Topic: Gambler avoiding friends after a big win. - page 2. (Read 2962 times)

I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

It is better not to tell friends about money there are many friends who try to harm their behavior. Many friendships are destroyed in an instant because of money. That's why I don't want to share with friends after getting big money. Their decision may be better than the loss of a good friendship better to keep it up.

Yeah right, It's a matter of trust and confidentiality. Even I, doesn't tell everything in my friends especially if it's money related or even the career growth because there's a possibility that you will be having a problem towards them because you didn't know that some of your so called friends envy you. We need to learn how privacy works nowadays because what others didn't know, they can't be ruined.

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Quote from: bakasabo on May 08, 2024, 03:59:15 AM

I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

It is better not to tell friends about money there are many friends who try to harm their behavior. Many friendships are destroyed in an instant because of money. That's why I don't want to share with friends after getting big money. Their decision may be better than the loss of a good friendship better to keep it up.

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I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

Then we should choose friends wise. For example I share with friends most of my achievements. The moment I sold and bought new car. The moment kid went to school for the first time. I've got a annual bonus at work and etc. And I never saw envy light in their eyes, not their attitude to me changed, nor they ever asked me to share.

With situation with this guy, it might even be not his decision to part with them. That guys girlfriend, wife or other friends can suggest to do that, if they saw that those friends drag him down. Life is complicated. We can look on a situation from different angles. Not only from "that guy is greedy and dont want to share".

Yeah right there are influences that might change the mindset of such person though the big chance it's all because of the money and he don't want to share his blessings, looking at the perspectives, they all in the same spot before the guy wins that huge amount and right after that luck he change his mind and he doesn't like to be with that same company again.

Maybe he's trying to save up or whatever the reason behind we can't judge things out and same with your statement we need to look at it on all the different sides of a possibilities.

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Quote from: Natsuu on May 07, 2024, 10:23:30 PM

I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

Then we should choose friends wise. For example I share with friends most of my achievements. The moment I sold and bought new car. The moment kid went to school for the first time. I've got a annual bonus at work and etc. And I never saw envy light in their eyes, not their attitude to me changed, nor they ever asked me to share.

With situation with this guy, it might even be not his decision to part with them. That guys girlfriend, wife or other friends can suggest to do that, if they saw that those friends drag him down. Life is complicated. We can look on a situation from different angles. Not only from "that guy is greedy and dont want to share".

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I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

If everyone could think like you, of course there would be no dispute between those who win their bets and those who win their bets of course have the right to use it for what they really want and we have no right to forbid them or ask for a share of the winnings obtained, however I think it really depends on a person's personality and I often see those who win their bets celebrating with their friends.

This is a wholesome reply. Instead of judging the trader, there is a level of understanding what could be their reason behind why they are doing what they are doing. Because keeping in mind that we all have a reason why we are gambling. Some gamble to make friends or waste time, some is there to bond with their friends, yet most were there to make money and bring food to their home. This is just the reality. We don't want to force our friends to treat every time they win. Let them have their choice, because after all they also have their own reason why they are also gambling.

In fact, if someone finds out that their friend is getting a jackpot from gambling while we are losing. I definitely hope that the friend who gets the jackpot will give him the little he has earned so he can continue playing together.
but it depends on each personality. Some people really want to give a little gift, some don't.
Or it's true, as @bakasabo said, it could be that he is distancing himself from his friends because he wants to end his gambling activities.

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I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

If everyone could think like you, of course there would be no dispute between those who win their bets and those who win their bets of course have the right to use it for what they really want and we have no right to forbid them or ask for a share of the winnings obtained, however I think it really depends on a person's personality and I often see those who win their bets celebrating with their friends.

This is a wholesome reply. Instead of judging the trader, there is a level of understanding what could be their reason behind why they are doing what they are doing. Because keeping in mind that we all have a reason why we are gambling. Some gamble to make friends or waste time, some is there to bond with their friends, yet most were there to make money and bring food to their home. This is just the reality. We don't want to force our friends to treat every time they win. Let them have their choice, because after all they also have their own reason why they are also gambling.

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Quote from: Lida93 on October 11, 2023, 10:08:54 AM

I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

I think keeping things personal is one of the fastest ways to grow. When you tend to share your progress or findings with friend they most times expect you to carry them along or share with them, how you do it. Now what many fail to understand is that they think they are being honest or nice to tell that to their friends without them knowing that they are not yet accomplished and fulfilled to be in the position to do that. Its different when you have strong foundation on something that whatever happens it won't affect you to when you are just new into something, and you want to bring all your friend to participate or share that blessing with you.

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At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Many are saying that the "friend" disappeared with the money, but I have another theory:

I believe that when he won, he wanted to make a "smart" move by betting again with the money he had won in the hope of multiplying it again and keeping entirely the winnings from the second bet, dividing only the winnings from the initial bet among his friends.

However, as with most greedy players, he was unable to multiply his winnings, quite the opposite... he lost everything Tongue

As a consequence, he now needs to suffer the heartbreak of his defeat without the courage to tell his friends about the trouble and what he got himself into... he prefers to be called a "dishonest" than a "stupid".

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I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

It's not everything that our friends must know, some people pretend to be friends but are haters and backbiting agents. It is important to know your friends very well because that's what can grant the level of information you given to them about your achievements. If you don't trust your friends because you believe they can do anything to harm you once they know you are successful than them, you don't have to tell such people anything good about yourself. One thing must lead to an action, before taking any decision, there is usually a cause for that decision. Some people stay away from friends after big win because they are don't want to share any money with their friend, if the money is big enough, I can tell my friends I won small amount.

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I believe that a person would never avoid friends for no reason. If that person from first post made such a decision, then there must be a strong reason for that. We can only predict reasons. Maybe that person is greedy and dont want to share. Maybe this big win is his life changer and he has decided to quit gambling, so he avoid those friends, because they might drag him back into gambling. Maybe that person is no longer interested in gambling. He has caught his luck and dont want to test it anymore.

If everyone could think like you, of course there would be no dispute between those who win their bets and those who win their bets of course have the right to use it for what they really want and we have no right to forbid them or ask for a share of the winnings obtained, however I think it really depends on a person's personality and I often see those who win their bets celebrating with their friends.

Each person has their own priorities, and in the eyes of the person who won the money, there will be many future plans to continue to improve their life thanks to that money, people usually think about going to college, starting a business, even buying a house and settle down with their spouse. It depends also on how mature the person is.
I agree we should not judge these kind of situations and stories without having further context, though, I lean myself to think the wanted to stay away from gambling and since his friends continued to be gamblers, then he decided to cut ties with them for the sake of his own future. His former friends may have not understood that decision and took it as something personal.
Just because one won big st gambling, it does not mean one is expected to party and waste all the money in frivolous stuff like alcohol, women and small luxuries.

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