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Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 


Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.
Well, regardless what currency you use to gamble (either fiat or crypto) it's not a basis to say if the gamblers are more wise to not take a loan. It depends on the gambler's mindset when he/she is playing. So it doesn't necessarily mean they're already different compared to gamblers who are using fiat to be able to play.

Anyway, to answer the question, my spouse can't dictate me on what I should do. I'm not a compulsive gambler it's just a habit thus there's nothing to worry about. One of the reason why it's important for partners to know each other well before deciding to get married. Because once you marry a person you should accept all his/her flaws.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

No, I don't think it's fair to try and change your partner without any reason. For many years now I have been gambling and it's quite common for me to visit my home casino with my friends or play in a poker tournament. I can understand that my girlfriend doesn't like it, but it's wrong of her to ask me to stop completely. I can understand if she wants to know more about my gambling habits and I would try everything to make her understand that I am still control and don't lose large amounts of money each month. Honesty and being open about our life's is key to a successful relationship in my opinion. Hopefully I could convince her otherwise and it won't remain a big issue between us.
Having honest and open communication in a relationship is an important key to understanding each other, taking an open approach to discussing your gambling habits with your partner is a good step in building mutual understanding as well as explaining how you manage your gambling habits and ensuring that this does not get in the way family finances or your relationships, are very important in building trust and openness.

Listening to your partner's concerns and perspectives with care and understanding is another important step. Together, you can find solutions that meet each other's needs and ensure that your relationship remains harmonious and mutually supportive.
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Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 


Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.
I don't actually agree with you on that because gambling is actually an habit and everyone has a personal view towards it so actually saying gamblers are wiser these days doesn't really cut it for all the other chronic gambler even the crypto gamblers. Nobody ever plans on gambling violently until it completely goes beyond their control so I think gambling is something that everyone has a choice and view to it, if you are discipline with your habit doesn't mean the next person is and moreover humans are fund of doing crazy things all the time.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Not if I'm a responsible gambler and I think the money I allocated is not something that will harm our relationship and finances but if I think that it will harm our finances and relationship because I'm spending too much time and money on our relationship then yes I will work on to not stop but limit my gambling expenditures and time so it will become manageable.
Gambling is for entertainment only and this should not harm our relationship the wife will understand if she sees that you treat it as entertainment and not something that will make the family suffer, because gambling addiction is one of the causes of family breakdown.
If the partner doesn't have experienced in gambling then I will try to talk them into understanding what gambling really is and how best to staying safe while gambling because a lot of time,  why many have this so called bad misconceptions about gambling and some other things in real life is because they don't have experience of it and what really makes up for the risk that we mostly talked about,  because if a partner wants me to decease from such at action or activities then there should be a reason behind such decisions and not based on speculations most especially if my gambling life is not interfering with my family responsibilities.

At most also do not allow my gambling activities to take too much control of what and how I treat and care for my family in terms of finances and time to care for family and this is the most concern of many of our spouses who feel allowing you to gamble will take the time you should have for them.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Not if I'm a responsible gambler and I think the money I allocated is not something that will harm our relationship and finances but if I think that it will harm our finances and relationship because I'm spending too much time and money on our relationship then yes I will work on to not stop but limit my gambling expenditures and time so it will become manageable.
Gambling is for entertainment only and this should not harm our relationship the wife will understand if she sees that you treat it as entertainment and not something that will make the family suffer, because gambling addiction is one of the causes of family breakdown.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Marriage is not just something that happens overnight; first, it starts with courtship before leading to marriage, and during the period of courtship, the woman should be able to detect some of the habits of the man that she is not comfortable with, and if the man decides not to stop some of those habits, it is left for the woman to either go ahead with the marriage or not. Also, if the man really loves his partner and is willing to give up on their gambling lifestyle, it's a decision they should take. Gambling is my thing, despite the fact that I don't gamble more often, but it is fun anytime I am out with my friends to gamble. I think it will be a very difficult decision to make if I stop gambling for any reason.
Lets assume that majority of women would really be hating gambling which we cant really be able to deny that it could really disrupt someones financial management considering that spending is much more often specially when you are engaging with gambling on which it is really just that spending would really be there and as someone who do find for some husband that they could really be with forever then it would be hard on dealing up with someone on whose a gambler on which you do already reflects out or simply making out some generalization that you would really be messing up your life with that kind of husband and this is why its not really that shocking that women would really be that skeptical about gambling habit.

