Should not be.
The only person responsible to both winnings and losses, is only oneself unless an instance like a friend of yours gambled your money without your permission. This is also evident to those people who copies other people's bet wherein if the outcome is negative, they tend to indirectly blame other people. For sure we are all aware of the risk involved in gambling; losing is more often the outcome unless you are that lucky to be on the other way around. Nothing is certain in gambling which is also why risk management is need in particular with the amount you are betting in order to avoid regret afterwards or blaming other people.
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The mother and son should be happy that it is a bailable offense and it fine is cheap. I don't see this as a problem to them compare to the money that they squandered. They are chasing their loses by allowing their emotions to control them.
Blaming someone else for the consequences of your action is bad. Only an addicted gambler will frame up such stories for them to cover up their gambling addiction. The mom and her son need rehabilitation from gambling so that they don't bring frustration to themselves at the end of the day.
Blaming someone else for the consequences of your action is bad. Only an addicted gambler will frame up such stories for them to cover up their gambling addiction. The mom and her son need rehabilitation from gambling so that they don't bring frustration to themselves at the end of the day.
How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent? Apparently the mother is definitely not a good role model to the son. The son definitely needs a strong father figure which is what he lacks. I don't like the punishment or fine give to them. It is not going to be in anyway effective. Their punishment could have been rehabilitation and community service.
Maybe, they have an internal problems at their home. And they thought that through gambling they can solve their problem and it will an answer to their other issues. But it happen that they become addicted and that's not good because not only the mother is addict it is also become her son. Their family went to a lot of course and they needed counseling as well.Good point, if both will manage to survive and recover from gambling addiction, they can use this experience to influence other people to stay away from this kind of activities, their experienced can bring awareness to how gambling addiction can ruin a life. But on the other hand, if they can't manage to escape after the medication or rehab, expect to see them playing more and go deeper with their addictions.
Although sometimes gambling losses can be very painful even to the an extent of doing something irrational but what I read here is just pure wickedness and evil intentions but that's what you get for making gambling an addiction and only an addicted person could gamble away a whooping sum 8000$ which they can know can affect them if they lose that money. That's why its always good to see gambling as a fun habit and only put small money you know won't affect you because losses can really make someone do crazy things like what this mother and son did.
Without control, addiction can lead anyone to risk a lot, and with how they overspent their money, blowing out huge amount is not a hard task since they are already addicted to gambling and they are already out of control with their engagements with gambling.
Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment
The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
One of the worst problems with addicts of any kind is that they've lost control of the situation and are often willing to stoop quite low in order to fulfill their perceived need. It's very hard to break the habit when you're so deep and some people will keep digging a hole instead of working out how to climb out. At a certain point it is just harming yourself but when it starts to hurt others around you or needing crime to fund it, then you will have to suffer the increased consequences.
Gambling because of myself so no one is to blame, any loss in gambling I will not bring that resentment to anyone family or relatives, after all there is no benefit for me doing that blaming someone just because of my loss let alone accusing someone and suing someone for my loss , gambling must know the risks, if you don't want to be without risk, then you should not gamble or look for other games without risks, for example playing children's games. lol
If you see the story above is very funny and strange why should you blame someone and accuse someone of providing false information just because you lost in gambling, obviously that is very wrong and it's strange that there are people like this.
If you see the story above is very funny and strange why should you blame someone and accuse someone of providing false information just because you lost in gambling, obviously that is very wrong and it's strange that there are people like this.
Although sometimes gambling losses can be very painful even to the an extent of doing something irrational but what I read here is just pure wickedness and evil intentions but that's what you get for making gambling an addiction and only an addicted person could gamble away a whooping sum 8000$ which they can know can affect them if they lose that money. That's why its always good to see gambling as a fun habit and only put small money you know won't affect you because losses can really make someone do crazy things like what this mother and son did.
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How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent? Apparently the mother is definitely not a good role model to the son. The son definitely needs a strong father figure which is what he lacks. I don't like the punishment or fine give to them. It is not going to be in anyway effective. Their punishment could have been rehabilitation and community service.
