Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 2. (Read 4700 times)

You just need to remind him that gambling will not always be on anyone's side, and sometimes it will only be a place of regret in the end.
People who gamble for a living should certainly have more knowledge, good money management and not just rely on luck with a little money left.

There are many other opportunities that can be taken advantage of, but some people who start buying the lottery with the aim of winning big are always done.
Seeing some grandparents who routinely buy lottery tickets every week to get unimaginable results.

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In the past, when my country had a lottery that was legalized by the government in 1990, namely Sumbangan Dermawan Sosial Berhadiah (SDSB), which was a lottery coupon organized by the government.

A pedicab driver always buys coupons every week for Rp.1000 or around $0.063 at that time, in the hope of getting a big win.
and in the end the pedicab driver got a victory of IDR 50 billion or worth $316,837.

It is just a story of the past that proves that Gamble to live but does not forget life and remains consistent in doing so but does not make him too greedy to buy with more amounts. It's about everyone's luck and consistency.

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The gambling community had their gambling view in the different way compared to the other non gambling community.Because the non gambling community will not worry about the other people win or loss.But some non gamblers will criticise you and say gambling was the reason for the failure of the gamblers.If anyone show attitude towards your gambling play,you should not leave them as it is.It was essential to clarify that gambling doesn’t have dark side,it also helps many people to settle in their own life.

Gambling aside, have good page of what people can read about you, life is not just about gambling all the time, there are days you don't gamble and might just be having time with people but because your way doesn't align with them, they might not want to associate or connect with you. Study where you are think very well of what people around you think about you, if they don't like what you do, there are ways you can do it and you will still be respected.

I have this guy that gamble for living and when I say gamble for living, he has nothing than gambling and believe me, anytime people have some information to share and some beneficial things, they don't share with him because they think he is not serious about his life but in his own context of life, he is serious and he thinks gambling is the only way to make it but other people don't see it like that, this is why what other people thinks about you matters.

If one wants to change his position then he has to take the initiative himself. Nothing can ever be done without self-effort. There are some people who can give good advice but they can not help any particular issue. There are some people who like to give free suggestions, I ignore those people. Those who have become rich today from gambling would never have reached that stage if they had relied on the suggestions of others to gamble. Rather there are cases where gambling was forbidden but when a big win came from gambling, the same people cheered him back and congratulated him. Self-observation should be given importance in making good or bad decisions about any work.

When you are successful you will have everyone by your side but if you are not successful then you will have to listen to different kinds of things. Gambling is completely at your discretion so I don't give much priority to other's suggestions.

You are exactly right, like I believe I must have mentioned on my previous comment on this thread which is already a very long time ago, I myself used to hate gambling with passion, and so also I hated  gamblers as well, and saw all of them as irresponsible people, since the mindset installed in me back then was that  it was only criminals who gambled, so this made me to see every person I saw gambling as criminal, and this also I believe had something to do with the environment where I grew up in, since there were no modern casinos in the area, most gamblers were smokers who would often gather themselves in an uncompleted buildings, smoking and drinking while they gambled using card games mostly, most of this people were also criminals in the society.

I grew up and traveled to better developed places and there, I discovered that gambling can be clean, that even well educated people with white collar jobs do gamble, this completely changed my mindset about gambling..
And I myself started gambling after  meet a guy in my working place whom I later become best friend with, he was a very cool and responsible guy, and also a gambler, one of his big winnings was what triggered me into asking him to teach me how to gamble, and that was how I myself became one.

The best advice is, do what makes you happy and leave what people will say or do, as long as what you are doing is not a crime and it doesn't affect you and people around you negatively.

From my perspective, it’s best not to pay attention to what others think or say. Gambling is a sensitive topic, and people won’t spare you from criticism, even if you try to show them you’re playing responsibly. Maybe they’ve seen bad examples in their lives and hold certain biases, so whatever you do, explain, or show...nothing will change.

Just because gambling is considered legal in a country does not mean that everyone there is friendly and does not hate it. Gambling has had too much of a bad reputation associated with social evils, bankruptcy, addiction...so even in countries where gambling is legalized there are still people who hate it. So you need to pay attention to the attitudes of those around you about gambling. If your relatives and friends do not gamble but they know you are a gambler, they will also have negative thoughts about you. So whether or not to gamble openly will depend on the environment you live in and your decision.

And if we come from countries that prohibit gambling, we should keep quiet because the legal risks are worse than what people think about us.

Wont really be just that talking about gambling but also in other things as well on where you are the ones who do make out such decision whether you would really be dealing up with it or not. People would be always have something to say on the things that you would really be doing specially if its an activity that it is really that negative in most peoples eyes due to that gambling addiction. There are indeed people who are really that highly reactive on whatever other people been saying and thats why they are really that careful on the actions that they are making because they dont really like for other people on having something to say.
Gambling isnt really that bad to deal with, it do only makes bad on the time that you do make that too much dealing up with it specially when spending up money with it. It is really that important that you do have that control when it comes to deal up with the risks. Also, gambling is really that just for fun but there were people who are really that dealing up things excessively and thats why they  do really end up on a disaster.

