Topic: He Committed Suicide After Losing School fees, And That Of Friend To Betting.. (Read 2172 times)

Gambling starts from one try to a non stop bad behaviour and once a person choose such a bad path then he will not be effected by any advice. The guy loss his fees may be trapped between bad company of a friend because the company of a friends has a great effect on a person's life.

It is necessary to keep eye on you children because some people left their children without any inquiry about their pocket money and in such way they move towards bad activities.

Once a child seeks from the start then he never rambles therefore take care of every child until you regret for your maintenance.

In reality, the casino or bookie which this young man used could not nothing to prevent this tragedy to happen, to them this person could have just been a regular gambler who was losing money, like thousands on their platform. If one as user does not let know one is having problems of addiction and wish to self exclude, then casinos won't do anything.

Anyways, this is kind of disaster I would never wish upon anyone.
Since there has been already some time, it would be suitable of some moderator to lock this topic and let this young person to rest in peace.

The children had loss his emotion control and committed suicide for few dollars.The children who involved had forgot about their parents cared on him and if he get into their parents.The parent may just scold him or beat him.Now the entire life of the children was no more.The gambling site should check of random and doesn’t allow the children into the gambling.Even if their parents kick that children from the house,he can survive without their parents.But he is no more for their children,the parents also grew their children with more guts.

Well, keeping in mind their parents cared enough about him to provide him with a path towards education and economical stability, I would dare to say they might not go as far as kicking him out the house. However, I understand your point, there are been many cases of parents who do exactly that and for even less important reasons, like sexuality of their children or the disapproval of a romantical partner.

I highly agree on your point of parents needed to be educated on addictions and how to treat someone with such problem (beyond the initial outrage they could feel)

There are people who dont have much that tolerance when it comes to stress and problem on which on the time that they had been able to encounter huge problem or they havent been able to encounter before then they

do really end up on having those impulsive reactions which it might including that taking a suicide to solve all the problems. There are people who are really that having that kind of mindset on the time that they do reach out into that condition specially if you are really that just young and not really that mature enough which it would really be likely that they would be having the option. This is why it would be always that better that you dont really make out some decisions like spending some tuition fees or other school fees or simply isnt yours just to make yourself to be able to not experience this situation.

Gambling addiction could really be putting you out on a tough situation if you arent really that trying out to avoid and its just common sense that whenever you do make out those risky moves
then expect that consequences would really comes after but it doesnt mean that it cant be solved out.

The difference is the mindset that we have and how positive we see our life. I'm sure that the student was pressured about the debt, I mean self pressured and has no face to show to his parents knowing that it is a shameful act to use tuition fee funds as a funds on gambling. It's true that the debt can be paid slowly by working but I understand that if you are on the shoes of the student, it's hard to see a glimpse of recovery. If ever his friends or other people came to his side to comfort and motivate him, we probably won't discussing this story. The thing is the student didn't try to find a solution to the problem, he straight up take his life like there's no options left for him. It's hard but it's harder to chew because this is all because of gambling addiction.

It's true what you said, but at times you never can tell what people passes through on daily basis just to survive, and you never can tell what that young man must have gone through before thinking about committing suicide, which I will still say it doesn't justify the fact for him to have taken his own life due to the lost of his school fees to sport betting, which has become this days due to lack of jobs among our youths, together with high cost of living that might have made people take certain actions before reasoning.
But this should be a lesson to all that taking of one's life solves no problem, but rather create more pains among family, friends and love ones. And as such people should learn to gamble with an amount they can always afford to lose.

Debts can still be paid by working and asking for time to pay the debt, why have to end it all and kill yourself so that the problem is solved, I'm also sure that the debt will never be finished, it could be that the family bears the debt, so why have to end your life just because of debt where we can actually settle the debt within a certain period of time.

I've seen successful businessmen have big debts before but he was able to continue living to pay his debts in installments until now he has become a successful businessman, we don't know what our future will be like, so why should we risk it and end our lives just because of debt, but You are right that this should also be a reminder that never gamble and cross the line because if you are addicted it is quite difficult to stop and you will definitely often be in debt.

His decision is clouded obviously, and we really don't know whats in the mind of a 22 year old boy who losses everything in gambling. Yes, it's very sad and depressing to here this kind of stories and we wish we don't talk about it here in our community.

But at least it's a reminding for us everyone, that even though we might be addicted and we think that it could be the end of it all, we shouldn't take our lives for it.  It's really difficult for a kid and maybe he thinks that this is the only way out  

The adrenaline that forms in his brain is only winning, even though gambling activities cannot be separated from the risk of losing. Inexperienced gamblers find it very difficult to control themselves while playing, they tend to chase victory even though the opposite is true which they never thought of before.
The case told in Op is very important for many parents to always supervise children who are still studying at school, they are still very unstable and do things without thinking about the risks afterwards. His death left deep sadness for his parents. Parents must be able to supervise their children to prevent the same incident from happening again.