Maybe, they have an internal problems at their home. And they thought that through gambling they can solve their problem and it will an answer to their other issues. But it happen that they become addicted and that's not good because not only the mother is addict it is also become her son. Their family went to a lot of course and they needed counseling as well.
It happens something similar also here on forum.
Some users requesting a refund from a betting site/casino because someone had deposited their funds into these accounts…they literally had their money deposited into their accounts but it was "other people".
So “bad” that they lost their money ! unfortunately when people lose there is no one to blame.
The right solution? just set well-defined LIMITS and everything will runs smoothly.
Some users requesting a refund from a betting site/casino because someone had deposited their funds into these accounts…they literally had their money deposited into their accounts but it was "other people".
So “bad” that they lost their money ! unfortunately when people lose there is no one to blame.
The right solution? just set well-defined LIMITS and everything will runs smoothly.
How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent? Apparently the mother is definitely not a good role model to the son. The son definitely needs a strong father figure which is what he lacks. I don't like the punishment or fine give to them. It is not going to be in anyway effective. Their punishment could have been rehabilitation and community service.
Maybe, they have an internal problems at their home. And they thought that through gambling they can solve their problem and it will an answer to their other issues. But it happen that they become addicted and that's not good because not only the mother is addict it is also become her son. Their family went to a lot of course and they needed counseling as well. I never blamed anyone from my own gambling hobby.
There was a time I let a friend bet for me because I have no idea how the game works. It lost for quite an amount but I told him it was okay and we just used the remaining money to drink beers instead of losing more. We just had fun talking about it and him teaching me how the game works.
I will never blame someone for the gambling defeat that I experienced because blaming someone also will not return the losses that I have experienced and it is better to make the defeat an experience and a lesson so that in the future I can be more careful and avoid bad losses.
Besides gambling with the involvement of other people is not a good thing.
From what the OP said, it can be a lesson for us that taking wrong action can result in someone being entangled in the law.
Besides gambling with the involvement of other people is not a good thing.
From what the OP said, it can be a lesson for us that taking wrong action can result in someone being entangled in the law.
I think they're just trying to save themselves from huge losses but what they did have brought them into a worse situation. The truth will always prevail no matter how we cover up our mistakes. Blaming someone else isn't a good idea and it couldn't even save us from our huge losses. We are only dragging ourselves to bad situations more. It will be better to control ourselves or just accept losses in case we lose our funds since that's a part of gambling. We can't blame others if we are the ones who are making wrong decisions.
They are very lucky that they can pay a fine if 150000 naira each.
People are just greedy and only looking for ways to warm money. Even if that is what they want to achieve, no through something risky like gambling.
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People are just greedy and only looking for ways to warm money. Even if that is what they want to achieve, no through something risky like gambling.
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I wonder why such a lenient punishment? In fact, this is a financial fraud and in most countries such tricks are subject to criminal penalties. It seems to me that the punishment is incomparable with the amount that they could "win" if they had not been caught. For me it is illogical and I think that it encourages scammers instead of punish them.
I didn't understand one thing: did they make up this whole story due to gambling being illegal in Nigeria, therefore they couldn't been spotted as gamblers by authorities, or did they do this simply because they wanted to retrieve the lost money?
If it falls under the first case, I don't blame mother and son, as I believe gambling is an individual decision of each person. Governments and regulators shouldn't forbid the activity or punish people for gambling. However, if it falls under the second case, I blame them, because they were acting maliciously to retrieve a money they didn't have any right over it anymore, since they voluntarily played a game of luck and lost it.
If it falls under the first case, I don't blame mother and son, as I believe gambling is an individual decision of each person. Governments and regulators shouldn't forbid the activity or punish people for gambling. However, if it falls under the second case, I blame them, because they were acting maliciously to retrieve a money they didn't have any right over it anymore, since they voluntarily played a game of luck and lost it.
