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December 14, 2023, 04:50:34 AM
If the husband is a gambler and the wife is a gambler, it is only a matter of time before their kids pick up on gambling. If they are not gambling professionally, like say a professional poker player who teaches other about it and still earn on the side to sustain themselves then the both of them should quit.

Remember that gambling is not as the evil bad terrible thing that they have purpoted it to be . It is individuals without discipline who give it a bad rep.
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December 14, 2023, 04:46:24 AM
Less numbers of women are into gambling and that's because they mostly don't like losing, its easier for women to get rid of gambling than men, it could be different at your end but this is what I have noticed in my own surroundings, they don't like taking too much risks and they also don't like losing, if it happens gradually they find it easy to just quit.

It will be definitely more ugly if a woman gets addicted to gambling, it will be way worse and that's why you need to choose your partner very carefully, and if they just develop the habit after you get together you need to make them quit or turn them into a responsible gambler, I believe I can deal with an addicted gambler as I believe my method always work on them.

I will just make sure you gamble together, you don't have to make them feel that you hate gambling, you just have to play along and expose them to some gambling reality, if done right they will end up opening their eye to the truth behind gambling.

As you've noticed, most of gamblers are men than woman because I believe that woman can give up easily if they have experience losses, you have a point that women can get rid easily the gambling addiction than man but It's not that easy as we think because if a person used to know a thing, there's a possibility they may return to that habit once they have a capability or money if their pockets.
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December 14, 2023, 04:03:05 AM
Less numbers of women are into gambling and that's because they mostly don't like losing, its easier for women to get rid of gambling than men, it could be different at your end but this is what I have noticed in my own surroundings, they don't like taking too much risks and they also don't like losing, if it happens gradually they find it easy to just quit.

It will be definitely more ugly if a woman gets addicted to gambling, it will be way worse and that's why you need to choose your partner very carefully, and if they just develop the habit after you get together you need to make them quit or turn them into a responsible gambler, I believe I can deal with an addicted gambler as I believe my method always work on them.

I will just make sure you gamble together, you don't have to make them feel that you hate gambling, you just have to play along and expose them to some gambling reality, if done right they will end up opening their eye to the truth behind gambling.
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December 14, 2023, 04:02:12 AM
And yes, if they don't gamble, the funds they should use for gambling can be used for other more useful things, such as supplementing the child's needs and can be used to invest in the child's future.
One reason that makes sense is to use money wisely, especially if you have a child, of course instead of spending it on gambling, it should be used for the child's needs, for example in paying for his education and future. It wouldn't be good if both parents gambled and one of them had to stop. manage the household budget better, I am sure that it will not harm either party and feel disadvantaged if one has to stop for the child's future.

If both of them can't stop, it's best to gamble with a much more limited budget so you don't waste a lot of money because gambling can make anyone bankrupt in an instant if you don't really control it well, gambling should be used as entertainment, not a requirement that must be played all the time. just to make money, it is clearly wrong to make money in gambling.
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December 14, 2023, 03:43:20 AM
First of all a man always choose a wife who is not involved in bad activities like gambling but if she start these things after marriage then the situations will become complicated for them because more they will be involved in gambling more they will loss money.  If only a single partner is gambling then the life of another partner become miserable so how this can happen that both are gambling but situations and conditions of living remains normal.

There will be no case of stopping gambling if a husband, wife and all children are involved in gambling because all of them are considering gambling as a beneficial step to find a financial stability. In my opinion with gambling they can only loss their money and their financial status will remains worse forever.
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December 14, 2023, 01:59:12 AM
Why don't they involve the kids as well? You know, the more bets, the higher the chances they'll eventually win. *Sarcasm*

Although we're lacking information, such as how much time is spent gambling and with what budget, this scenario sounds really unhealthy. It can easily get out of hand; spend a fortune on gambling, and none of the partners will be able to assist each other and put a stop or a limit because they're both involved. It's best not to jump to conclusions, but I'd rather spend this time focusing on our family.

