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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
I am not gambling like an addict, so I will not expect my fiancee to determine what I will do or not. But I noticed women correct when they know their boyfriend is affected by gambling, but I am not that type of person.

For people that are addicted, if their wife or fiancee or girlfriend tell them to quit gambling, I will dice them to do so.
If the wife /husband does not like gambling definetly the wife will suggest the husband stop gambling. Secondly if anyone is stopping me from doing something I love very much at least you must give me some reason why I should stop.
Gambling affects mental health a lot and it gets very annoying. So I believe if you're wife is telling you to stop there must be a reason and to save your marriage or relationship is better you stop.
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Being into the gambling system already will make it a bit challenging to leave even though one is not addicted to it because of the love we have for it and the fun in it. By my future wife do you mean my fiancée or just my girlfriend who I intend to marry?

If my fiancée asks me to leave gambling i will quit with immediate effect because marriage is about understanding and sacrifice. I will do this for the sake of the love and also to avoid minor problems even before marriage and also just incase i notice something bad that i am not comfortable with my fiancée i can also talk to her about it without bringing issues. These are the kind of situations that bring about little misunderstandings in marriage so i want to avoid all this by all means.

I will try my possible best to quit gambling if she asks me to if it’s difficult i will keep trying until i will be able to quit finally.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Yes of course I will definitely give up gambling to get my beloved if she forbids me to do something like that.
Gambling is a social disorder that creates dire conditions for the degeneration of the youth. The conscious citizens of the country wish that gamblers come out of this situation. If my girlfriend expects such a good thing from me, then surely I will fulfill her expectations and not suffer from the social evil called gambling later on.

There are two things I want to ask you and this is something that might happen.
The first thing I want to ask is, what if in reality you can't get rid of gambling from your life even though you have tried your best to do so? Will you try again to give up gambling, or will you leave your future wife because she will firmly refuse to accept you if it is discovered that you still like to gamble?

And the second thing I want to ask, what if after marriage your desire to gamble again peaks so that you have to break the agreement you have agreed with your wife, because you return to gambling. Will you try to keep your gambling activities a secret so that your husband and wife relationship remains harmonious, or what steps will you take?
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
 For those who have maximize their time gambling in casinos, I think this is not an easy thing to do. But if your future husband/wife has seen already where your gambling habit will lead you, then most likely the best decision is to stop gambling for good. If he/she sees that your finances has already been affected with your gambling addiction, then it's a good thing to better stop gambling before gambling will ruin your good relationship with your partner.

However, there are also instances wherein your partner seems to be highly controlling on you even in those simple habits that you find more exciting and entertaining. And as long as you never cross your limits in gambling, I think leaving gambling because your partner tells you to do so is not the best decision.  But you have to explain your side in a nice and understandable manner so that he/she will not be offended.
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I do think that, unless it is like an order or there's a clause(s)/conditions/terms added, then no one not even a spouse can stop one from gambling.
It is more like a decision waiting to happen and when the spouse expresses dissatisfaction with such habit, one just stopped.

It isn't easy to let go of a habit like gambling which most times has caused a lot of emotional damage,  but the real deal is that a spouse comes to make our life better and if they think ones gambling habit is toomuch and may crumble the family to be loved and taken care of, hell yes, I would gladly leave gambling and channel the energy into making the relationship and family work.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this?
There are various things I would consider before deciding to stop, first of all, I will check if I'm getting a positive result, that is if I'm realizing profit, Too if I'm addicted and not paying much attention to things concerning my potential wife and if we are having a little issue concerning that. If I'm making profit and the money I win from gambling helps in settling my bills, I may find it difficult to stop but in a situation where there is no profit being realized I wouldn't hesitate to quit.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

For those who have a partner, wife or husband, things like this are not something foreign to us. If there is a complaint from our partner, this is very normal. Moreover, if what we do in gambling is too excessive. Therefore, it is also important to have a partner who understands each other.
By the way, my story brush was once asked to stop doing this hobby activity. At first, my wife didn't know I liked gambling. But that doesn't mean I hide it from them, because after all they will question everything if they find out we like to gamble. I mean, when the wife is afraid that her husband has spent a lot of money and is even in debt. So it's very natural, isn't it, if they think more about things or needs that are more important.

