Do you care about what people say about you gambling?

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on October 31, 2024, 11:07:15 PM

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen. In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

Parents already experienced what we've experienced right now so they know the risks of gambling and they know what are the possibilities if you are get addicted in gambling, you have a good environment to your surroundings and good parenthood you know that they just warn you just for your sake at all cost. Parents right there only thing they need is to give guidance if you are already old enough now its all about your decision in life but again they you are still with them and you get addicted on it you are not the only affected here. But if you are just living on your own and you can deal with now with the world its all up to your decision.

What you say is correct, when parents say to stay away from things that are prohibited, it is likely that the parents have previously experienced the bad effects, therefore they advise their children not to do the same things they did before. When someone is old enough, parents will provide good guidance and when they are adults, the results will be seen whether the child will obey or not with the words and guidance from their parents that they previously gave. Sometimes parents say "I failed as a parent." This happens when their child grows up but experiences problems that embarrass their family.
Even though someone has grown up, of course parents are family who have the right to speak out and we ourselves cannot throw away or pretend that our parents don't exist, because what you said is true, we don't live alone. Many children regret it when their parents are no longer there, therefore we must be able to respect our parents when giving directions because of course they want what is best for us.

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It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
Different from gambling using borrowed money or using other people, usually gamblers who are addicted when they run out of capital tend to take loans to gamble again and this is not right, because if I myself use other people's money to gamble and other people comment on this I myself am embarrassed, therefore we should be able to maintain everything properly.

Sometimes even when the money and time we spend on gambling is actually ours, it doesn’t mean that we should completely discard some constructive and harmless criticism, this is because, sometimes we might actually be heading to addiction without even knowing it, and sometimes in such situations, someone who have actually walked down that same road may out of concern choose to walk up to you and attempt to offer you a few guidance so as to prevent you from finally falling into addiction or any other trap that may cost you. And if you’re of the opinion that, you won’t listen or discard whatever knowledge or advice the person is sharing with you, simply because he wasn’t the person that gave you the money, then you’ll fall into that trap and would regret the fact that you never listened to the person and by then, it must’ve been too late.

I understand what you said, indeed unknowingly we could be on the road to addiction. And with those who are worried that we will become addicted, of course they will remind us not to be too excessive in gambling, that is a good point and we must be able to appreciate it, because in my opinion when someone gives an expression about the activities we do, there are two possibilities, either criticism or advice, well if it is directed at advice then we must be able to accept it too, indirectly it makes us aware not to be excessive in gambling.
However, when other people say things that are more directed at criticism, such as saying they don't like seeing me always gambling, then I won't care, because as long as I don't harm other people, I don't think there is a problem that needs to be prolonged.

If other people give advice but we ignore it, this is a mistake that sometimes makes us regret it in the end.

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Quote from: junder on October 31, 2024, 10:07:02 PM

It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.

Don't make absolute judgments like this. There is always a degree of relativity with which things should be handled. Let me explain: You are a conscious person and responsible for your actions and no one has the right to give themselves the authority to interfere in your privacy, and I do not advise you at all to pay attention to them or to let their criticisms influence your decisions. But at the same time, there are some close people in your inner circle, such as close friends or some family members, who have the authority to express an opinion and criticize gambling in the context of talking about its effects on your general behavior. These criticisms are useful and I advise you to deal with them positively because gambling has certainly begun to affect your surroundings in a way that calls for direct criticism. If you find yourself rejecting the criticisms of those close to you, then be sure that you are a gambling addict or that you are at the beginning of the road to chronic addiction.

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Quote from: junder on October 31, 2024, 10:07:02 PM

It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
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Ironically, people would still comment on anyone entering a casino even if that person is using their own money to gamble, using credit or not gambling at all, the stigma associated with gambling is that big.
Here in my country there is common practice: people looking for cheaper beer usually do not go to bars or pubs but prefer to walk into casinos because beer is cheaper there and they offer chips as change for the beer (when one wants to buy one beer but one does not have pocket change). Even though one did the same in other places of the world, only for the sake of cheaper beer the stigma of spending time in a casino would prevail.
For some reason, here people believe it is preferable to be a patron for a bar rather than an active gambler.

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Quote from: blockman on October 31, 2024, 05:39:12 PM

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

Indeed because we don't know what other people's businesses and even we know, we are not the right person to involve to their businesses especially if they don't ask us. We will not care whatever people say about our gambling activity because we don't disturb their life, we playing gambling with our money and we can responsible with ourselves and our money. But if you can hide your gambling activity, you will not hear that from other people and they will thinks that we are okay with our activities.