Moreover, this isn't a matter of sex, because I saw a few users pointing out that the wife should spend time with the kids, which is quite sexist. Anyone can gamble; I just find it too risky and potentially unhealthy if both partners are involved.
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December 14, 2023, 01:52:46 AM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

The best solution would be both to quit gambling. If that doesn't work out, a divorce is solution number 2(even though this won't solve their gambling problems). The kids should be taken away by the authorities(for a while). The friends and parents of both the man and the woman should intervene and talk with them about their problem. I know that this isn't very common and most families try to keep their gambling habits a secret, but there's no other way around.
I don't think that the question "who should quit for who?" is competent. The first one quitting and the other one continuing with his gambling addiction won't solve anything.
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December 14, 2023, 01:35:13 AM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.
Where both husband and wife indulge in gambling, either one must give up gambling. A family can never be happy if husband and wife gamble. The wife in particular must give up gambling as a wife can play an important role in keeping the family together. Here the husband can gamble away from home. And a wife can never go away from home to gamble. Whenever a wife starts gambling at home, her children may become addicted to gambling after seeing her gambling. So I would say that here between husband and wife, the wife must take a break from gambling.
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December 14, 2023, 01:23:22 AM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.
they can do it together, right? Or if it is really difficult, maybe the wife should focus more on taking care of the house and family. and allow the wife to gamble when it's time for a holiday.
but what becomes difficult is when both of them are addicted. In the life of a family that has children, it will be difficult to control family finances. It would be better to stop both gambling activities and focus on the family economy. Maybe it will be different for families who are already financially strong. the important thing is that they realize the limits of the money they can spend.
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December 14, 2023, 01:17:38 AM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.
They definitely enjoy being a family of gamblers and can discuss many things about gambling, moreover, there will be no gambling activities carried out in secret because they are gamblers.
If you ask who should quit? should all of them if possible, if it turns out they can't, even the wife doesn't want to stop, then they can continue carrying out their activities with full responsibility and can remind each other if one of them has gambled beyond the limit so that they can return to what has been determined, so as not to disrupt their relationship and other important activities that they still have to do are tidying up the house and working to earn money and taking care of the children.
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December 13, 2023, 11:40:34 PM
If I am to choose between the supposed spouse who needs to quit gambling, will be on the condition of who loses the most in gambling whether it is the husband or the wife. Anyone who is found guilty of losing the most financially will find him or herself quitting gambling not minding his or her status in the family while the one who loses less will continue to gamble if chooses to.
This is really ackward that gambling is causing some argument and drama in the family between the husband and wife,and nobody has the ability to control the other interms of their gambling activities.One thing I have known about gambling is that,the people who loses most in gambling are the people who play the most,and because they want to win back their money by all cost,and that is exactly what is making them lose more money,so in this case,the person that has to quit is the one who loses the most,and the person who hasn't won much because the luck is not there for him to win,be should just give it up to that person who isn't gambling much,but atleast,he is Winning.And also in the real sense,if the husband sees that gambling is affecting their family life,he has the ability to stop the wife because he is in that capacity to do so.
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December 13, 2023, 10:59:47 PM
To me, it's weird that they even considered marrying and living together with both having this kind of habit of being a gambler. To humor the question though, I think that it's best for the both of them to quit gambling since that money could be spent on other stuff that could help the household instead of just gambling that money away but if there's an addiction going on and it can't be helped, I think that the wife should quit because if the husband is still working, the wife can do the housework when she stops gambling unlike with the husband who's probably the provider in the family, he might not be able to find the energy to do housework.
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December 13, 2023, 10:36:44 PM
As a matter of fact, it is ideal that both couples quit when they start parenting. They both could draft out a quit plan for themselves which they could gradually hid to. Since they are two, the plan could be effective because they both would need each other as a reminder and that consciousness would be there that the are quitting gambling as a result of their family.
It's better for them, husband and wife because if they were parents, they would definitely be busier with their children. By stopping gambling, they will have more time to take care of their children, and that is not only a job for the wife but also a job for the husband. Even though her husband works, it is not a problem because the children are their children to whom their parents must give attention. By stopping gambling, this will give them the awareness that taking care of children is much more valuable than just gambling. It's not a matter of who should stop but rather responsibility, and that lies with the husband and wife and not just one of them.
It is truly the responsibility of both the husband and wife to look after their children. This alone is a responsibility that must be accorded the children by their parents so in that case of both parents comes together to sort out things for themselves and decides to stop gambling, I think that would be nice because they would have time for their family and this would help them to save funds or using it for something good in the family or  providing for their kids because the funds that go in for gambling would be channeled or diverted for house use which would be of good advantage to the growing family. Maybe the gambling budget they already made could be able  to invest in it.
Of course, if husband and wife stop gambling then it is a good decision, not who will stop first, but both are making changes for the better, spending time with family is much more valuable than time spent on gambling, besides that if the family doesn't gamble then their children will have a bright future. Sometimes if their parents gamble, the children will judge their parents badly and one day the children will imitate what their parents did, so it's better to prevent things like that if they stop gambling then the Children will not be familiar with gambling and as a parent you can certainly provide education to your children when they grow up telling them about the bad experiences of gambling so that they do not follow in their parents' footsteps.