Well, actually for me this is just a matter of trust between partners. but it's not easy to convince him, especially since we promised not to spend a lot of money on the gambling we do. Even this hobby can create conflict in a relationship. well, as I said above.  that there must be mutual trust, and remind them when they have carried out excessive activities. that way, they won't worry. but it's not easy, because before gaining trust, we first have to prove it and that's what I did.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
no matter how much i love my partner, if it involves gambling then i will try to ignore her prohibitions, but the language i use is of course polite and will not offend her because she will definitely be worried about me and persuade me to stop gambling.  i will also try to convince her that i will not change to another person even if i gamble, i am responsible for my gambling actifity and will not turn into a gambling addict.. building good communication in every relationship is important.
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Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.
It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.
Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.

That's right! It's not that you gotta hide what you're into from who you're with.  More like, be open and take responsibility for those things youre into and  whoever you end up marrying, that's a person you'll share your whole life with.  So you gotta have real talks about your hobbies and stuff how they'll maybe affect your relationship.
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Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.
It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.
Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.
There's no secret that could really be kept forever and considering that you've been with your wife for the rest of your life then time will come that your wife would really be able to caught you up
on doing gambling. Maybe not now but its not an assurance that it would last forever and time will come that you do get  caught. So what would really be your main reasoning on telling which  you would really be saying that it was your first time? You would be saying that it is really just that for fun? You would be saying that it was just for the sake of entertainment?

Validity of reason would be entirely be depending on your financial spending because if your wife do notice something about that huge expenses or really some big cut off with your salary
then she would really be normally connecting out things basing up on what you are doing on which it is really that a common approach and since women are really that smart
than us men when it comes to budgeting or simply with finances then there's no way on escaping it.  Grin
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I will have no problem doing that as long as they insist because it is actually affecting me negatively which means that they are asking me to do this just for my own benefit and maybe for us to have a more secure future safe from the threat of losing a lot of money in gambling due to the addiction. There is nothing wrong with a partner thinking about the betterment of their partner and the future of their family and for that, they can obviously ask their partner to stop or leave any habits that might have a negative influence on their future.

However, if I know that gambling doesn't have any negative affect on me, I'm not an excessive gambler and don't spend a lot of time and money on it, and I've never lost more than what I have allocated for my gambling activities, I will obviously try and make them understand but if they still insist, I might need to take the step because I would obviously not break the relationship just because of a habit or an activity.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Yes of course I will definitely give up gambling to get my beloved if she forbids me to do something like that.
Gambling is a social disorder that creates dire conditions for the degeneration of the youth. The conscious citizens of the country wish that gamblers come out of this situation. If my girlfriend expects such a good thing from me, then surely I will fulfill her expectations and not suffer from the social evil called gambling later on.
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No, I will never do this after listening to him.  Because I have been associated with it for a long time and I have been at a lot of tie profits in it.  Besides, my experience is increasing day by day and this is slowly making me self-reliant.  I am studying in class 12 and again I am spending money on gambling.  As a result, I am very self-reliant at this young age.  Therefore, after listening to sameones words in the future, I don't have any questions besides this.  But yes, two things may happen in the future, first, this may be my profession, and this may be my leisure time.  But there is no question of leaving this in the future.  Because this is helping me to be more self-reliant now.  Again this will not be my means of earning extra money in the future but it will be very beneficial for me in the future.  That's why I'm not leaving gambling for anyone's words.
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Of course it will stop, because in a marriage relationship there must be a commitment that must be mutually agreed upon, there are no lies to cover up, so if one partner can accept his partner gambling then he will be lucky but don't gamble carelessly. This means, don't gamble too much so that your partner doesn't experience disappointment. Take advantage of the opportunity to get permission from your partner by gambling well and correctly, by placing small bets and just for entertainment in your free time, because the most important thing is your partner's happiness.
It is very important for us to try and keep our gambling lifestyle oru habit to ourselves. It is unprofessional for us to allow our family or wife to find out that we have this gambling lifestyle which can be very discouraging to them especially if we are spending too much money and always complaining that we don't have money with us. Women always see through things and the way they interpret things can be very different from the males entirely. Gambling need to be secretive and we need to make sure that people we value a lot do not have knowledge about our gambling lifestyle.
Good luck hiding your gambling habit from future wife. She is your wife not coworker that will never see what you are doing at home in leisure time.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

