Topic: Mentality of Gamblers Before and After Winning (Read 1875 times)

Lol, of course remember change is the most constant thing in life but in gambling is always good to control our emotions and also apply self control, as a gambler is always advisable to set a limit when gambling more especially to those who prefer playing virtual sport. because if you don't set a limit you will just keep playing and playing before you will realize what you're doing you have already gambled with the whole money that you took to the gambling hull, this brings a sudden change of attitude because when you keep remembering the amount of money you lose in no less than 30minutes at this point depression have just started, this is why self control is considered very important when gambling.

Actually, many gamblers feel that luck is the determining factor in whether they will win or lose. So when they lose, you can hear that we are unlucky today, or the goddess of luck is not on our side.
so also when they get a win. Because of some wins, that's what makes them believe that they are in good luck, and continue betting rather than stopping with some wins in hand.
not all gamblers have good control. Even at the beginning, they can be very good but when playing everything can change.

Gambling or betting then it is really indeed no doubt the fastest way on making money but  this is also the fastest way on busting up your funds, on which simply means that no matter which one you are really that getting involved into then its not that ideal that you've been thinking on how you would be able to earn up money on the fastest way. Treat up betting or gambling as some sort of fun and wont really be trying out to have those kind of intents at the moment that you do play. Whenever you do experience some loses then usually most people do really be that become impulsive on which it might really be that ending up for them to have that kind of impulsive actions that will be leading into more loses or the worst you are that on huge debt because you do keep on betting and trying out to recover on what you do have lost.

Speaking about changing on the mentality of  gamblers after winning then its not shocking anymore. Someone could easily make out some promises before they do gamble and on the moment that they have win up some amounts then this is the time that they do have that kind of amnesia. lol. There are people who doesnt really that not wanting to follow or make those things that they do promised and just been said by most people on here is that whenever we are still on a boost up kind of emotion situation then we will be having those kind of words to be said without even trying to think that you do made out some promises but on the moment that you do win up then you will be that ready to exchange money with other peoples relation, which is really that so sad.

As a gambler, it's easy to get caught up in the excitement of the game. In the heat of the moment, you might make promises to friends that seem reasonable at the time. However, once the game ends and reality sets in, you may realize you have made commitments you regret. Doubt creep in and you cannot help but wonder why you made such promises in the first place.

It all depends on our interest and what we actually want to get from gambling. There are some gamblers that keep moving from one bet to another just to keep trying their luck which is never a bad idea. I have tried some few casino games which are profitable but not in a long run. You could make some profits now and in the next minutes you are in loses. It is good we work on what is going to make us profitable as gamblers even though it's going to involve jumping from one game to another.

Sport bets has been one of the quickest way to make money as gamblers without stress especially when you are not greedy or want to use few dollars to win huge amounts of money. Very gamblers need to know what they really want and not think that they can outsmart the system making their way out to so much profits with just a little fund. This kind of results happens once in a blue moon.

Right, Sweet Bonanza is very addicting as we have seen a lot of posts from streamers and so I was also hook on it trying to chase that big win that others have experience. But no dice on me, I don't know, maybe I was just really unlucky and now winning big on this kind of game. At least for now, I try to minimized playing slots and just go on sports betting as my chances are good although I can win that big unless I wager huge amount as well.

So it's really goes down to our mentality as a gamblers, whether we are going to fall for it or snap back to reality and stop gambling or at least don't let it ruin your life and be rekt because you become addicted to games like Sweet Bonanza.

Yes, countless times it has happened to me before as I changed my behavior and became responsible. It is really difficult to control ourselves when greed manipulates our minds because what appears in our minds is to gamble while still having money.

We can't hide the reality that most gamblers are greedy. That is why it is very common seeing gamblers going home with no money because, as you have said, even if they won already, they still think of more until the time comes when the situation never gives them favors and they already spend all their money. 
 

Most gamblers behave the same I would say and also based on my personal experience this is what most gamblers do when they are winning instead of withdrawing the money they think that since the slot machine is giving money maybe they will get the max win so they keep playing trying to get that until they lose everything, one such addictive type of slot is without a doubt Sweet Bonanza 1000 as you can see from the number of people playing it in different casinos that is the most played game. I did the same when I was gambling and this is what most people do if you look at the chat of different casinos, they go and play games that has a huge potential but that rarely throw it at users. Once you lose the mentality is the same most of the time, chasing loses.

A gambler can be tempted to gamble or bet more whenever they are making profit while gambling but mentality varies with individual, there are gamblers that no matter the amount of profit they make while gambling it will never lure or make them to gamble more than they are suppose to... And there also gamblers that once they make profit everything about them changed and sometimes they will began to act like they are drunk or something. However, having this joy after winning in gamble or bet is normal I mean every normal human being will be excited to have a profit and sometimes this excited state makes them feel they are good or they have arrived which is totally wrong it is just a luck and if one is not careful or doesn't control themselves they will end up losing everything.

