Topic: Why do people hate? (Read 21397 times)
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People are choosing to hate than to be loved just because in their mind its easiest to hate than to feel love and they are afraid that if they continue to love it will sinply end to heartbreak and hate so it's better to prevent that experience. And also people feeling hate because of insecurity or fear.
I think that human's anger and hatred is a result of bad previous life experience. Someone has treated him bad and as a result we have a bad behavior. The other reason of bad behavior is a genetics. It's is very difficult to overcome yourself in this case. Anyway, we have the choice of what kind of wolf to feed.
We hate because we don't understand. If we understood something very clearly then there is nothing to hate. Hate is a secondary response to fear. If you are afraid of something then eventually you will hate it (i got it from star wars btw). Hate unlike dislike isnvery different and people interchange one another out of hyperbole. But know this, hate is an emotion deeply rooted in fear. Fear comes from the unknown. Know something, understand it before you judge. If
People hate someone because of envy, they want anything that was impossible for them to have.
There is a lot of roots of hate and that might be good or bad.
Good where in you love someone and they are being hurt by someone, you love them so the most common reaction of you to those people who hurt your loved ones will hate them. Bad in terms of revenge or the heredity of hate, I guess I can take this on some countries who had a past of war. Hating someone will just plant another hate on them and this loop will be infinite, if you want to halt this hate you must turn this hate into love. I know that is hard but if you will be thinking for the sake of other people, you can do this in some sorts.
I believe that people who hate are people that are beyond selfish, are incredibly unstable, very insecure, spoiled rotten. Such people are in search for what they think will satisfy their crave, but that satisfaction comes with a price. When one appetite is cured, another one of larger proportion grows for the next meal. Haters are people that have no peace within themselves. Such people can never fully satisfied, so they begin to become envious towards people who lead righteous lives, and will go out of their ways to destroy innocent people. Some people aren't happy unless they are miserable, and misery always loves company.
Apparently, people hates due to thier unpleasant environment. As for myself I hate because I was mis understood. People will affect your mentally. It is either good effect or bad. But being hateful on world does not mean your angry of it, sometimes it means your wondering to find peace.
Every one of us have our own desires, fantasies, and interest in power. Although most of us tend to just set that aside for the idea of a peaceful life and contentment if those things just bring conflict. However, some are desperate enough to the point of hurting people or hold a grudge on them and develop hatred towards the person that hinders them from getting their desires. It is somehow human nature to feel hatred but it is up to us if we give in to it; If we feed it or try to go on with that path or change course.
I guess others answered with the same opinion as me before, so just thanks for sharing the story
When people hating something or somebody the usually don't even have their own opinion. The reason of hate is just for hate 
It's strange but true.
It's strange but true. This is a wellknown story:
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
Everyone has both good and bad inside of us but it's our decision what to show to other people. Most people hate others because they are envy of what others have that they don't have. Those people chooses to seek for things they don't have instead of being contented with what they have. Hate is sometimes accompanied with anger meaning if a person is mad there's a possibility that they hate you too. Let's not hate and be happy for what others achieved.
It depends but mostly it's as a result of envy....when people were unable to reach your level of your success, they tend to hate you
Hate of a whole race of people, hate of a whole set of people of certain sexual orientations or gender identitie, that kind of hate is projection. I’m insecure in myself, in my identification with my culture, in my sexual orientation, in my gender so I project hatred onto you because I’m not real sure that if I don’t, I won’t hate myself.
So, here’s the thing about hate of difference: It says everything about the hater, and nothing about the hated.
So, here’s the thing about hate of difference: It says everything about the hater, and nothing about the hated.
Because you have something that they don’t, Because they think you don’t deserve it, Because they have nothing better to do in life.
Hatred comes due to many reasons like dislike towards someone, previous enmity etc.
because of the insecurities in life or maybe in the physical appearance. maybe because of anger thats why we hate. or maybe because of dissapointments. and i think because of discrimination.
never believed in hateness. sure, people dont hate, its just a dislike or enmity. but hate is such a low feeling, almost an istinct. we should be able to forgive people. dont accumulate nagotive feelenigs ar soon they need to get out
I hated nobody ever and so I don't know its reason 
Because people nowadays is so very very judgmental for what they're see and know, And you will be punish by people that did not know the real story. So make sure that your doings for everyday.
I think everyone should have some hatred feeling because that gives him the strength to show them the power that he have
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