Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ? - page 2.

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Quote from: Litzki1990 on November 12, 2023, 10:32:42 PM

I gamble for fun so in future I will adapt my wife to this and I believe she will prioritize my liking and support me in whatever I do. Parents or spouses sometimes convince people to gamble when it is seen that the person has become too addicted to gambling. We know being addicted to something is never a good thing. I can guarantee that I am not addicted to gambling and I play gambling only for my pleasure and I treat gambling like any other game. Whereas gambling is not affecting my life badly and I am not addicted to gambling so I don't think my wife will object to gambling. And I don't want to share these things with my family as much as possible, I have been gambling for a long time but no one in my family knows about it and I hope no one will know about my gambling in the future.

Congratulations on viewing gambling as fun rather than addiction. Balance is critical in everything, including gambling and relationships. You enjoy gambling, but involving your wife may not be a good idea. We all have distinct interests, so respect them in relationships. While sharing hobbies is fun, its important to keep your own. Making gambling a choice, not an expectation, will let your wife enjoy it. Communicating is crucial. Discuss your gambling pastime with her, but respect her feelings and boundaries.

Remember, relationships require mutual support. Be willing to support her interests, even if they differ from yours, as you would hers. To understand and respect each other. Consider how long-term family secrets affect you. Secrets regarding gambling might cause trust concerns.

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Quote from: Suzume on November 11, 2023, 06:04:44 AM

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

It's seems you're an addict, because the signs are already there and there's a whole lot to learn from the system. On the records it's not some random person that tells you to quick gambling, but your better half, your companion, though I'm not married yet but I'll do my cards well by listening to her because is very possible she wants the best for me, not just me but also both of us. Planning a future together, and reaching ultimate goals can only be achieved when there's presence of strong communication in marriage. We're not longer children anymore, rather we're grown-ups and aims at hitting and striving harder for prominent results in the system.

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I gamble for fun so in future I will adapt my wife to this and I believe she will prioritize my liking and support me in whatever I do. Parents or spouses sometimes convince people to gamble when it is seen that the person has become too addicted to gambling. We know being addicted to something is never a good thing. I can guarantee that I am not addicted to gambling and I play gambling only for my pleasure and I treat gambling like any other game. Whereas gambling is not affecting my life badly and I am not addicted to gambling so I don't think my wife will object to gambling. And I don't want to share these things with my family as much as possible, I have been gambling for a long time but no one in my family knows about it and I hope no one will know about my gambling in the future.

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Quote from: Oilacris on November 10, 2023, 06:17:45 PM

Only fools who would really be having that kind of mindset on trying out to spend up the money which is more than that they could be able to earn.Getting beyond with those things
then you are really just making the bad decision of your life.

Trust me bro there are plenty of people out there that willing to sell everything he has just to gamble, even though there are people who hard work and go all in. The worst part is they take loans for other friends family or illegal landing companies just to fuel the gambling addict. That is the problem hahahahha

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Quote from: slapper on November 12, 2023, 10:21:35 AM

You shouldn't rush into marriage. Building a life together is a significant decision. And gambling? Although a hobby, it needs extreme self-discipline. Your assessment is correct. Gambling is a game of chance, and the house always wins. Gamble, win or lose, but the thrill? This is transient.

But marriage is a long-term commitment. Sharing life and overcoming problems with someone else. You're never alone. You confront anything comes your way with your companion. Mutual understanding and growth are involved. If quitting gambling ensures family happiness, it's a no-brainer. Continuing gambling after marriage? That's prioritizing yourself over your family. Marriage is about priorities, and family comes first. A lifetime of shared joy or transient exhilaration.

You are right because before getting married, you have to consider everything carefully. Meanwhile, in gambling it is an entertainment that you should be able to give up for something more important than gambling. But in reality, not many people can do it, even when they are married. Maybe there are still many who still gamble secretly.

By getting married, you learn to be responsible and of course, that also requires self-control over what happens to us and our partner and we also cannot put our ego first in running a household. After a person gets married, his life priorities should change, where he now has a family that he must provide for to be able to meet his daily needs. And many other things require greater responsibility so priorities will definitely change.

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Depends on the effect because I don't think if a wife would ask husband to stop gambling if the husband is being lucky on a gambling winning roles that is tendered to bring earning to the family more that the legal job.

Imagine i have $50 on my weekly gambling budgets and I am always lucky to realize $400 at the end of it and had never been unlucky to lost without interests of winning, I guess I would be addicted to it and would only listen to her if I have been thought tough lessions to had been on the wall of loosing so I am definitely going to fight it out and dances to her tunes.
Though gambling is an addiction that doesn't considers one being impressed of winning or being depressed of loosing.

