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Quote from: blockman on October 31, 2024, 04:39:12 PM

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

Indeed because we don't know what other people's businesses and even we know, we are not the right person to involve to their businesses especially if they don't ask us. We will not care whatever people say about our gambling activity because we don't disturb their life, we playing gambling with our money and we can responsible with ourselves and our money. But if you can hide your gambling activity, you will not hear that from other people and they will thinks that we are okay with our activities.

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 04:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen. In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

Parents already experienced what we've experienced right now so they know the risks of gambling and they know what are the possibilities if you are get addicted in gambling, you have a good environment to your surroundings and good parenthood you know that they just warn you just for your sake at all cost. Parents right there only thing they need is to give guidance if you are already old enough now its all about your decision in life but again they you are still with them and you get addicted on it you are not the only affected here. But if you are just living on your own and you can deal with now with the world its all up to your decision.

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Quote from: junder on October 31, 2024, 09:07:02 PM

It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
Different from gambling using borrowed money or using other people, usually gamblers who are addicted when they run out of capital tend to take loans to gamble again and this is not right, because if I myself use other people's money to gamble and other people comment on this I myself am embarrassed, therefore we should be able to maintain everything properly.

Sometimes even when the money and time we spend on gambling is actually ours, it doesn’t mean that we should completely discard some constructive and harmless criticism, this is because, sometimes we might actually be heading to addiction without even knowing it, and sometimes in such situations, someone who have actually walked down that same road may out of concern choose to walk up to you and attempt to offer you a few guidance so as to prevent you from finally falling into addiction or any other trap that may cost you. And if you’re of the opinion that, you won’t listen or discard whatever knowledge or advice the person is sharing with you, simply because he wasn’t the person that gave you the money, then you’ll fall into that trap and would regret the fact that you never listened to the person and by then, it must’ve been too late.

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Quote from: noormcs5 on October 27, 2024, 10:21:55 AM

Once there was a person who i know used to say bad words to the people who gamble but later I came to know he is a gambler himself. How strange Cheesy

Most people who are in the game and leave are resentful, in fact the people who criticize casino players is because they have that repressed desire to play and they don't Because their pride is stronger than anything, then because of this you have to do what is necessary to not use that mask in society , I think we all seek to be happy, if a person is happy playing in a casino and if it does not harm anyone, then you have to let him be, as long as he does not cause harm to others, then you have to leave him alone, everyone does what he wants , I do not Give even the Slightest Importance to these types of people like that.

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 04:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

What his parents did was a good action, because of course behind it his parents did not want their children to experience negative events, but by continuing to do it, maybe if he admitted it to both of his parents, disappointment would occur as well as his own parents who would definitely be disappointed with what he had done. Basically, we will grow up and have to take our own path including choosing what we will do, but that doesn't mean we should ignore our parents' advice too. Explain as best as possible what is being done, such as doing it but not too excessively, maybe it can help him but it doesn't guarantee that his parents won't be disappointed, because disappointment seems to be something that is certain to happen. In addition, some people choose to hide their gambling activities even from their partners, but sometimes this will cause problems but it depends on us ourselves who do it like what.

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Quote from: MainIbem on January 02, 2024, 03:40:43 PM

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So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?

On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

I know that this has been posted at the start of the year, but I believe that scenarios like this always happen anywhere.
I mean there will be people that will judge you based on what they see you're doing.

This is one of the reasons why I'm not saying what I'm doing with anybody around me nor I'm not doing what I always do in private in some public places. I always think that whatever I'm doing is, there will always, always be people out there that will judge you based on what they've seen you're doing like what the OP has shared. The problem is that he got triggered on the phrase "almost turned useless". I don't know but if I'm in your place OP, I might just leave it and will not react to it at all. At the end of the day, you know yourself more than that "someone" that you said. Of course, we're different and that might trigger you at all, but I don't care what others said to me. As for me gambling, I'm doing it privately, and I don't want to do it on public... at all.

Ignoring them sometimes is the best solution to not escalate things. I know that it's hard to ignore especially when they touched your ego and got you triggered but if we can just ignore them then let's do.

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It is better when we are going to gamble we must be able to think healthily, such as the money that we will allocate in this gambling must be purely our own money, therefore even though other people comment on the gambling activities that we do, we don't need to listen because we are using our own money, sometimes we have to close our own ears because only we ourselves know what kind of things we want and make us happy.
Different from gambling using borrowed money or using other people, usually gamblers who are addicted when they run out of capital tend to take loans to gamble again and this is not right, because if I myself use other people's money to gamble and other people comment on this I myself am embarrassed, therefore we should be able to maintain everything properly.

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Quote from: Nwada001 on October 31, 2024, 04:46:51 PM

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

I guess that your parents are real strict people. They have told you not to gamble but you have gambled so, there could be some disappointment that you're seeing upon admitting that you've gambled.

I have done that in the past when I've told my parents I spent something else that I have enjoyed with but didn't gave any clue anything near to gambling just for them not to worry with my habit.

