Topic: Gambler avoiding friends after a big win. - page 15. (Read 3099 times)
It's probably because that winner knows his friends real well that if the winner isn't avoiding them then that person will inevitably lose the money real fast because either they will ask for a treat from the wins or they would ask him to shoulder their incoming bets or would influence him to bet those wins hoping to strike the iron while it's hot. I don't know the whole story though, it could be that my guess is somewhat right or in the ballpark or that winner isn't really their friend and that amount of money just showed what he really is when it comes to his friends.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.
Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.
and your mistake on making out that kind of judgement on which we know that not all friends would really be just liking money most of the time, there are ones which are true and sincere.
It is really just that it turns out that you are really just that too scared on being asked without even trying to act normal.
Now, friends who'd stick by you irrespective of your monetary situation are a rare breed. If anyone chooses to walk away based on a mere assumption, then its a glaring commentary on the superficiality of their character. But lets address the real issue here - the fear. Acting out of fear or modifying behavior just to avoid confrontation is a direct ticket to personal discontent. Yes, theres a fear of judgment, but hiding behind that fear? Counterproductive. Authenticity is the key, and its high time to value sincere connections over hollow pretenses.
This is human act, it shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone, but the fact is, different people with their behavior, there is a saying that you will know a through a friend when he is rich or when he has some money, you don't know the true character of an individual when he is poor, but we shouldn't just think straight we shouldn't just conclude with the conversation those two friends were having, we should also put to consideration what might have happened between these friends that prompted their bet winner friend to exhibit such character, there are hidden things in this life, if we don't have a good idea of any conversation, it will be very bad if we take side without knowing what might have happened.
Money can change someone's behavior, if not always but most of the time and I experience that one. We really don't know what they are thinking but anyway, we don't need to mind it and ask them why, that was their mentality. Some will stay as a friend and some will forget as they make another group of friends (rich).
Of course, too bad to think how they change from winning millions but we can't force them to stay with us when it is against their will. Maybe they are thinking that we will take advantage of the situation.
It will refer more to the character of each person, as we know that the nature of money is very sensitive, let alone friends sometimes family relationships can be destroyed just because of money problems. So simply money will be able to show the true character of the person, for example like the title above, where when they managed to get a win from gambling they prefer to avoid the surrounding friends, one of the reasons maybe they are afraid to be asked for part of the winnings by their friends. I wouldn't call them stingy, but maybe they have other more important needs in life and they prefer to allocate the money they win to their needs rather than sharing it with others, that could be one of their reasons I think.
So maybe for this kind of problem I think it's quite difficult to indicate why they avoid and hide their winnings from their friends, quite a lot of factors could be involved and that would be the reason. Although yes on the other hand if one of his friends finds out about his victory then I'm sure they will antagonize him, in fact this can really damage friendships too.
So maybe for this kind of problem I think it's quite difficult to indicate why they avoid and hide their winnings from their friends, quite a lot of factors could be involved and that would be the reason. Although yes on the other hand if one of his friends finds out about his victory then I'm sure they will antagonize him, in fact this can really damage friendships too.
This is human act, it shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone, but the fact is, different people with their behavior, there is a saying that you will know a through a friend when he is rich or when he has some money, you don't know the true character of an individual when he is poor, but we shouldn't just think straight we shouldn't just conclude with the conversation those two friends were having, we should also put to consideration what might have happened between these friends that prompted their bet winner friend to exhibit such character, there are hidden things in this life, if we don't have a good idea of any conversation, it will be very bad if we take side without knowing what might have happened.
From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.
This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.
How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.
Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
That's how society works nowadays, it's easy for some to judge and to conclude without knowing the real context of the story. We didn't know if they are real "close friends" or not, some may assume that they are included as their close friend wherein fact that person treated you as a colleagues or just a co-gamblers. We can't blame that person if he/she wants to avoid the, maybe there's a deeper reason and sometimes it's better to be left unsaid.
Good point, there are also reasons behind that we can't conclude which side is telling the truth and like what you mentioned, it might be something that the person let go and not wanting to broadcast his reason, if he choose to move away and avoid those people behind it's his decision and his right whatever the reason behind it.
People decide on their own and we can't blame them if they think that they are doing the right thing, always depends on how they feel and how they see things behind.
Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.
If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.I personally would not consider an incident like this bad because if you dispute money with friend it will only end in chaos or misunderstandings which will cause the friendship to be destroyed.
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But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.
This is a logical reason but they may not necessarily accept it because everyone has their own thoughts.Quote
Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.
I don't know what they will think, but even now there are still many people who have that attitude.But still this happens due to some reasons and we cannot understand what is the real reason they do it.
From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.
This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.
How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.
Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
That's how society works nowadays, it's easy for some to judge and to conclude without knowing the real context of the story. We didn't know if they are real "close friends" or not, some may assume that they are included as their close friend wherein fact that person treated you as a colleagues or just a co-gamblers. We can't blame that person if he/she wants to avoid the, maybe there's a deeper reason and sometimes it's better to be left unsaid.
Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.
If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.I personally would not consider an incident like this bad because if you dispute money with friend it will only end in chaos or misunderstandings which will cause the friendship to be destroyed.
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But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.
This is a logical reason but they may not necessarily accept it because everyone has their own thoughts.Quote
Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.
I don't know what they will think, but even now there are still many people who have that attitude.But still this happens due to some reasons and we cannot understand what is the real reason they do it.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.
Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.
What if he was with his friends when he hit that jackpot in the casino? What if he was with his friends when they together decided to compare their lottery numbers to those which were being announced as the winning ones on Television?
