In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.
Would it help if one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.
I haven’t heard of a situation like this before, even outside the forum, and I have not seen any topic related to your discussion on this forum before.If both husband and wife are gamblers and a person needs to stop, I will say the wife should be the one to stop because she spends more time with the kids than the husband; she is taking care of the kids personal health and other things; she will still do house chores, cooking, and other things. If the wife is gambling, I believe there will be a big problem in that household because she won’t get enough time to do all these things I just listed, and that is why the wife should be the one stop. Gambling is very dangerous for her.But for the husband, definitely, he will have a job that he does to make money, so even if he gambles, as long as he is not addicted to it and he does it for fun, I don’t think it is a big deal.
They both need each other's cooperation to perform well in gambling. A couple who work together in adventuring the fun of gambling would succeed in gambling and any other life businesses they run. Situations differ in individuals and we may be wrong in generalizing a specific outcome for all gambling couples.
I don’t think it is a good idea for both couples to gamble. Remember that we are not the same, and one person may view it as something to do for fun. What if another person does not view it the same as the first person? From there, there will be misunderstandings between both of them, and problems will now start coming to them. Therefore, the other person who did not view gambling for fun will be thinking of making money from gambling, which will lead him or her to addiction, which may turn that family into financial difficulties.
Devising accurate techniques for balancing the funds thrown into gambling wouldn't take them lots of time. And if they
succeed, the only requirement would be sticking to the plan.
Nah man. You are not a gambler, and that is why you think this way: gamblers didn’t think the way you think what gamblers do after winning some amount of money is to get another odd and stake the amount that is higher than what they staked and won previous going to get more than what have been achieved, so they don’t think of getting another thing else soing with that money but to gambler more to generate another money, which is what they are planning, which is not correct.