Gambling is a personal decision, I mean when we gamble it is not because of coercion or anything like that, because we consciously follow our own desires. If the gambling we do does not harm others, then why do we listen to them? As long as we gamble responsibly and do not make us addicted. Maybe it will be different when we gamble irresponsibly and become addicted, other people say anything about us that has a reason that will be their shield. And in that situation I think we should listen to them, because there will also be goodness that we get, one of which is maybe we will be more responsible.

Not making people feels that you are having some sort of gambling issues is quite sensible because we can not generally say we don't care about what people say even when the kind of gambling life we are living is affecting people around us negatively, some people with gambling problems have made some people too to feel that gambling is generally back whereas our approach towards gambling is what matters and not gambling itself, some one can not say they don't care about what people say about them gambling when they are prioritizing gambling over every other things in their life.

Self-control is easier if you are just starting this activity. So make sure that you have limits and targets in every session you make. Check if you can contain your betting activities and if you feel you are out of control, better pause for a bit and assess your situation. Regular assessment of yourself is needed to avoid going too deep in this addictive activity.
As for the knowledge of who knows that I gamble from time to time, I believe no one knows as I am gambling online only. Been to physical casinos before, but that was long time ago. Knowing the existence of crypto casinos is more than enough for me to play online. No need to go out even betting on sports. It comes handy so to speak.

And the solid proof that shows that gambling dealing is increasing is that we could really be able to see those stuffs on the moment that we are really checking out those gambling revenues that these businesses are making which simply implies that there's so much high interest when it comes to gambling and this do really concludes out that there are those tons of people who do get addicted into it.Being mindful about what others do say? This is something that least of their concern on which they dont really care on what others be saying as long they could be able to play out no matter what.
Actually i do agree into others sayings that its none of their business on what you should gonna do with your money, it is really just that people do messed up their lives because of having no control
on dealing into something specially on gambling.

That is why we must be wise and take a look at the situation around us so we can make a right decision. We can not just decides without see what happen to our environment because that can lead us make a wrong decision. We don't have to hear what anything people say about us because not all of them say is right especially for those who doesn't closest to us. Sometimes they only wants to gives a bad words to us without knowing the truth.

We can be neutral with anything happen in our environment and trying to adapts with the situation. We don't wants to gossip something that we don't know because that can leads us in trouble with other people. They have their business so we do and we don't have to say anything bad about them. They can tells anything to us but we must neutral and not gives criticism if we don't know the truth. What happens in society is they are easily to judge a person and say that they are wrong but that person is not like what other people say.

Self-control and keeping a gambling addiction a secret is something very few people can do. Self-control in gambling is very difficult, after many people take gambling as one of the main sources of income, the influence of gambling spreads in society like an epidemic. It is only because of this category of gamblers in the society that other non-affected people become addicted to gambling. So for now self control is a very difficult thing in gambling.

Addiction does create a certain kind of impact that most persons usually are not proud of and so they want to keep it to their selves most times. Yeah what people say about other people really cause most persons to respond the way they do because they don't want to appear messy around others.

This isnt really just that talking about gambling but also in other things as well on what you do want or like to do. I dont also give a fuck about on what are the things i've been doing as long i've been using my own money on which it will really be that understandable that there would really be those people who do really want to say something negative into those people whom they do see dealing up with something negative too on which like gambling but in overall it is really just that for entertainment purposes. It did really just turned out that it was really that they are really focusing too much in speaking about into the negative effects that it does have and not really that to look on whatever that it do gives when it comes to leisure and entertainment aspect. People do really mess up themselves just because they do really let themselves that being delusional.

I love it when I am gambling, no one knows that I am a gambler but if it happens that you find out on your own, so be it and I wouldn't give a fuck about what you think of me, as long as I am happy gambling. Like I said in my other post, my wife is not complaining that I gamble because if I don't tell you, you will not know due to self control and discipline that I have when gambling, and I put gamble last in my life.

Those who might misinterpret what we do. Avoid them, that's true.
I think many gamblers are afraid to come out of their closets because they are also afraid of what people may say to them. But the truth is, the gambling industry has been enormous in this era and now it's not that shameful if you say you gamble sometimes in one of your own favorite online casinos.
The traditional behaviour is still there but it's too rare to see them or admit they are also gamblers because of how their country works in the last few months.
Still, they are rare, But hopes that they might win the jackpot in the future will keep on lingering at every and I think it's also our own fault as a parent if we spoil too much.

Addiction is what gamblers  get ashamed of expecially when people are aware about it,  that is why most gamblers when they are addicted they try to keep it secret just not to be mocked by people. I think why people get ashamed when people know about their gambling activities is because of the expression people give to gamblers. Gamblers feel more comfortable allowing fellow gamblers to know about their gamblers activity. I don't think people will feel comfortable when people criticise them of gambling,  that is why it is always kept secret.

It's very important for us to always keep our gambling activities away from people that may not understand what we are doing or people that don't really like gambling. Gambling is all about choice that is why we ought to deal with fellow gamblers to keep getting updates and strategy to become a winning gambler. I have lost some few bets today and actually I feel like there are something I am not doing right as a gambler. This is what we get whether you are disciplined gambler or just someone that likes gambling randomly without any risk management in place. I hope to be more profitable with time putting my best in this gambling activity.