I would say we should adapt ourselves to society. Gambling is legal in many countries. So if I gamble openly in these countries then there is no problem. And no one will make any bad comments about gambling to me in these countries.

However, gambling is not legal in many countries. So we must adapt ourselves to the social system. We should not openly gamble in these places. First, since gambling is not legal in these countries, I may face legal hurdles. Secondly, most people in these countries consider gambling as a crime. So I must hide my gambling habit. I certainly don't want people to have a bad idea about me. So I always try to adapt myself easily to the people and environment around me and conduct myself accordingly.

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Quote from: Jody.Drummer on October 31, 2024, 11:07:15 PM

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 05:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen.

But he's also one of those folks that have been hiding their gambling activities, we're the same as him.

Although having such actions and that type of respect is what we have to give to them. This is the same as we know what we're doing and we don't advise others to gamble but we still gamble. Cheesy

Quote from: Jody.Drummer on October 31, 2024, 11:07:15 PM

In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

That's true because they know the consequences of it and their partners don't approve to them gambling.

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Quote from: blockman on October 31, 2024, 05:39:12 PM

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

Indeed because we don't know what other people's businesses and even we know, we are not the right person to involve to their businesses especially if they don't ask us. We will not care whatever people say about our gambling activity because we don't disturb their life, we playing gambling with our money and we can responsible with ourselves and our money. But if you can hide your gambling activity, you will not hear that from other people and they will thinks that we are okay with our activities.

Yes, the point is as long as we do not involve or harm others in any activities or affairs that we have, then you are free to not care about anything that other people say to you, but maybe on the other hand it doesn't matter if you want to tell them a little by providing a little evidence that what other people say is not true.
And regarding gambling, yes, as you said, one of the reasons why we don't have to care about anything that other people say is because we gamble with our own money, but of course it would be a different story if it turned out that you gambled using money borrowed from other people, because if so, the fault is on your side.

But on the other hand, you are also free to tell or hide your habits from other people, and if it turns out that you are basically one of those people who don't like it when people criticize anything you do, then clearly hiding it will be the best decision you can make.

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Quote from: blockman on October 31, 2024, 05:39:12 PM

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

Indeed because we don't know what other people's businesses and even we know, we are not the right person to involve to their businesses especially if they don't ask us. We will not care whatever people say about our gambling activity because we don't disturb their life, we playing gambling with our money and we can responsible with ourselves and our money. But if you can hide your gambling activity, you will not hear that from other people and they will thinks that we are okay with our activities.

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The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen. In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

Parents already experienced what we've experienced right now so they know the risks of gambling and they know what are the possibilities if you are get addicted in gambling, you have a good environment to your surroundings and good parenthood you know that they just warn you just for your sake at all cost. Parents right there only thing they need is to give guidance if you are already old enough now its all about your decision in life but again they you are still with them and you get addicted on it you are not the only affected here. But if you are just living on your own and you can deal with now with the world its all up to your decision.

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Quote from: junder on October 31, 2024, 10:07:02 PM

It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
Different from gambling using borrowed money or using other people, usually gamblers who are addicted when they run out of capital tend to take loans to gamble again and this is not right, because if I myself use other people's money to gamble and other people comment on this I myself am embarrassed, therefore we should be able to maintain everything properly.

Sometimes even when the money and time we spend on gambling is actually ours, it doesn’t mean that we should completely discard some constructive and harmless criticism, this is because, sometimes we might actually be heading to addiction without even knowing it, and sometimes in such situations, someone who have actually walked down that same road may out of concern choose to walk up to you and attempt to offer you a few guidance so as to prevent you from finally falling into addiction or any other trap that may cost you. And if you’re of the opinion that, you won’t listen or discard whatever knowledge or advice the person is sharing with you, simply because he wasn’t the person that gave you the money, then you’ll fall into that trap and would regret the fact that you never listened to the person and by then, it must’ve been too late.

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Quote from: noormcs5 on October 27, 2024, 11:21:55 AM

Once there was a person who i know used to say bad words to the people who gamble but later I came to know he is a gambler himself. How strange Cheesy

Most people who are in the game and leave are resentful, in fact the people who criticize casino players is because they have that repressed desire to play and they don't Because their pride is stronger than anything, then because of this you have to do what is necessary to not use that mask in society , I think we all seek to be happy, if a person is happy playing in a casino and if it does not harm anyone, then you have to let him be, as long as he does not cause harm to others, then you have to leave him alone, everyone does what he wants , I do not Give even the Slightest Importance to these types of people like that.

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 05:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen. In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

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Quote from: MainIbem on January 02, 2024, 04:40:43 PM

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So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?