Perhaps, there was no way we could hide it from his friends, because as it was stated in the beginning of this thread, their were gambling friends, so that means they likely shared their losses and wins because gambled next to each other. If so, what was he supposed to do since the beginning his former friends knew how much money he had earned?
Perhaps the only option for him, since he could to lie about how much he had, was to distance himself from his former partners, for his own security and peace of mind, it is something many of us would have done, unfortunately, security and self preservation are priorities.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.
Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.
and your mistake on making out that kind of judgement on which we know that not all friends would really be just liking money most of the time, there are ones which are true and sincere.
It is really just that it turns out that you are really just that too scared on being asked without even trying to act normal.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.
Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.
From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.
This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.
How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.
Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.
That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.
I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.
Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.
Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.
If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.
Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.
From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.
This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.
How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.
Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.
I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.
This is you thinking and looking at things in a positive way, which most people fail to realise and think the same way. If I'm also in the guy's position, I will buy into this idea, which is the best thing anyone can do. This is about security and also taking the right decision and not risking everything in the name of an old friend's gang.
Those groups of friends, if he doesn't let go of them, might affect his decision-making in the future; they might also lure him to misuse the money; or, to some point, envy and jealousy will come to the table, as it will come to a point where they will feel like the other guy is now too proud and showing off as he has made it. Let's also not forget that these friends in question are also gamblers; one of them might be an addict, so they might also want to drag him to still continue gambling with a higher amount this time to give him a higher chance of winning big, which can lead to losing all.
I am very jealous about these things, I am not one to be with friends, because I consider most of them that at any moment they cannot betray, they can talk too much, I try not to give them too much encouragement, my friends are few, they do not even reach 5 fingers the hand, why? because people nowadays are quite bipolar or betrayal, disappointing most of the time, my wife is a woman who told me that she had friends, then those friends, two of them were very bad, the good thing is that she I let her know with tests, one I discovered that she was a lesbian and a witch because she did witchcraft on her when spirits came to kill them, and since I'm not afraid of that I just got scared and realized that it was her, and I told her that I didn't even want to see her. that woman more, and another one was quite biolar and toxic, then I also told her the same thing, and I told her what friends? Those who try to harm other people are not friends, but I can't understand why people focus on harming other people? What do they gain from that? I don't understand it, instead of worrying about getting money, or business, something that produces them.
Although that story has nothing to do with this, I tell it because there is a certain analogy and that is that people like to use others to climb and they don't mind trampling them as long as they clarify, so this means that when we do certain things like those friendships, which for me are not, and what this man did when he earned that money, well, they are things that show that when they do not have a common interest they use others and when they get what they want they leave , that is not about friends, so companions are one things and a friend is another, that is what we must differentiate, so when we do the analysis it is difficult when there are friends and money mixed at the same time, that is why when we We see the money and friends, we should not mix them, it is always more likely that there will be problems that will arise.
You don't need to be jealous of all that because we can be friends with whoever we want. From these friendships, we have to select friends who can truly be friends so that they will be our friends whatever the conditions and situations we face so that we can give and receive well from each other. There won't be many and maybe it will only be 5 people or fewer because finding friends who can become friends is not easy and we can find them after having a few friends. And those who understand us and vice versa will maintain good friendships and not hurt each other. And if someone succeeds in winning at gambling, they will invite all their close friends to share their winnings but no one is jealous of what their friend has got because they know that it depends on their own luck and the luck of each person will be different.Although that story has nothing to do with this, I tell it because there is a certain analogy and that is that people like to use others to climb and they don't mind trampling them as long as they clarify, so this means that when we do certain things like those friendships, which for me are not, and what this man did when he earned that money, well, they are things that show that when they do not have a common interest they use others and when they get what they want they leave , that is not about friends, so companions are one things and a friend is another, that is what we must differentiate, so when we do the analysis it is difficult when there are friends and money mixed at the same time, that is why when we We see the money and friends, we should not mix them, it is always more likely that there will be problems that will arise.
Many people like to use other people for their own interests and when they get it, they will just leave it, especially if nothing is left to use. Friends like that don't need to be approached because they will approach us, especially when they need something. This has often happened to us and other people, so we have to be careful in socializing and always look for people who can be our friends in every situation and condition. Good friends are hard to find but friends who are just friends are easy to find. It's possible that the man knew that he didn't have any friends who were really close to him, so he started to stay away from people who weren't close friends because he knew that the people around him only wanted to take advantage of his winnings. He doesn't want to be lied to by friends who pretend to be nice to him but they have a specific purpose behind their good attitude.
then why would really be trying out to hide from your friends, what for? Afraid on getting asked out for some money? It would be normal but doesnt mean that they do really mean out since they cant really be able to force you out on giving or not.If you would then its good but if its not then its still good. Its not really that worth on putting up your friendship in line just because of money.
Somewhat its not really that bad on making yourself that able to give some small amounts on showing up some compliments into your friends specially if you do win up big
then it wont really be that hurting you on giving out some money that they could make use of but not necessarily for it to be big. It would really be just that sufficient or something not that big and not that small too.
I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.
Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.
Logically right, with proper explanation with what you are planning to do with your earnings can give your friends that approval on why you need to avoid them, it's more on communication and how you deliver those good explanations that can enlighten them with your plans. Better to tell them as if they are your true friends they will surely understand things that you wanted to push forward.
A friend is always a friend proper explanation will help to settle if there's miscommunication that happened, it can be resolved by means of good communication.
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