? Its to you as a husband and father on what are the things that you would really be doing. You wont really be that so dumb on not to realize on whats the things
that are happening.

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 21, 2023, 06:01:59 AM

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 10, 2023, 06:55:58 AM

Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

Though I've not heard of such situation where both spouses are gamblers, but if they could manage their finance properly in a way that there's always money to cater for the family needs and children's educational expenses, then I see no reason for any of them to quit. They can still be gambling, having fun while raising their kids but in the case where one of them is not being prudent with his or her gambling habit or spending, then help should be sought after or should quit gambling.

In fact, if gambling weren't so addictive and dangerous for people with poor self-control, it would be a great development. For example, on Friday evening, you and your wife decided to buy beer together and sit and play slots. I think this will cause a lot of emotions, and they will be stronger than when watching a TV series or a computer game, but the price for this is too high. That's why I don't drag my girlfriend into this. I don't want her to have her self-control tested.
Women are weak and such entertainment affects them much more strongly than us men.

I had always played this local whot card game with my woman whenever she's around for the weekends because she's not always around due to her kind regards of job and the location far from home, so when she's around we play that game together for fun and entertain ourselves you know that lovebirds kind of thing. And I haven't seen her play any other game cause the purpose she plays that with me is not for money making but fun between two lovers.

It is when he two couples/lovers introduce money into the game making it seem as a challenge between the two that's when you have got to be worried if she can be capable of holding herself together going forward from falling into addiction , because what I discovered is that people that gamble for entertainment rarely fall into gambling addiction compared to those that gamble for money making.

It's great that you have this way of spending time together. Money in this card game would really ruin such a touching relationship.

I think that the greatest gambling addictions occur among those who do not have a partner. Such people want to prove to themselves and others their importance. Plus, they understand that with a lot of money they will definitely not be left to live alone, but in reality they get such huge debts that such financial responsibilities will scare off any girl. The game cannot solve all life's problems, and this is obvious to any person who considers himself a highly accomplished person.

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Quote from: Lida93 on December 21, 2023, 06:01:59 AM

I had always played this local whot card game with my woman whenever she's around for the weekends because she's not always around due to her kind regards of job and the location far from home, so when she's around we play that game together for fun and entertain ourselves you know that lovebirds kind of thing. And I haven't seen her play any other game cause the purpose she plays that with me is not for money making but fun between two lovers.

How much budget you run out every time you play the card on the weekend because if you only decrease a small amount then I am sure this will not affect anything. Gambling will be more addicted if done routinely and I do not believe people say it is not addicted if gambling activities are carried out routinely. In my environment rarely people are involved in gambling with their partners because gambling is not a good deed according to the judgment of most people.

Quote from: Lida93 on December 21, 2023, 06:01:59 AM

It is when he two couples/lovers introduce money into the game making it seem as a challenge between the two that's when you have got to be worried if she can be capable of holding herself together going forward from falling into addiction , because what I discovered is that people that gamble for entertainment rarely fall into gambling addiction compared to those that gamble for money making.

The problem is addicted not to be based on challenges to play but because this activity is carried out irresponsible. Similarly, the couple and if the two are unable to maintain the proportion of gambling that spend a lot of money then it is worried that they will be addicted to who are unable to control themselves. In the end they will get a much greater problem because various problems will arise when finance is not better.

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Quote from: Winterfrost on December 19, 2023, 03:22:27 PM

Obviously the wife has to quit gambling. The husband has the responsibility to provide money for the family so it is understandable that he goes into gambling to meet up with the family needs. On the hand the wife's responsibility is to grow and care for the family. Am still wondering how women who are into gambling tend to mix family responsibilities with gambling. After looking out for the kids, prepare meal for the family, do the dishes and make preparations for the next day. They still have time to gamble. Such a woman is strong and i do not have any issue with women in gambling. Am just saying that the both of them should not be gambling at least there should be one who will help manage the other from being addicted.

Gambling is not a way to earn money and provide for the family with that money, so a man doesn't need to continue gambling while saying that he has a responsibility and has to provide for the family. Those who take responsibility don't gamble their money away because no matter what, you are not going to keep winning all the time from gambling and there will be a day when you will lose everything you have that you use to earn money and then you will just sit and regret everything.

So, we can't say that if a couple gambles, the man should continue gambling while the woman should stop doing it because the man has a responsibility. I would say, the woman should continue gambling for fun while the man should find a job or do a business so that he can have a proper source of income and be able to provide more for the family.

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Quote from: piebeyb on December 21, 2023, 08:26:10 AM

Quote from: bakasabo on December 21, 2023, 07:47:12 AM

Since both parents love to gamble, they can make a competition between each other. That will be fair I think. They can start with identical budget, and by the end of a period, calculate, who was more successful in gambling. That persons can continue gambling freely, but the other person only after all the duties are done. And after a period of time repeat competition. Wont that be a solution that dont harm anyone?

I think there is no problem if both of them compete, it's just that if they don't have children, maybe they're free, but it would be a problem if they have children, no one is taking care of them and their time is spent gambling, so one of them has to give in or take turns taking care of other household needs so there's no chaos. in taking care of the household, the problem discussed by the OP is one of having to give in to taking care of the family.

Although perhaps no one needs to give in, they can even play at the same time at certain times, but the important thing is not to neglect time with children and family, so there is no jealousy from both of them if they can do it, but if they can't, it's better if one of them has to stop playing. think about the interests of children and families.

that's true, because gambling can also make them focus only on the gambling they are doing, they probably won't be disturbed when they are gambling because it's not fun to gamble but there are distractions, so I think if they both like gambling they should can divide their time well so that gambling makes them forget more important things. also like you said about children, when they have children I think they have to reduce their gambling activities because maybe if they still like to gamble it could have an impact on their children.

You are right, one of them must stop gambling because the family is of course the most valuable asset that must be protected, don't let gambling destroy the family and the future of their children. because I think families must be provided with the best possible care, with gambling having a dangerous impact that could damage them and their families. so I think it's better that they both can stop gambling.

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Quote from: bakasabo on December 21, 2023, 07:47:12 AM

Since both parents love to gamble, they can make a competition between each other. That will be fair I think. They can start with identical budget, and by the end of a period, calculate, who was more successful in gambling. That persons can continue gambling freely, but the other person only after all the duties are done. And after a period of time repeat competition. Wont that be a solution that dont harm anyone?

I think there is no problem if both of them compete, it's just that if they don't have children, maybe they're free, but it would be a problem if they have children, no one is taking care of them and their time is spent gambling, so one of them has to give in or take turns taking care of other household needs so there's no chaos. in taking care of the household, the problem discussed by the OP is one of having to give in to taking care of the family.

Although perhaps no one needs to give in, they can even play at the same time at certain times, but the important thing is not to neglect time with children and family, so there is no jealousy from both of them if they can do it, but if they can't, it's better if one of them has to stop playing. think about the interests of children and families.

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