If you are that someone whose really that loving gambling that much then you would really be having doubts on quitting for the sake of love but well we cant really be able to tell since there are
really man who are really that willing to quit on everything for the sake of love then its up to someones choice whether he should pursue such girl and could exchange gambling habit for that
or would really be sticking into his interest and skip out that woman.  Wink
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Marriage is not just something that happens overnight; first, it starts with courtship before leading to marriage, and during the period of courtship, the woman should be able to detect some of the habits of the man that she is not comfortable with, and if the man decides not to stop some of those habits, it is left for the woman to either go ahead with the marriage or not. Also, if the man really loves his partner and is willing to give up on their gambling lifestyle, it's a decision they should take. Gambling is my thing, despite the fact that I don't gamble more often, but it is fun anytime I am out with my friends to gamble. I think it will be a very difficult decision to make if I stop gambling for any reason.
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Yes. Gambling isn't that ingrained in my personality that it would prevent me from having good relations with my wife. At the end of the day gambling is just one way for me to let off some steam and if I would have that prevent me from having a full romantic life with my partner then you bet your bottom dollar I'm going to leave gambling for good. It's not about being controlled or whatnot, it's just about putting your priorities straight and if you're going to leave your partner for gambling then you might have some screws loose cause why the fuck?

Gambling is all about entertainment, and a pastime, if you want to not be bored there are other ways you could do that. Having a compatible partner comes once in a lifetime. This shouldn't even be a discussion.
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You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.

The gambling addicted person answer will be the no for the gambling quit for the family or for the girlfriend relationship.The gambling is just the game,So the gambling addicted person should avoid of the leaving the relationship for the gambling games.The gambler should concentrate on their family along with the gambling involvement.The reason behind this was the family is always important to us.Without the family we can live the life,but we can’t enjoy without the gambling.Some of the wife of gambler asking divorce only because the gambler will get the loan for the gambling after the big loss in the gambling sites.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I mean if it's a deal breaker for them and they won't stay with you over it then yeah if ypu love her/him why wouldn't you?  If gambling is worth more than the one ypu love then you need to check your addiction out and possibly get help.  If it's not an issue in your life then maybe have that conversation with them first to see if there is some possible middle ground like a set dollar amount or something.

For the guys who are fed up with their wives, they will really take this as sort of an opportunity. Heck, some men find gambling to be more entertaining than with their wives who don't even know how to cook omelets.

For housewives who are unsure what their partner would choose they better not ask their husbands to choose whether her or gambling. It's not in his best interest to keep a wife who is not supportive.  Grin
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My future wife/husband ask me to stop my gambling activity? I will leave her/him and continue to gamble lol.

I know what the consequence of my activity, I don't see gambling is harming or bad thing, so there's no reason to leave it if I think it's good for me. Why should stay with someone who trying to stop or limit our activity? there are so many people out there, you just need to find an appropriate wife/husband, not force to stay in relationship with the current person.
I would say that is a bad bad approach to life. They want you to stop doing something harmful and you may think that you are not doing something harmful but gambling is where you lose your money, you may think it's okay but most people will not think that losing your money while gambling is alright.

If you want to find someone that would be ok with you gambling that's fine, but that would mean that you are leaving your emotions aside and trying to find someone that would pamper to your needs and wants, that's not what a love is. Love is what you feel when you see someone and if that person wants you to cut one of your limbs then you do it, because love doesn't have any boundaries and you just love someone as much as you can and do whatever you can to see them smile.

If you are so adamant about gambling that you would literally stop seeing a person for wanting you to quit, that is not love and that would only be considered "was wanting to not be alone, now I want to be alone again", not love.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

I mean if it's a deal breaker for them and they won't stay with you over it then yeah if ypu love her/him why wouldn't you?  If gambling is worth more than the one ypu love then you need to check your addiction out and possibly get help.  If it's not an issue in your life then maybe have that conversation with them first to see if there is some possible middle ground like a set dollar amount or something.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Actually is totally depends on what gambling is to the person because there are people that there survival depends on gambling so however if a future wife ask the person to quit gambling, indirectly she is telling the man to suffer.
Never should a person's live or life depend on gambling, it is absolutely wrong mate, assuming this to be right is also as wrong as believing it, gambling is for entertainment purposes only, it was never created to become a source of income for anybody. A man, be you married or single, should have a dependable source of income, like owning a business or having a stable job, gambling should always be secondary because, it is not a source of income anybody can depend on.