It's true that nobody is obligated or entitled to other people's money, what you have entitlement to is what personally belongs to you. If someone makes a promise it's good to honor it, by doing so the person has built trust and intergrity among the people around him. So it's better not to make promises at all, then surprise others with what you would've promised them, if for some reasons you were not able to meat up, nobody will know. Some gamblers will see wins as free money and they will make promises to others about giving them some percentage of their win. If they eventually wins they'll then remember how much they've lost in gambling and not feel obligated to honor their promise.

Since one good turn deserves another, the same is one big win deserves more plays. Gambling is all about motivation to keep betting for more bags. Every gamblers want to make money from betting but sometimes, we might not be able to do that because of the pattern of gambling and the energy that we is accompanying us when we bet. Many people get lucky when betting due to the positive energy that is around them, making them happy, vibing for a successful bet that is usually leading to more wins. It is always joyful when we keep making profits the same way gamblers are happy to play more bets when they are winning.

You are very correct. Nobody should feel obligated to someone else's money, and at the same time, someone who doesn't have the mind of giving should not make promises they can't keep just because they feel like talking or making promises, and when the time for them to fulfill that promise reaches, they will start jumping around as if they were forced to make those promises in the first place.

Some people make others look at them as if they owe them, not because they just want to benefit from the winning, but it's based on the promise and offer the gambler has made before the winning finally came. through.

Just like d saying that human needs ate insatiable and so they don't stop wanting more and aswell never get to the point where they get completely satisfied and want no more., the needs keeps growing by the day, they more they get, they mire they want.  Promises are something that form some persons they consider it their word which by extension is them giving part of themselves and so whenever they make a promise they try to keep to it because it's their word and for some others it's just a cliché and so they don't consider it as any serious but with time they get to understand the importance of such and so much blames shouldn't be thrown at your friend actually because it may be different with him.

Definitely, someone else's money is their own business. It is their prerogative what to do with it. Now, if you get the chance to have a share on that, then, be grateful, but should not oblige any person to get some of their money. Let them initiate if they will share or not. Because it is not their responsibility to distribute their winnings to anyone.


Winning in gambling is mostly based on luck. And that's a fact. So if a gambler will understand this, he should not expect that he would get some winnings every bet. Luck will always play a role on this game, hence, the gambler should always be ready to the fact that they can win some and lose some in every game.

Two key things to always take note of, promises and decisions made under emotional feelings shouldn't be take seriously...the gambler simply made that promise because he was happy but after coming to his senses he must have realized that giving out money isn't really what he wants to do.. money changes our attitude in an instant that's why they call it an amplifier of character, you don't know who you really are until you receive a certain amount of money...I don't take the words of gamblers seriously, if they make a promise I just move on and focus on my business, we are not entitled to anyone's money.

Well thank God Heavenly Father that you were able to get out of that process that is strong, you do not know what you overcame, many people do not know how to get out, how to do , they look for the way and they cannot, maybe you have a lot of willpower and that is what you do not know yet how to bring out and use it in your favor, you only used it as your protection Mechanism , so it is something that seems great to me, I like it when people overcome things , because when they tell about it they encourage those who are in the same problem that everything has a solution.

The feeling of winning will increase and interfere our greediness become big. That can make us still gambling and want to chase the bigger winning. Unfortunately, we will difficult to win in the next rounds so we must control our feeling and not deeper in gambling. The mentality of gamblers before and after winning can change easily because of what we get from gambling. Before we gambling, we want to win money but if we lose, we will be sad and there is a will to get our money back. If we win, we will want to get more winning so that means we may spends more money to gambling. That will not be good for us because that can make our win money lose in the gambling table.

There is a saying that you shouldn't give a promise when you are happy because once you calm down, you'll regret it. I think that your friend was in a similar situation, he was feeling happy and decided to promise you a share of the potential reward but once he got the reward, he forgot about you. I don't blame him, I've done that myself too and I know how it feels, I've also experienced what you experience too. I suggest you remind your friend that you are glad he won, you don't need his money but he shouldn't give away promises out of thin air because it hurts people. Tell your friend to be the man of his word and be careful with every given promise, if you can't fulfil the promise, then he shouldn't give it to someone.

Failing to keep our promises can seriously damage our reputation. We might think it is okay because they are our friends, but we never really know how they feel inside. That is why it’s better not to make any promises that we can’t keep because in the end, we are the ones who will suffer the consequences and blame.

We all know that once trust is broken, it is hard to earn it back, especially when someone believes in us and have high expectations. One mistake could lose everything especially the trust we give.

The thrill from one win is often the ingredient for the next game and this leads to a vicious cycle. The win will lead to a loss at some point and then it is a cycle of chasing the loss which might end up in a zero balance or a win to lead to the previous cycle once again.

This mentality can be controlled if they stop once a certain loss has occurred or they have won something decent enough. The player has to be humble here as to what counts as a decent win for them.

There is nothing called defeat in gambling, it is what the casinos prey on. You dont have to "beat" the casino, you just have to minimize the losses.