Topic: He Committed Suicide After Losing School fees, And That Of Friend To Betting.. - page 3. (Read 2269 times)

Sometimes it is very difficult to raise children, because in these things on the internet they see and learn many things, sometimes it is difficult to have control, although there is a good Google app that is for child control, because the notification about what they review, about what they see, this is a very good option so that it can be controlled, however they will always find a way to control their own internet, also mind a child, boy, if he is denied something, they they will look for a way to enter under their own means, then perhaps when that confidence is lost, the csa can paint something wrong, then it is not only recommended.

It is always good to have a unique confidence with children, young people, our children, because we have more experiences, they see Unlimited possibilities of anything, because they have no associated obligation, they can take or know that they can take big risks , while cqeu us As adults, not as parents, because we have a great commitment and responsibility with them.

For that we have to have great trust with our children , because otherwise they will be able to do many things for which we cannot control them, this makes me remember when I was about 17 years old, a friend who sometimes went to play soccer on the street, he wanted to go to his cousin's 15-year-old, so he kind of behaved badly with his mother and the mother gave him a strong punishment, not letting him go at 15 , so the boy left He felt so bad that he put a rope in his room and hanged himself, that was very ugly news, I couldn't believe it, sometimes parents can't be so radical with their children, we don't know what state of mind they are in and they resort to this, we have to always raise their self-esteem, we have to tell them that they are the best, that whatever they want to do they can do, always give Encouragement to things, and thus avoid this type of act , that mother still gives me I find her on the street, but that lady always looks sad on her Face.

By finding the number of devices connected on the wifi,the parent control the people.When you find the more connection from your children,you need to do monitor the children.Because we don't know whether they pplaying of gambling using the VPN and face KYC.If they win the game is no problem,in case they loss all the money in your bank account using your debit card.Then you will get into bad economic situation,If you save some money in your bank for their future.It may leads to loss,So it's more important to monitor the children at their younger ages.

People do know that at the very very very worst case, debt means you will be losing your stuff, and that's it? I mean maybe jailed in some nations, but that's literally it. You are not going to be murdered or something for not paying your tax.

For example in my nation, unless you stole some money, you are going to just end up getting some bank people come to your house, take away a few things, and then leave, and your bank accounts will be blocked, and any money that goes in there will be going to the bank to pay it back, and that means you are going to be fine, you will do fine. Sure it is not the ideal life but you are not going to live like this terrible horrible life, it is going to be worst than worst than what could have been, but still a life.

Limiting the internet access wont be that effective because parents cant control their children's internet surfing activity 24/7.
There are some ways for children to trick the limit by using VPN or other things.
What is more important to do is to educate our children about it, direct communication from heart to heart will be better.
I'm as a father do not limit the internet access of my son but I tell him regularly about any possible negative effects that may come from the internet.
Not only about gambling but about many other things as well such as porn, drugs, investment, even about crypto trading.

That's how technology upgraded, if you will not closely look at it the risk for those children who can easily access the internet will surely harmed them, gambling industries are everywhere and without a proper guidance with our kids even they are already in the right age, they are prone to get addicted, taking time to watch or monitor them will help as you can provide advise and you can guide them if ever they really attach and shows deeper engagements, it's you as a parent who can give them right guidance and the help that they needed to avoid making them decide that suicide is the only options, giving them hope that you are beside them and you are willing to help will allow them to realize that there's still other option aside from ending their life as early as how OP's provided this story.

It kind of reminds me a conversation I had with a coworker some days ago. We were talking on how much social media and other webpages have changed in these lastest years. Back in the day, when facebook was a relatively new service it was rare to see some content which could be considered inappropriate for young people and children. Today one can find suggestive content all over the place, on Tiktok, Facebook, Twitter.  In the past, of one wanted to see those things one was supposed to go to NSFW webpages, nowadays it is not even necessary.

It is about the same with gambling, bounty boxes, micro-transactions, etc. One could think one is buying a fun online video game for our children, when in reality it is a slot machine disguised as a video game.

This is the reason why parents should limit their internet access, they think there's nothing risk to them if they have internet, anything now they can search on it if the ISP of that family has security and limit their access I guess, also it the parent's responsibility to that one who handle things, for example, payment in school and don't let those their child make on it because of course they are young ones and the temptation to use the funds in another way, feels sad it happen to rest in peace to the student. This could serve the parent must need to have their guidance.

some people who are religious usually have serious problems in their life as told by the OP and they will usually be closer to their religion to pour out all their hearts and minds to believe if something can help them. that simply. but not everyone has thoughts like that, even preferring to vent to bad things because of the mindset that is influenced by hormones.

and related to this hormone, in another thread, there is a thread about the endorphins that are consumed by the brain to give a feeling of pleasure, but if it is excessive, it will make the mind anxious and afraid of whatever it is thinking and trigger someone to have suicidal thoughts. I took this statement from an article in my country and sorry I did not write the source here because it is in the language of my country. but if it is needed I will write the source here.

Besides these students are still at an unstable age they also don't have a lot of experience and knowledge in responding to problems, it seems they are afraid that their parents will scold them for eliminating money to pay for their schooling, they don't know how to solve the problem they choose to commit suicide.
Surveillance really needs to be improved, but today it is very difficult to monitor them, with their mobile phones they can do anything, such as gambling without anyone knowing, even if their cell phones are checked, they can still delete their gambling history safely.

Education in choosing an environment to associate with should be emphasized more to students, both from parents and from school, this must really be emphasized, because association greatly affects children.

In this case he is a student who has an unstable attitude and cannot think of gambling as a place of entertainment, even those who are still students usually cannot control themselves and only think that gambling can give big wins and then can use the winnings to have fun together their friends.
It is only natural that there are several unexpected cases that occur to students or those who are underage when they become acquainted with or enter into gambling.