It’s hard to quit the gambling after the adoption to the game.Many gambler agreed to their partner after this type of words and do the gambling secretly after the clash.If you are doing gambling from 1-3 months,then it’s possible to quit the gambling.But if you had crossed the gambling play more then 6 months,then it’s hard for the gambler to quit the game.If the gambler play the gambling for the period of one year,then he will play the gambling for the life time.The reason was they get addicted to the gambling game.Personally I won’t quit the gambling because of my life partner words to quit the gambling.Everyone will have their own choice.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Gambling is a way to be entertained. I think if a significant other had a problem with the way you are being entertained then the simple thing to do would be to adjust your behavior to make them happy. I think in this case, finding a new hobby to please your spouse would be worth it, as life has more to offer than gaming with the hopes of making money.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Op your thread is skeleton so you ought to put the flesh and blood to make it more fatter and look nice. Your question must be answered. Op let me tell you one thing, it is only those who love and like you will tell you about that thing you are doing is not good. So if you wife to be and husband to be ask you you to quit gambling then it means they love and like you. Those who did not tell you to stop only there for you apple. Therefore I will gladly quit gambling if they she askede to leave. Because it will even help me to plan well.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Its no brainer that we will do that especially if this is really bothering our relationship. We are not a gambler forever so for sure we can decide that in future since there will be a changes of priority and gambling will be away from that. That's why right now while there is no other more bigger responsibilities that can make us think about that leaving we should enjoy each games we play and the person we meet thru the gaming session we had. Since once we quit for sure we cannot go back easily since we would provably think that responsibilities has more bigger weights than spending or wasting our money on gambling. For now I don't have a wife but my GF understood about what I am doing since I always tell her that I'm only playing when I'm bored and just want to have fun in a short while.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
If it's the best, I'll stop. Remember, that our wife's prayers greatly influence our fortune and if she prays for bad things when we gamble, it will affect our fate in gambling.
And maybe for another reason because according to religion money from gambling is haram and maybe he doesn't want himself and his children to make a living from gambling. And for this I never give money from gambling and if I win then I will enjoy it myself and my wife only enjoys the money I earn from work and is halal.
And all this time I gambled very carefully and hid without my wife knowing, and I was also not an active gambler and I only played on weekends and even then when I had the urge to play.
And if my wife finds out I like gambling and she asks her to stop, I will stop, because I really love my wife and children.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?


If my wife told me to quit gambling because of reasonable reasons, then I would probably quit. There can only be one reason why your wife/husband tells you to do so, maybe it’s because he/she sees that gambling is no longer good for you or it can be unhealthy for you and your family. And if by any chance my wife told me to quit gambling, I wouldn't take it negatively. Certainly, she is just concerned about my well-being, especially if I am manifesting negative behaviors caused by my gambling habits. But if ever, she told me to stop gambling without any reasonable reasons, I will probably talk to her first because gambling is mere fun and entertainment for me, and I don't think it's right to deprive me of it. But again, it still depends on her reasons, but most probably I would quit if she told me to do so.
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