This is indeed a sad incident and it becomes even more sad when you know it happened with a 22 year old boy. 

Losing in gambling or having a gambling addiction is a separate thing, I am unable to understand how much pressure he would have when he lost his school fee money in gambling and he could not have faced his parents to tell them about the loss and he chose to suicide instead. I wonder why parents are so strict and why can't they help their children recover from these bad habits. Perhaps if he had some good openness with his parents, he could have saved his life. I will also blame his parents for this incident.

The age of 22 is considered an adult, but there are still young people who do not have mature thinking in making decisions and there is a tendency for them to just react spontaneously without thinking about the consequences. And this can plunge them into bad situations that they find difficult to overcome. We also often see many young people involved with things they shouldn't experience, but because of their great curiosity, they try them. If these young people get involved in bad things, they will not be able to think clearly and will only take shortcuts to solve the problem, making them experience things that make them even more stressed.

In adolescence, many children begin to distance themselves from their parents and tend to approach their friends because they feel they have the same fate. And this starts to trigger them to do something they shouldn't do. But because of encouragement from their peers, this finally made them try it. Children that age still need attention from their parents to live their lives well and without problems. And this requires attention from each parent to pay more attention to their children.

Let's take a probabilistic scenario, where the kid garnered enough courage to contact the parents about this issue. How the parents could have reacted? In 90% of the cases, they would be angry and there is a good chance that they would kick him out of the house. Awareness needs to be spread not just among the juvenile gamblers, but also among their parents on how to provide support. Initially, monetary losses would be too much to fathom for some of the parents. But they need to realize that human life is more valuable than any amount of money.

The newbie to the gambling will face this type of issues,because their mental abilities of the new gamblers will be very low.The first mistake should not be followed by any gamblers,because they used the school fee to the gambling.If any of you faced this situation,don’t get into this decision.Because this won’t be the solution for the problem.The gamblers should think about his family before taking such decisions.

Probably had some good luck at first and then started to lose money; the natural reaction of a newbie who is losing money to this kind of situation is to chase losses and it is even easier to imagine someone in his situation to do such thing. He kept his problems secret so there was no one who could talked to him how gambling works and it is supposed to be treated as entertainment.

Ironically, he thought that talking about his problems with his family was not an option and choose to finish his life. It was more probable that his parents could have forgiven him eventually and could have recovered all in the future. He even had more chances not to do what he did if he had joined here in the forum and let people to advise him on what to do, there are experienced gamblers around here after all. He could have learnt instead chasing that money deeper into a bottomless pit.

Inexperienced gamblers have a tendency to chase the losses. This is where the importance of stop loss targets comes in. If you are continuously losing beyond a limit, then it will be better to call it a day rather than continue with gambling. But then, this guy was in his early 20s and didn't had much of an experience. Sometimes when we are faced with unexpected outcomes, mind simply stops working. Whatever happens after that is a mechanical process. I feel sorry for him, but his death should be a lesson for all those youngsters who gamble without any proper planning.

Age of 22 isnt really that young anymore and i would say that you are already matured enough on whats good and whats bad but its true that whenever you are on a tough situation on which the only choice you do have is to kill yourself then you would definitely be doing it because you would really be seeing this to be the solution among all. Somewhat into those people who arent that  good on decision making will definitely be ending up with this path specially if you are on the situation on which you are really that having no choice but honestly you could really ask out help from your family or simply with your parents because no matter what happen into this world, there's no one you could be able to rely on but only with your parents. There are really just those children that arent really that open with their parents and on the time that they do suffer some huge problems then they would really be forgetting to seek help but instead they do really end up with this kind of option which they would be having thoughts that it would be the end of everything on resolving out this kind of problem
without even trying out to rethink the situation that your parents are the ones who would really be still repaying up those loans or money that you had lost on the time you do gamble or simply you had just wasted
your life for nothing. So better tell your parents about your problem and be prepared about being scolded but they cant really just let you suffer and would be helping you out.

And that's the big difference from how young minds think about gambling when they experienced some good winning streak they will treat it as good venue to make money, and yes, in terms of losing the money that supposedly for his tuition fee and maybe some additional debt or loan from close friends from his school force him to commit suicide.

After losing all his money and he concludes that there's nothing else, the only option is to end his life together with his problem.

The reason for the tragic way of thinking is he lose the school fee.So gambling is not recommended one for the school going kids.It’s full responsibility of the parents to teach them about the risk in the gambling.The people who earning more money had their own responsibility to play the gambling.The gambling had some risk,but learning all the tactics will help to earn more money.The first thing is the gambler should remember that gambling is fully based on the entertainment.They need to play with gambling responsibility,the bet amount should not huge get away the risk.Use the less bet at the initial stage.

Monitoring should be followed by edcuating and caring, monitoring their activity only without doing other things will be useless ofc.
I believe I have said about it few times before about the importance of education for our children about gambling.
I would even say that it is better if they know from us as parent than they know about it from the internet or from other parties.