That is why there must always be education about gambling for underage people or students so that there are no more similar cases.
I'm sure the parents of these students must be very sorry for what happened to their children but it was too late and it can only be regretted and the lesson learned is that every parent must supervise and limit every activity of their children.

Usually, government agencies will still ask for a refund but maybe the amount will be reduced, but that really depends on the policies of each financial institution.
Maybe receiving anger from the family is worth what they did rather than them killing themselves and not being able to fix the mistake.
But people's reasons for committing suicide can vary and often don't make sense to us.

That's why we have to think thousands of times if we want to take on debt, especially if the loan money will later be used for gambling.
That will definitely make us more frustrated when we lose all the money on the same day without getting any wins.
So that's what causes a person to commit suicide and not want to face the reality even though he made a mistake but someone else is told to bear it.
Sharing the problems we face with other people, especially people we trust can provide solutions to overcome the problem so we will think quickly.

Sharing your problems with the right sets of people who can show sympathy will help you to lessen your problems, but if you share it with someone who will continue to blame you, that will add a pressure and may lead you to make your decision or give that green signal that you are thinking the right thing, ending your life is not a solution but for those depress people this is one of the common last resort that they'll going to think and with no one who wanted to help or show genuine care, the person will push this decision and will not hesitate to do this action not saying with the same situation but that decision can be solidify if there's no one who want to listen.

Gambling should only give an entertainment, but if gamblers will create another reason to gamble, that is where gambling becomes harmful to its players. That is why students and minors should never be given access to gambling because their minds are still limited. And they never see gambling to create pure pleasure but to appraise it as a means to create a living. I’m sure this student is just trying his luck to double his money, but when he started making potential profits at the middle of gambling, he decided to gamble all in anticipating that he’ll be in huge profits in the end. And then the opposite happens. Worst is that frustration kills this gambler and ended his life through suicidal which will only create bigger problems in reality.

IMO, basically with or without a religion that suicide in this era is not a rational act. even though a person adheres to a very devout religious sect, if his soul is disturbed then he has the potential to end his life. I think it is more relevant if we separate it, about religion, suicide and gambling. what happened to the case told in this thread, is purely a psychological issue IMO.

basically, humans are given intelligence to think and find ways to get out of the problems they are facing. indeed, not as easy as we talk. in fact, every problem we go through depends on how we react to it. in this case, this man should have known the risks of what he was doing. betting with money for school fees is not a commendable act. moreover, this man was someone who was well-educated. whose job is to engage in activities related to the lesson. but the fact is, for some reason this boy is fond of gambling and risking money that his education should need. after everything spiraled out of control, he felt depressed and guilty for something he did. clearly, this is a psychic problem that affects his psychology. which in the end, he was unable to get through and took shortcuts.

To be little picky (and with no malice intended), the claim that suicide is only related to a "hormone disorder" is a oversimplified. Our vast world is filled with mystery and unexplored territory. People's acts, even those that seem so extreme, might occasionally be perceived as being universally chosen, and they may simply be following their path, predestined or not. I value your opinion, but science and spirituality often overlap in ways that are hard to explain.

While it's commendable and genuinely thoughtful of you to emphasize the role of religion as a guiding light, your claim that it's just about the hormones is a bit... well, reductive. We have innumerable philosophical works, years of scientific investigation, and countless personal experiences that show how complex this problem is, after all.

Additionally, the reference of the mind's organs being harmed by hormone consumption was a little perplexing (because we're chit-chatting). Perhaps a deeper look at some biological texts might be instructive?

Committing suicide is not the proper way to solve our problems. I know it's really difficult and frustrating to owe and having no plans to pay back, debts are probably one of the major setbacks faced by people. Some individuals just go hidden and take matters into their hands, ending their life, because they become lonely and depressed from the challenges they're facing. I would urged any young guy to always shared his problems with his peers or guardians, no matter how worsen the whole situation is, there's always a way to handle this matters.

It depend on the institution rules whether they will still demanding the money to the borrower's family or not. But I find it's really hard to share the problem because you will feel shame and your family will angry to you, that's why he choose to commit suicide.

He worried if his family will angry to him everyday, it's understandable because the problem is very big if he's born from poor parent.

But people kill themselves because they see no way to solve their problems.
They think that by killing themselves, all their problems will be solved but they don't think more about what will happen to their families.
And if their family continues to bear everything they did, it will burden their family and suicide will be a pointless thing.
They should be able to find someone to share with so they can express their problems and ask for help from them so they can solve the problem properly.

first of all i will add some here about my knowledge. someone who ends his life by committing suicide is not related to religion but its just that that person has a hormone disorder in his mind which is continuously consumed by the body so that the organs in the mind become damaged so they cannot work properly or cannot think long term so it will it is said that the person is depressed like the story told by the OP. this is an example of a person who has a high level of depression because he ended his life just because of gambling.
but religion can be a factor helping to neutralize thoughts to get closer to their respective beliefs regretting and crying over all their mistakes so that they can be helped by this religion to avoid suicide. so for suicide cases it has nothing to do with religion but religion can be a factor in helping someone avoid the act

Yes, there might be some influence if someone who is religiously devout is clear they will not commit this suicide practice, but again there are also no devout religious people who play gambling and make bets which should not be done by minors, that means there is no need to bring any religion for someone to commit suicide because basically no religion teaches that.

Gambling must be separated from religion, that is why people who gamble and gamble are definitely not religious so that they can practice practices that are prohibited by religion, we return to the main issue, which is that it is important to know the risks in gambling because this most important part is always overlooked by many people. , they always think they can make a lot of money from gambling but in fact it is very wrong.