If i am a woman and a man wants to marry me, or maybe we are already married and my husband has no job or business he manages, but only gambles all day, i initially won't ask him to stop gambling, but i will ask him to either start a business or find a good stable job, he should engage in one of this while he does his gambling by the side, if he refuses and just want to gamble, i will sure have no choice but to leave him for good.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?
Actually is totally depends on what gambling is to the person because there are people that there survival depends on gambling so however if a future wife ask the person to quit gambling, indirectly she is telling the man to suffer.

But however if a man has other steady source of income, is then advice able to quit gambling.

Although if I'm ask by my wife to stop gambling sure I will stop gambling because if you refused there ban to be issues between you too and so many relationship and marriages has separated because of gambling.
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Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 


Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.

You are right to some extent. But even the people associated with gambling are smart now with their financial decisions. They are not like past gamblers who used to take loans for gambling. Someone who is doing gambling with crypto is already wise enough to be aware of crypto. Such a person will not be involved in activities like violence for gambling.
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Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 
You are a wise head of the family and want to listen to your future wife/wife, but for me personally if I am still able to take good responsibility or support my family in full and carry out all the obligations of a husband, I feel free with the money I use for Gambling, the most important thing to support the family is more important, well if there is a residual that I might be able to use, gambling occasionally does not have a problem in my opinion.

Most prospective wives/ wives ask their partners to stop gambling because they are afraid you are too much in gambling so that it ignores your family, many cases like that happen, even violence because gambling in the family is also many happening, but while you feel able to cover up your needs And your responsibility as the head of the family, I think they also will not forbid you to gamble, but here must be a note that you are only to look for the pleasure of gambling not to double your money, it can destroy yourself.
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My future wife/husband ask me to stop my gambling activity? I will leave her/him and continue to gamble lol.

I know what the consequence of my activity, I don't see gambling is harming or bad thing, so there's no reason to leave it if I think it's good for me. Why should stay with someone who trying to stop or limit our activity? there are so many people out there, you just need to find an appropriate wife/husband, not force to stay in relationship with the current person.
There are billion of people in the world, but keep in mind few of them will be compatible with your personality and even physically, so it's really not a good idea to give up on a good and benefical relationship due to few disagreements which are just details, after all. Before taking an extreme approach like that (to leave her), you should try talking to her and making her understand you aren't a degenerated gambler who will put all your finances and relationships to lose because you can't control yourself. If both of you are reasoable people, you will enter an agreement on this matter and in every other discussions you will surely face during your life in common.
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Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

No, I don't think it's fair to try and change your partner without any reason. For many years now I have been gambling and it's quite common for me to visit my home casino with my friends or play in a poker tournament. I can understand that my girlfriend doesn't like it, but it's wrong of her to ask me to stop completely. I can understand if she wants to know more about my gambling habits and I would try everything to make her understand that I am still control and don't lose large amounts of money each month. Honesty and being open about our life's is key to a successful relationship in my opinion. Hopefully I could convince her otherwise and it won't remain a big issue between us.
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Lucky for her I am not a gambler because there is no need for her to ask me to leave gambling. But what if I am a gambler and my future wife told me to leave gambling? Well, since my family is my priority I will definitely without a doubt leave gambling. 

The gambling is just the game,So it’s no need to ask your partner to quit the gambling.If you are the gambling addicted person,So the family life of the gambler will not be good.Because the gambling addicted person had the habit of using the full money from their salary or from the income sources.This was the important reason for their life partner to quit the gambling at the beginning.If the gambler consider their family is more important compared to the gambling,So he can quit the gambling easily.The priority was the important in the life of the gambler.Actually the family liking people will not easily addicted with the gambling.
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My future wife/husband ask me to stop my gambling activity? I will leave her/him and continue to gamble lol.
Hey bro you always remember a good relationship is better than gambling as you are avoiding your future girlfriend just for gambling you should have shown any sympathy towards her. Since your girlfriend wants you well, she asked you to stop gambling. So you should refrain from gambling and build a good relationship with your future wife and have a happy family. If you could make your future wife understand well then maybe your future wife would give you the opportunity or allow you to indulge in gambling.
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