Yes, I do reject the traditions of stoning, slavery, rape, and genocide.
As do I
So you are against what your God commands?
Context matters. Lets look back not 4000 years but a mere 75. Around that time president's Roosevelt commanded an army to storm the beaches of Normandy and thus killed many defending soldiers who probably wanted nothing more then to be left alone by the United States army. He also ordered the development of a horrific weapons of destruction the atomic bomb that would later be dropped on not one but two cities full of women and children.
Should I be against what the President commanded back then? Well that would require one to look at overall context both of the commands in question the reasons the command was given and their necessity.
We would need to answer several questions including:
1) What does it mean for a command to be moral or immoral?
2) Could a command that is not accepted today ever be moral under any possible historic or future circumstances?
3) What are those circumstances?
4) Were those circumstances present when the command was given?
One can logically support the decision to use nuclear weapons at the end of WWII and simultaneously support their nonuse today. That is possible after a mere 75 years. Your critiques of biblical accounts concerned actions that occurred thousands of years ago in a world and context we can barely imagine today. Keep that in mind when you are critiquing those times.
The answer to your question is yes I do reject the traditions of stoning, slavery, rape, and genocide, and no I am not against what my God commands.
If you think those positions are mutually exclusive then you have not analyzed the problem in sufficient depth.