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Quote from: OgNasty on October 31, 2024, 01:30:52 AM

I don’t really care what people say about me period, but I guess I wouldn’t want them thinking I had some sort of gambling problem. I’ve had people ask me about my gambling before, but the amount of money I gamble is probably less than most people spend on Starbucks so I don’t really worry about it.

My own is that as long as those people are not the ones paying my bills, I don't care what they feel about my gambling activities within myself. I know I don't gamble too much, so where necessary, I give the accurate information and allow them to draw their conclusion.

The only set of people I care about how they react are my parents. I would rather tell them I spent $10 on bear palor than say I gambled with that money.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on October 31, 2024, 12:25:55 AM

Quote from: blockman on October 30, 2024, 01:49:45 PM

Well, this is one of the concerns of many that they have to look before doing what they have to do like in gambling. But we're already 2024 and this year is about to end.
We shouldn't be worried with what others are going to think about us. Let's just live and enjoy the life that we have because we only have one to live instead to worry.

I agree with you that we should live and enjoy the life no matter what we did. As long as we don't disturb other people's life and not gives them bad things, we don't have to thinks about what they say to us. It is normal if they say many things about us because they may jealous with what we get whether that is about our incomes or other things that they see from us. We don't have to tells them about our gambling activity if that will just gives us more problem.

Yup, don't meddle with people's businesses and we'll be happy. We don't do that and you can tell that to the other people when they've found out you're a gambler.
It's a matter of our own business to worry with and if you're not bothering nobody, that's the one way that you can prove your point that you don't care what others will say.

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Quote from: ChiBitCTy on October 31, 2024, 01:34:58 PM

This world would be a much better place if people cared a whole lot less about what people though about them. I guess that's where I would consider someone being "real" versus being "fake". Now of course I'm not talking about someone being a murderer and not caring what other people think, of course, but I just mean in general. So me personally, I couldn't care less what people think about me and my gambling habits.

But we are really that living in a world on which there are people who are really that liking on trying to say something in other people on whatever the things that they do able to see on you or observed out.
This is why it will really be that best that you should really be that trying out to ignore because if you are really that trying out to hear out those words specially on negative ones then it could potentially
you mentally,emotionally and psychologically. We do know that there are individuals who are ally that too sensitive when it comes to negative things on which on the moment that they do heard it off
then they are already that disrupted on what they are currently been doing. This is why its not suggested to be that too sensitive when it comes to this aspect.

Do the things on what you are currently doing even if it means that you are dealing up with gambling. Just like on others been saying above that they dont have the rights on what you should gonna do
with your money or into the things that you do really tend to make use because its your money not theirs. There are really just that people who dont want to let others see on what they
are really doing and doesnt matter its not gambling or whatsoever.

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This world would be a much better place if people cared a whole lot less about what people though about them. I guess that's where I would consider someone being "real" versus being "fake". Now of course I'm not talking about someone being a murderer and not caring what other people think, of course, but I just mean in general. So me personally, I couldn't care less what people think about me and my gambling habits.

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Because of people’s biases against gambling, even if you place a $1 bet, they instantly see you as a gambling addict.

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Quote from: Velvet78 on October 30, 2024, 12:33:05 PM

I used to play casino games secretly and didn't want the people around me to know I was playing. This led to me experiencing bigger losses. However, the situation is different with sports betting. My close friends and I have a telegram group where we share the tickets we play every weekend and we enjoy it. If you know your limits and have good friends, you can tell them that you’re gambling.

The gambling was prohibited in many countries,but you think all the people doesn’t play gambling in that countries.Surely No will be the answer because of the interest towards the gambling site.When you place the wrong game again and again,the game will not bring you the profit from the money you spend.Learn the game quickly to avoid of the gambling loss in the gambling site.Mostly you should have your own strategy towards the gambling algorithm.If you join in a group,you get more exposure towards the game.

You’re absolutely right about this. In regions where gambling is banned, people’s interest in it actually tends to increase after the ban. That’s why I don’t agree with these kinds of prohibitions.

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If I see people criticizing my work then I think I have done a good job because those who envy me must feel jealous of my success. But if my well-wishers warn me or forbid me about something, I will definitely take it very seriously because my future may be bad because of it. Gambling is not bad but gambling with wrong strategy and gambling with wrong idea about gambling are both harmful for every person. If a person comes to gambling with the intention of becoming rich easily in a short period of time, then far from gaining a lot of money, he will lose as much money as he has, so we must keep these thoughts away.

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Quote from: HelliumZ on October 30, 2024, 06:59:12 PM

It is very interesting that you are betting through a telegram and group chat that is safe from multiple people. Currently, people do not understand or know about gambling especially online gambling because they have to participate through electronic devices. Land-based gambling or casinos are different because the physical presence of people in the community does not protect privacy. And for those who value respect and privacy, participating in land-based gambling is really troublesome. Therefore, if the privacy of the people of the society can be protected through Telegram groups in the case of online gambling, it will be a commendable and wise thing to do.

