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Topic: Why do people hate? - page 7. (Read 21397 times)

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November 06, 2017, 08:35:37 AM
This is a wellknown story:

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"

"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"

The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".

http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html


But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?


People hate because they are lack of love. Thay do not appreciate others l, the kind of love someone offers. People who hates have a cruel heart, they are not open to find love and to be loved.
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November 06, 2017, 05:39:31 AM
People hate because they are not satisfied with their own life. Moreover, they are not satisfied with themselves. It's a hard job to learn to LOVE. Many people choose the easier way and abandon themselves to hatred
I agree with the opinion that people hate because they are unhappy with something...as they say, what a person is full of, then he gives...dissatisfaction with the surrounding world, disharmony and then we turn into terrible people who are not capable of loving, forgive and who see everything in black and gray tones
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November 06, 2017, 05:32:05 AM
they hate because they themselves are controlled by it, all the more you feed and hold on to that grudges or feeling indifferent toward others all the more they become bigger and stronger that you can't control it yourself anymore. yes people are slaves to anything that controls them.
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November 06, 2017, 05:21:58 AM
Perhaps the reason why people choose to hate is because that feeling is dominating their heart and mind. Which roots from insecurity, selfishness and lack of self love. After all, you cannot give something you do not have.
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November 06, 2017, 05:07:43 AM
People hate because they are not satisfied with their own life. Moreover, they are not satisfied with themselves. It's a hard job to learn to LOVE. Many people choose the easier way and abandon themselves to hatred
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November 05, 2017, 04:40:18 PM
The humans who hate others hate because they hate something about themselves.

It is the only situation where true hate would arise, in my opinion.

They hate themselves or certain things about themselves and that makes them hate others
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November 03, 2017, 05:38:01 PM
People hate for several reasons. Some hate because of being unable to forgive those who have caused them pain, even themselves. Others hate because they lack love in their hearts while some people hate because they are not happy with their lives.
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November 03, 2017, 04:43:31 PM
I think people hate because they get manipulated by the public press and television. They believe that certaing people or countries are bad because the public press told them. And then all the movies and games with violence and gruelty even though humans are basically peaceful creatures.  
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November 03, 2017, 04:31:53 PM
People hate , when they feel anger . When you feel anger sometimes you have no control in what your saying . Saying negative words that people make their feeling hurt .Poeple hate because of the insecurities , bitterness and also because of the differences of each other . We are so many reason why we hate people .
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October 30, 2017, 03:29:12 AM
Why do people hate?
People hate because there's no love. Its because of jealousy, anger, no peace of mind, selfishness, pride, no contentment and no satisfaction.
Sometimes people hate because they feel unloved and misunderstood in one's community. People hate because they don't treated as what they deserved.
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October 29, 2017, 09:57:28 PM
People hate maybe because they feel jealousy, bitterness and selfishness in others.
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October 29, 2017, 09:37:16 PM
People hate when we let anger creep into our hearts and consumes us unknowingly. When you don't choose the path of forgiveness, you'll be surprised that no amount of time can completely heal you from all your pain and anger unless you let go and forgive the person who has wronged you.

I don't believe in forgiveness. If you forgive everyone's crimes, then it gives more encouragement to the perpetrator to repeat them in the future. My logic is that if you are doing something wrong, then you should receive the adequate punishment. If the victim want to forgive the perpetrator, the he or she can do it once the punishment is over.
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October 29, 2017, 09:19:39 PM
People hate because of the differences of one person to another or a group of people towards other group.  Comparison between the two can cause feelings of insecurity and dark side of negativity emotions. Some people felt hate when they felt behind by others.  they think they deserve much more and wanted to be the best.  it is jealousy and insecurity at some extend.  People felt hate also when they are being treated by others the treatment they don't expected.  When you don't get what you want and against to your morality , to your beliefs you feel hatred.. So hate comes from within you and how people and the society reacted in vice versa.  Whether you agree or disagree with each other both are creating how to feel the hate towards one another....
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October 29, 2017, 08:17:24 PM
People hate because the ideas and outcomes are contradict to your like or desire output. Hatred may destroy your self or other person if you do not decide and think properly. We must be professional enough to handle hard situation. Do not decide if you are angry, always think first for the possible consequences of your action. People that keeps hatred on their heart can't enjoy their life. Its is normal to hate someone but not in the point the we commit crime and immoral act to others. We should respect each and everyone so that we also get respect to them, we have individual differences and lets love them more than we hate them.
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October 29, 2017, 07:43:17 PM
The only good is knowledge and the only evil is ignorance.
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October 29, 2017, 03:01:25 PM
People hate when we let anger creep into our hearts and consumes us unknowingly. When you don't choose the path of forgiveness, you'll be surprised that no amount of time can completely heal you from all your pain and anger unless you let go and forgive the person who has wronged you.
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October 29, 2017, 12:39:16 PM
people are different from each other.Their mentality,thoughts are different from each other.Every person has own feelings.Love and hate both are about feelings .So when a person hurts another person feelings then the person hates the person who hurts his feelings.
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October 29, 2017, 12:38:25 PM
I have a lot to say about this. Hatred & love are both state of mind. happiness and sadness are state of mind. richness and poverty are state of mind. Everything you can see in peoples' life originated from their mind. The tallest building in the world today was first build in the mind, then translated to the paper and finally to the ground(physical). People hate because there's a seed of hatred in their mind. meanwhile never mind why people hate. Work on your own mind. Plant a seed that you want manifest in the physical. in one of my next post i will talk about the psychology of mind power. This might help some people.
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October 29, 2017, 12:23:36 PM
What about predestination and genetics? Some people believe we are born good or bad and our path is already decided. It's possible to fight it and change it but if we do nothing we'll end up on this predestined path.
To give you an example a sociopath's child has a greater chance of becoming a sociopath than if he was born to a normal person, even if he's not being raised by that sociopath.
Exactly because people tend to be like what their parents are more likely if a child idolizes their parents. Parents need to be more sensitive and need to be a good or should be the best example that their children should idolize to become. Because a persons attitude is connected to his or her childhood where the parents should be responsible with.
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October 29, 2017, 12:23:09 PM
When one have something and the other doesn't have that then they start to hate. And it's good to be hated. If you are successful or achieved something then you will be hated for sure. So smile at him and work more hard. As you should know smile is the best revenge.
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