We are all connected, but our identity and perception is only possible by the division of phenomena into categories. Because these categories always change, some people say that there is no absolute truth. This is true- as long as you are talking about something that can be referred to in the plural, you are not talking about the truth. If I say I am alive, this is not true, because I am constantly in the process of dying. The truth is eternal, or it is not the truth. There are no truths- only Truth. In other words, there are no truths- only Truth, or there are no gods but God. La ilahah ilallah.
I also have the "know a tree by its fruit" firmly rooted in my mind. However, I see the God is Love thinking as a form of idolatry. By trying to deal with the paradox of suffering, which is easily solved by firm belief in continuing consciousness after death, qualities like hatred and anger are given agency, therefore lifting them to the status of a partner in divine agency, a violation of the first commandment given to Moses, peace be on him.
Turn the other cheek and peace and love were convenient doctrines for the version of the bible endorsed by Constantine at Nicea.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Council_of_Nicaea Other evidence in the same selection of texts suggests that wrath is definitely part of divine will- for example
2 Kings 2:23-25 23
Then he went up from there to Bethel; and as he was going up by the way, young lads came out from the city and mocked him and said to him, “Go up, you baldhead; go up, you baldhead!” 24 When he looked behind him and saw them, he cursed them in the name of the LORD. Then two female bears came out of the woods and tore up forty-two lads of their number.
or when Jesus, peace be with him, flipped the money changers tables- Mark 11:15-19
On reaching Jerusalem, Jesus entered the temple courts and began driving out those who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves, 16 and would not allow anyone to carry merchandise through the temple courts. 17 And as he taught them, he said, “Is it not written: ‘My house will be called a house of prayer for all nations’[a]? But you have made it ‘a den of robbers.’
Or when Jesus, peace be on him, told his followers that he wished to kill anyone who would not accept the truth of his message
Luke 19:27
But those enemies of mine who did not want me to be king over them--bring them here and kill them in front of me.
Jesus, may he be blessed, did not only want his enemies killed- he wants to watch.
I'm just saying that hatred does not necessarily mean someone is misguided- I think it is right to hate injustice, because hatred gives one the motivation to fight injustice. Joy and peace are not necessarily the marks of someone who is rightly guided- there are some child molestors who are very joyful and peaceful about what they are doing, and I hope that I will never react to such actions with joyful, peaceful, and loving responses. Right is to say when something is right, and say when something is wrong, and to do something about it with the strength you have been given.
It's hard to accept the enormity of the lie that the whole western world has been fed for centuries- the holy Prophet of God, Jesus, was neither the son of God, nor God himself. It is not difficult to verify this- documentation abounds. Old habits are hard to break- just ask any alcoholic.