And yes, if they don't gamble, the funds they should use for gambling can be used for other more useful things, such as supplementing the child's needs and can be used to invest in the child's future.
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December 13, 2023, 10:25:33 PM
Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.
True. Family always comes first in term of importance and priority. If the childrens are neglected from the early days it could take on bad effect on the childrens mind and behavior. Growing up is a once in a life experience. So a parent shouldn't ruin is because of some gambling funs. They needs the prioritize their child first. I have seen many people where both the parents are job holders. They don't give their childrens enough time but only loads of money. Because of this they lack moral values and gets involved with bad things.

family is indeed the most precious treasure in life, even if someone is in the hardest or worst situation but his own family will definitely accept their situation even though they are in a doomed state. also on the contrary, if parents are addicted to gambling, they should not let the impact of gambling affect their own family because it is likely that gambling addiction can damage a family relationship and can also have an impact on the future of their children later and of course this must be avoided.

Because if they are married but still like to gamble or are still addicted to gambling then this will not be good for themselves and for their families. because it is not only himself who will be affected by harmful effects, but his family can also be affected and this is not what his family wants.
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December 13, 2023, 04:04:49 PM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.

It was happened in only few stories,because most of the time the gamblers will marry the non gambler partner in the real life.Because the gamblers need some dollars for the rotation apart from the domestic expenses for their family.If the both partners need of dollars for the rotation,this will affect the domestic expenses of the family and leads to less care of their parents,kids.The children of both gambling parents will become the gambler in future by their parent’s involvement in gambling.

The woman must quit the gambling,if both the couple was in gambling.It’s not my words by the male dominance,only woman can easy take care of the children and the old age people in the family.Caring was the essential part of the family to live the peaceful life.
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December 13, 2023, 03:47:25 PM
Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.
True. Family always comes first in term of importance and priority. If the childrens are neglected from the early days it could take on bad effect on the childrens mind and behavior. Growing up is a once in a life experience. So a parent shouldn't ruin is because of some gambling funs. They needs the prioritize their child first. I have seen many people where both the parents are job holders. They don't give their childrens enough time but only loads of money. Because of this they lack moral values and gets involved with bad things.
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December 13, 2023, 03:44:44 PM
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Regarding married couples who gamble and look after the children, it is obviously more important to look after the children and it is highly recommended that both stop gambling.

