Certainly, most people aren't born alcoholics. Those babies that are born withdrawing from alcohol I feel great pity for. Otherwise you're right, you can to some extent control whether you are an alcoholic, it is a choice to drink. Who you are sexually attracted to is not a choice, did you choose not to be attracted to the same sex and instead choose to be attracted to the opposite? I think not, you were born with that, just like a homosexual is born with their sexuality.
So let me get this right, you have more respect for someone who doesn't believe in something at all, rather than someone who is honest about it and says I dont know?
In a sense, if you are religious you believe there is a god, but you can't know for sure, not enough to prove it to anyone in any case. Which would put you in the same boat as agnostics, who don't know either.
Good day.
Many native Americans - American Indians - are born with a weakness that makes them much more vulnerable to alcohol. Their choice is to exploit the weakness and become alcoholics of the first magintude, or not.
Homosexual attraction is similar. It doesn't have as much to do with the built-in weakness. It has way more to do with making choices that indulge that weakness.
If you took a look around at nature and especial how nature acts in your life, you would KNOW that there is a God. You wouldn't have to believe it. Belief would encompass the attributes of God, rather than His existence.
In the face of the complexity of nature, everyone knows that God exists. It is only great training in ignorance that suggests that God might not exist.