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Topic: Does it looks responsible as woman telling husband you gamble? - page 20. (Read 2290 times)

legendary
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
If you are someone who is responsible for gambling and you don't feel that gambling interferes with your activities as a wife, why not just tell the truth, after all, what you wrote in your gambling behavior list is good enough, there is no need to worry about the end result, the point is that you have Dare to be honest with your husband that you are involved in gambling and convince him that you only gamble for fun, not to make money.

A husband wants an honest wife so it's best to be honest even if it's a disgrace or something that shouldn't be said, respecting your husband is a good way to keep your household intact and lasting, I believe your husband will appreciate your honesty as a wife. Moreover, just because you like gambling activities and as long as you keep it under control, you don't really use all your salary or your husband's salary. That won't be a problem, my advice is to stick to yourself, but if your husband doesn't want it, you should leave the gambling activity before you go too far.
legendary
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if it is bothering you that you are keeping a secret from your husband, perhaps it is good to tell him about your gambling activity, being transparent to your spouse is a great way to keep the relationship healthy. but then, what will you do if your husband has a problem that you are gambling, will you quit or will you ignore him?
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
He is your partner and should know everything that is happening with you, he has a right to be aware of your current interests and so I think you should let hime know. He will be interested in what has made you get an interest in gambling, so you will also have to explain that to him too. Women who gamble are looked at somehow as not responsible in some places, so if you do not tell him now and he finds out later that you are a gambler, he may not be happy and may develop an impression about you that you are already becoming irresponsible with gambling.
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
As long as gambling is not affecting you negatively to the extent that your husband complained of change in behavior,  I don't think that telling him will be a problem. Besides, he is your husband, you understand him better than any of us so you should know how to present the matter to him and when.

It is better you tell him than for him to find out one day, that may make him lose trust in you because he might feel bad that you kept something as big as gambling away from him.
legendary
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

Just weird though on how you can keep this secret to your husband, or anyone here who live a double life. Not saying that it is bad, but you have to ask yourself, what if you husband find it out? What do you think is his reaction? Do you think that he will understand you hiding behind you gambling? Again, maybe want you list is just an excuse for you to continue to gamble as for sure we have gone to that kind of experience before and we told that we have control our gambling but the truth is, it's very hard.

In any case, just to be open with him, I will rather tell him straight in the face and see what will be the reaction. And hopefully there is no violent reaction whatsoever and maybe the next best thing he will do is to request that you stop gambling.
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
I would say be open with your partner so if you go sideways then it may be easier for him to understand and take swift action but hiding things does more bad than good so my suggestion will be just say it if the situation is right.

Do you worry that your husband's opinion of you will be changed after telling it or worry about others?

Men don't like when they find their wives/gf keep secrets from them.
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The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.

For me, women shouldn't be involved in gambling no matter how conscious you're in maintaining a good gambling habit but it's not really a good idea for a woman to be involved in gambling or gambling related activities due to some certain reasons because if a woman gets involved in gambling, her duties as a wife will begin to fade because she might not be too focused on her family again.

Sometimes, in her quiet times she will start reminiscing about the games that she gambles with and it will distract her from her normal daily duties as a wife. Even if she tells her husband about her gambling habits and her husband sees reasons with her and possibly gives her advice and clues on how to go about her gambling habit but me I can't encourage a wife to be involved in gambling though if it's a woman that's not married that one is quite different because she has time to herself unlike married ones.
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The fact that you have to ask means he could have a different impression whenever you tell him.  If you are to tell him, you must first make him understand that it's just about a side job online.  If you are to start gambling, a minimum of a few bucks, a bit of experience won't hurt. Maybe try sports also.

And if you just keep it a secret, it's fine. This is my preferred choice if I am to put my feet in your shoes. This is like you are just browsing websites, you happen to land on casinos because they are related to cryptocurrency.
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Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;

  • Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
  • Not chasing profit after lost
  • Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
  • Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
  • Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
  • Not gambling with all my income or salaries
  • Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself

The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement  to practice gambling.

Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
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