Granted, the proceeds from gambling are huge and they could just hire a babysitter and continue their gambling.
However, if the husband and wife are already completely addicted and forget to take care of the children or even to the point of neglecting the children, one of the things that will make them realize is the huge loss from gambling so that they can think and prioritize the children who are also a fortune besides money and money.


Is gambling so important that he has to hire a babysitter so that his gambling activities are not disturbed?
And if the couple has to hire a nanny, what will she pay for? because considering that the husband and wife are gambling addicts, it is certain that the money they earn will be used for gambling, while to hire a nanny, the couple must have a promising and convincing income. So that they can ensure that every month the nanny they hire gets their rights, namely work wages.
Does the couple rely on gambling to be able to pay for a babysitter? Stupid... isn't it, gambling is a detrimental activity.

And starting from that, this is a lesson for us, that when we are not ready to settle down. So it's better for us to postpone this wish for a while. Because talking about marriage is not for a while but forever, for a lifetime. And when we want to get married, we have to be really ready and able for everything. Because when we get married, we will not only be responsible for ourselves personally, but we will also have to be responsible for our partner and our future children.
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December 13, 2023, 02:50:36 PM
If I am to choose between the supposed spouse who needs to quit gambling, will be on the condition of who loses the most in gambling whether it is the husband or the wife. Anyone who is found guilty of losing the most financially will find him or herself quitting gambling not minding his or her status in the family while the one who loses less will continue to gamble if chooses to.
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December 13, 2023, 01:26:54 PM
Hey house someone need a few clips here, don't know if a post of this exact nature has been discussed though.

In a situation where the both spouse are gamblers. Husband gambles, wife gambles, how can both of them manage the situation in terms of finance and the family affairs especially when children are now involve so that the time both spends on gambling doesn't affect family moments and affairs in general.

Would it help if  one of the couple quit for the other and if that's the case who should quit for who.
Maybe they should try the traditional way where the man of the house takes care of the finances and the woman takes care of the family affairs and household chores and stuff? There shouldn't be any problems unless they are addicted gamblers who are always gambling instead of working or doing other stuff and gambling just in their free time. A family where everyone likes doing similar things can easily manage things if they properly do things.

It's a blessing if a husband and a wife like doing the same thing because there won't be personal interest conflicts this way, however, they should take care of their responsibilities like the husband should be working and providing for the family while the wife should be taking care of the house and they should be doing what they like in their free time.
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December 13, 2023, 12:41:42 PM
If both husband and wife are addicted to gambling in a family then that family does not seem to prosper. The happiness and peace of a family is lost due to gambling. Those once involved in gambling can never quit gambling. Gambling is very dangerous.  Due to which family happiness is lost to those who are addicted to winning. When husband and wife gamble they will go very badly.  When the two gamble together, they have no one to rule them, for which they become very reckless.

Well, if they are good at what they do (if they are sports bettors or poker players) maybe they will prosper... who knows? It's hard to make any conclusions without all the factors. Anyway, people have passions and hobbies, and if they are careful with money, like if they know how much they can spend on things they like, I don't think they will get into any problems. In the end, it's all about being responsible... some people are responsible, they know how much they have and how much they can spend on something. And if people are reckless they will get into huge problems sooner or later, whatever they do.

But on the other hand, we must understand that one of the causes that can finally make them both enter the addiction phase is because of excessive actions in responding to gambling, mindset and beliefs become the main problem why they can enter such a phase. This means that I think it is quite difficult to be able to achieve the word "good" in terms of gambling management although it can always be a possibility, but most of them have difficulty in doing or implementing some actions for prevention.

The difficulty of applying responsibility to gambling activities makes a person get more involved, unable to accept the final result that can make them disappointed or even cry also makes them try more with the intention of revenge or reaching a break-even point, this cycle of addiction will never be completed if it is not overcome with enough awareness. So in conclusion I think in this case the correct understanding that can make them apply good responsibility in order to manage all their gambling activities whether in terms of budget or time.

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