It seems to me that it is not so simple, if you enter the casino via telegram, then telegram can identify your actions, and the casino will see your ID, so you need to take care of confidentiality, but you need to think through all the steps so that everything really works out correctly. Maybe I do not understand correctly how telegram determines all this, but it seems to me that here it is all more complicated, if you care about confidentiality, it is better to do it in an online casino that does not require verification.

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Quote from: Mr. Magkaisa on October 31, 2024, 03:49:36 AM

- After all, we don't care what other people say if they know that we gamble, especially if other people don't influence us to gamble like we do, it's okay to gamble because it's a choice this and we know what we are getting into too.

The important thing is that we don't let ourselves get addicted to gambling that can destroy our personality or the family we have right now, and the important thing is that we must have control over our emotions and ourselves.

If we know how to treat gambling and we can be okay with that, we can let other people say anything about us. But we have the option to hide what we do in gambling so we can prevents them saying the bad things.
Sometimes, other people saying can affect to us especially our family if they hear that we are playing gambling. Some people will not feels okay when hear others saying bad about us.
Yes, I agree that we don't let ourselves becomes addicted to gambling because that can gives us more problem which we will difficult to solve. We must become responsible with anything we do so no bad words comes from other people.

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Quote from: OgNasty on October 31, 2024, 01:30:52 AM

I don’t really care what people say about me period, but I guess I wouldn’t want them thinking I had some sort of gambling problem. I’ve had people ask me about my gambling before, but the amount of money I gamble is probably less than most people spend on Starbucks so I don’t really worry about it.

Yes, we are the same, moreover, we gamble using money from our own hard work in the sense of not involving other people and also not borrowing money from other people for the gambling habits that we often do, and on the other hand, in my opinion, even if we explain to people that we are responsible gamblers and only bet small amounts, I am sure that not all of them will immediately believe your idea, remember that no matter how good the actions you take, basically there will always be people who want to bring you down in various ways such as causing slander, so in my opinion it is much better not to care too much about any criticism said by other people as long as we do not harm them, but of course if it turns out that the opinions or criticisms given by other people are really useful for us, then consider it.

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Quote from: LDL on October 29, 2024, 06:58:53 PM

Once upon a time living in the society, I never paid attention to the various ugly comments that people used to make. At one time I involved myself heavily in gambling though I was not in a relationship i.e. married but now after I am married I have children and in this case I am determined to fulfill various social responsibilities and duties. In society, a gambling addict does not want to have good relations with the family and even does not invite the family members to various social rituals. That's why I stopped myself from gambling mainly from the social context. As my children are growing up and so that my children do not have to introduce a gambling father in the future, I have stopped gambling.

And you did the right thing. Society definitely condemns gambling, and I think it condemns it too much. Yes, there are plenty of examples of problem gambling and betting, but I also know people who have been gambling for years and do not suffer from addiction. However, children are the factor that any reasonable person would immediately exclude the risk that gambling brings from their life. And I would do the same.

There are a lot of people gambling, that you will not know they're gamblers, because they do it in a responsible way. Online casinos have made gambling more secretive, and easy to access making it difficult for people to know that you are a gambler, if you don't overdo it and abandon your responsibility as an adult. After I started gambling responsible, nobody knows that I gamble apart from my wife, because I love her and wanted her to know that I am a gambler, but she has never complained any day in as much as I take care of my family responsibilities with ease.

This means that in addition to responsibility and a truly mature understanding of your responsibilities, you are also very good at living secretly. Because after watching dozens of interviews, I can say for sure that 90 percent of women's families feel that something is being hidden from them. This is their nature and they are good at it. And often they get to the bottom of the truth and reveal the gambling side of their husband's life.

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- After all, we don't care what other people say if they know that we gamble, especially if other people don't influence us to gamble like we do, it's okay to gamble because it's a choice this and we know what we are getting into too.

The important thing is that we don't let ourselves get addicted to gambling that can destroy our personality or the family we have right now, and the important thing is that we must have control over our emotions and ourselves.

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Quote from: Velvet78 on October 30, 2024, 12:33:05 PM

I used to play casino games secretly and didn't want the people around me to know I was playing. This led to me experiencing bigger losses. However, the situation is different with sports betting. My close friends and I have a telegram group where we share the tickets we play every weekend and we enjoy it. If you know your limits and have good friends, you can tell them that you’re gambling.

You have your right to whatever you want for yourself including what you want people to know or not know about your gambling life, only that I do not like people do it cowardly. It is a different thing that you want your private gambling life and it is another than you are afraid of what people would think or say about it, I just don't care about the latter. But one thing we should ensure is that we live a good life, if people know that you are a good person, and very responsible and financially okay, I am sure they will not even give a thought to your gambling life, they must have admitted that you like it and respect you for it. It is those who portray the opposite that should be concerned.

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