On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

I know that this has been posted at the start of the year, but I believe that scenarios like this always happen anywhere.
I mean there will be people that will judge you based on what they see you're doing.

This is one of the reasons why I'm not saying what I'm doing with anybody around me nor I'm not doing what I always do in private in some public places. I always think that whatever I'm doing is, there will always, always be people out there that will judge you based on what they've seen you're doing like what the OP has shared. The problem is that he got triggered on the phrase "almost turned useless". I don't know but if I'm in your place OP, I might just leave it and will not react to it at all. At the end of the day, you know yourself more than that "someone" that you said. Of course, we're different and that might trigger you at all, but I don't care what others said to me. As for me gambling, I'm doing it privately, and I don't want to do it on public... at all.

Ignoring them sometimes is the best solution to not escalate things. I know that it's hard to ignore especially when they touched your ego and got you triggered but if we can just ignore them then let's do.

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It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
Different from gambling using borrowed money or using other people, usually gamblers who are addicted when they run out of capital tend to take loans to gamble again and this is not right, because if I myself use other people's money to gamble and other people comment on this I myself am embarrassed, therefore we should be able to maintain everything properly.

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 05:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

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Quote from: OgNasty on October 31, 2024, 02:30:52 AM

I don’t really care what people say about me period, but I guess I wouldn’t want them thinking I had some sort of gambling problem. I’ve had people ask me about my gambling before, but the amount of money I gamble is probably less than most people spend on Starbucks so I don’t really worry about it.

My own is that as long as those people are not the ones paying my bills, I don't care what they feel about my gambling activities within myself. I know I don't gamble too much, so where necessary, I give the accurate information and allow them to draw their conclusion.

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

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Quote from: blockman on October 30, 2024, 02:49:45 PM

Well, this is one of the concerns of many that they have to look before doing what they have to do like in gambling. But we're already 2024 and this year is about to end.
We shouldn't be worried with what others are going to think about us. Let's just live and enjoy the life that we have because we only have one to live instead to worry.

I agree with you that we should live and enjoy the life no matter what we did. As long as we don't disturb other people's life and not gives them bad things, we don't have to thinks about what they say to us. It is normal if they say many things about us because they may jealous with what we get whether that is about our incomes or other things that they see from us. We don't have to tells them about our gambling activity if that will just gives us more problem.

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

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Quote from: ChiBitCTy on October 31, 2024, 02:34:58 PM

This world would be a much better place if people cared a whole lot less about what people though about them. I guess that's where I would consider someone being "real" versus being "fake". Now of course I'm not talking about someone being a murderer and not caring what other people think, of course, but I just mean in general. So me personally, I couldn't care less what people think about me and my gambling habits.

But we are really that living in a world on which there are people who are really that liking on trying to say something in other people on whatever the things that they do able to see on you or observed out.
This is why it will really be that best that you should really be that trying out to ignore because if you are really that trying out to hear out those words specially on negative ones then it could potentially
you mentally,emotionally and psychologically. We do know that there are individuals who are ally that too sensitive when it comes to negative things on which on the moment that they do heard it off
then they are already that disrupted on what they are currently been doing. This is why its not suggested to be that too sensitive when it comes to this aspect.

Do the things on what you are currently doing even if it means that you are dealing up with gambling. Just like on others been saying above that they dont have the rights on what you should gonna do
with your money or into the things that you do really tend to make use because its your money not theirs. There are really just that people who dont want to let others see on what they
are really doing and doesnt matter its not gambling or whatsoever.

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This world would be a much better place if people cared a whole lot less about what people though about them. I guess that's where I would consider someone being "real" versus being "fake". Now of course I'm not talking about someone being a murderer and not caring what other people think, of course, but I just mean in general. So me personally, I couldn't care less what people think about me and my gambling habits.

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Because of people’s biases against gambling, even if you place a $1 bet, they instantly see you as a gambling addict.

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I used to play casino games secretly and didn't want the people around me to know I was playing. This led to me experiencing bigger losses. However, the situation is different with sports betting. My close friends and I have a telegram group where we share the tickets we play every weekend and we enjoy it. If you know your limits and have good friends, you can tell them that you’re gambling.

The gambling was prohibited in many countries,but you think all the people doesn’t play gambling in that countries.Surely No will be the answer because of the interest towards the gambling site.When you place the wrong game again and again,the game will not bring you the profit from the money you spend.Learn the game quickly to avoid of the gambling loss in the gambling site.Mostly you should have your own strategy towards the gambling algorithm.If you join in a group,you get more exposure towards the game.

You’re absolutely right about this. In regions where gambling is banned, people’s interest in it actually tends to increase after the ban. That’s why I don’t agree with these kinds of prohibitions.

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