I'm going to ask a little bit first about, what is meant by successful gamblers? Do they get a lot of winnings continuously and have a lot of money from gambling? or are they those who manage to control themselves when playing? But honestly I disagree with my first statement, and my assumption is the same as yours that in gambling the meaning of success is in other words those who are able to fully control themselves with some restrictions that they have planned beforehand and they can do it without any obstacles, but referring to the first statement I disagree with successful gamblers are those who manage to get a lot of money, it doesn't make sense if it only relies on luck. And that means successful gamblers are those who are not addicted. All the process of getting into addiction is the same, like you said it starts from a win mostly, they manage to get a win but never feel satisfied and they think this is an opportunity to make a lot of money, without realizing that this is a temptation for them to get stuck there longer. It's hard to get out of addiction because everyone has lust and greed especially about money.
A successful gambler is a gambler who can have good self-control, and can manage his time and money to gamble so he won't experience as many losses as other gamblers. Besides, he wasn't trying to chase victory but with his analytical skills, he was trying to be able to win. And even if he couldn't win, he didn't try to recover from his losses either. Of course, successful gamblers have advantages over other gamblers and will probably have more opportunities to make money from gambling.
These successful gamblers don't experience gambling addiction because they can manage everything well and use gambling well. They can overcome the temptation of gambling while other gamblers will find it difficult to do so. So we, who are just ordinary gamblers, must learn to control ourselves so we don't get addicted to gambling.
The definition of success is very diverse, especially if we relate it to gambling. roughly, what are the criteria for a successful gambler. even to be honest, I find it difficult to interpret. IMO, as for what leads to the keyword "success" from gambling, in other words they are someone professional. professional gamblers, have been equipped with a variety of knowledge, insight, experience and also self-control.
however, it is inevitable that they can also experience great losses. there are even some of them who become gambling addicts, there are also those who see it as a job. the point is, they already understand what they have to do when carrying out the gambling session. they have more strong control, they also have a high understanding of self-control. in the gambling phase it seems to lead to defeat, ideally someone who is a professional will stop the game. well, referring to the theme of the title of this thread, the point is that we cannot generalize that successful gamblers can be seen as gambling addicts. and IMO, it all comes back to their respective gamblers.
Yes, maybe more precisely we can say the keyword "success" is the same as professional. Professional gamblers are different from most gamblers, like us, who only play gambling just for fun and not trying to chase victory. We know that becoming a professional gambler requires a lot of things not only self-control but other factors that we have to learn too. And for this reason, not many gamblers can become professional gamblers because there is so much to learn.
Everyone can experience loss, including professional gamblers. But the difference is professional gamblers don't try to recover their losses, especially if they know that with the current situation, it's difficult for them to do so. They may prefer to stop gambling and return after a few days because circumstances have changed and the possibility of winning is very difficult. Professional gamblers know the situation so well that they can think straight even if they have lost before. But indeed, those of us who have probably never seen a professional gambler can only imagine what it will be like and what abilities it has. But he can also still get addicted to gambling if he slowly loses self-control.