Whoever the person is if they are trapped in a case, of course blaming/slandering other people is a trick that is often used by criminals, especially when this case involves money and gambling, even though Oluwayemisi & Samuel have admitted the error of the legal process continues, because they have made a fake Petition to the EFCC for their actions.
They should have tried to get permission first from the EFCC, before withdrawing money from their sports betting account, if this went wrong, penalties and fines were waiting for them. because they know their country has rules about finance, crime, money laundering and so on, they should be aware of that.
They should have tried to get permission first from the EFCC, before withdrawing money from their sports betting account, if this went wrong, penalties and fines were waiting for them. because they know their country has rules about finance, crime, money laundering and so on, they should be aware of that.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
yes, they should have thought about that, there are many ways they can withdraw money from their betting accounts, without having to get ahead of their emotions. if they think that the money has other people's rights and their rights, of course it's safer. 
They probably thought it was like a console game where there is a save point and load point to reset the game and do it again. Blame it to others and maybe we will have a chance to go back and gamble. They are lucky the fine was lower than the spent amount which leaves me in a curious mind.
Anyway, that's another gambling news that will be difficult to forget. Trying to get away from responsibilities is really something in the trend these days.
I never blamed anyone from my own gambling hobby.
There was a time I let a friend bet for me because I have no idea how the game works. It lost for quite an amount but I told him it was okay and we just used the remaining money to drink beers instead of losing more. We just had fun talking about it and him teaching me how the game works.
Anyway, that's another gambling news that will be difficult to forget. Trying to get away from responsibilities is really something in the trend these days.
I never blamed anyone from my own gambling hobby.
There was a time I let a friend bet for me because I have no idea how the game works. It lost for quite an amount but I told him it was okay and we just used the remaining money to drink beers instead of losing more. We just had fun talking about it and him teaching me how the game works.
Yes, I blame someone.
Especially for the people who are playing at "Blackjack" tables
play with basic strategy because it's f*cking make me mad if they not playing with basic strategy. Scared to hitting, while in the book they should hitting.
Because of these lack knowledge player, can make me lose. I want to punch him in the face ~XD
Especially for the people who are playing at "Blackjack" tables
play with basic strategy because it's f*cking make me mad if they not playing with basic strategy. Scared to hitting, while in the book they should hitting.Because of these lack knowledge player, can make me lose. I want to punch him in the face ~XD
This is expected when you tried a compulsive gambler they will create twisted stories, it goes with the character, compulsive gamblers are liars when you tried them in court, but this is a court they will eventually convict because the prosecutors can easily find evidence based on the story,
This is a very sad story we don't want any of our family to be deprived of liberty now we have mother and son spending time in jail.
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The mother and child pleaded guilty to the charges.
I guess they were advised by their lawyers to admit to the crime for a lighter sentence because denying will put more jail time in their case.This is a very sad story we don't want any of our family to be deprived of liberty now we have mother and son spending time in jail.
Compulsive gamblers are like that they will deny wrongdoing they will deny that they are hooked on gambling and they will deny that they gambling too much, they are pathological liars and we have a saying here in our country that thieves and liars are relatives, you can easily tell a compulsive gambler to a responsible one, they cannot stand to what is right and very prone to lie, so this is what happens to the mother and her son.
Seems like they have done this before and it’s only today that they were luckily caught. It only proves that no matter how smart you are, rules will always be rules, and you can’t get rid of it so you can free yourself and continue gambling. Though it’s safe to gamble as long as you are using your own funds, but in this case, the mother and son have really set their plan but unfortunately, they fail to succeed this time. And even if they can fined theirselves and become free again, I believe these two gamblers will never get rid of gambling. 
How can two persons be so addicted to gambling that they'll go to such an extent?
They started slowly with not being able to control themselves with gambling away small amounts till it finished, it is why as they were exposed to such a large amount they became unable to control themselves. If you can question this people and ask them how they gambled aways that kind of money without realising it or stopping themselves, they will say they did not know when. This is the height of addiction.
As individuals we should be careful entrusting money to people who we know have a gambling problem.
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