She must practically buttress to pick points of the negative effects in my Indulgence in the gambling else she won't succeed as Long I am not flexible to her orders.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on November 12, 2023, 09:10:52 AM

Quote from: Blitzboy on November 11, 2023, 12:38:49 PM

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

Actually, there is no rush because marriage is aimed at building a household. At the same time, gambling can be done in your spare time, provided that a person really has self-control and is responsible for themselves. Now with the wedding. It may be true that getting married means gambling with your partner's happiness but they feel they can live happily with their partner, otherwise, why do so many people get married and live happily? Meanwhile, in gambling, you gamble and lose money even though you can win, but are you happy? You definitely know the answer because gambling and marriage are different things.

Answering marriage challenges? You are not alone in answering marriage challenges because you can discuss them with your partner to find a solution. And it's okay to stop gambling after you get married if it's for the sake of your household's happiness. If you are still gambling, it means you are still putting your ego first and you still want to gamble where you know the risks of gambling. You should be able to choose it.

You shouldn't rush into marriage. Building a life together is a significant decision. And gambling? Although a hobby, it needs extreme self-discipline. Your assessment is correct. Gambling is a game of chance, and the house always wins. Gamble, win or lose, but the thrill? This is transient.

But marriage is a long-term commitment. Sharing life and overcoming problems with someone else. You're never alone. You confront anything comes your way with your companion. Mutual understanding and growth are involved. If quitting gambling ensures family happiness, it's a no-brainer. Continuing gambling after marriage? That's prioritizing yourself over your family. Marriage is about priorities, and family comes first. A lifetime of shared joy or transient exhilaration.

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I think if you're getting to that point when you can't control yourself anymore and you have to rely on dear ones to make you quit gamble , then it's the time to actually get concerned about your addiction and start looking for a solution without actually hurting your dear ones.

Actually , the correct question would be : would you stay with yourself , knowing well that you're a gambling addict ? I think we all know the answer. Wink

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Quote from: Blitzboy on November 11, 2023, 12:38:49 PM

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

Actually, there is no rush because marriage is aimed at building a household. At the same time, gambling can be done in your spare time, provided that a person really has self-control and is responsible for themselves. Now with the wedding. It may be true that getting married means gambling with your partner's happiness but they feel they can live happily with their partner, otherwise, why do so many people get married and live happily? Meanwhile, in gambling, you gamble and lose money even though you can win, but are you happy? You definitely know the answer because gambling and marriage are different things.

Answering marriage challenges? You are not alone in answering marriage challenges because you can discuss them with your partner to find a solution. And it's okay to stop gambling after you get married if it's for the sake of your household's happiness. If you are still gambling, it means you are still putting your ego first and you still want to gamble where you know the risks of gambling. You should be able to choose it.

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It is the fact that gambler if settle a happy life with wife then he left all those activities which have no usefulness ever and they always do what their wives tell them to do. In our society if someone know about a person that he is a gambler then it become hard for him to marry with a good girl because gambling is consider as a bad thing in our society.

If someone hide his gambling activities in a family then there is a chances that he will surely leave gambling after getting married. Married life has more positive effects on a person's life than anything else. As you will also have experienced that if wide forbid his husband to smoke then he left smoking same is the case with gambling and other bad activities which a person can only try to get rid of after a successful married life. But if someone is not interested to leave gambling even after marriage then it means that he has no respect for his relationship.

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Quote from: Sanugarid on November 11, 2023, 12:53:24 PM

Quote from: Suzume on November 11, 2023, 06:04:44 AM

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

You can say that now because you are not in the situation yet, I think your perspective will change a little in the future but it really depends on the person if they know how to handle it. When your partner sees that you are not an addict and that you can handle the gambling well, she will allow you as long as there is a limitation.
But for now what you are doing now is good. While you are still young, just explore and have fun. Your learning.

While you are still young and not married, it would be better to get used to being honest with your potential partner, even if it is about gambling, maybe some partners will not allow it because sometimes gambling is considered a bad thing, but if as a man you continue to show an attitude of gambling responsibly, it will definitely be forgiven and after it will allow to gamble very small amounts.
Actually, whatever happens as long as you tell the truth, a partner will not leave you because honesty is important, but if there is a selfish partner who puts pressure on their partner to leave gambling, this might be a complicated situation, but rest assured, a partner wants the best for the future, so understand that.

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Quote from: krishnaverma on October 17, 2023, 11:13:19 AM

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

First, think about what's gambling to me. Is it more important to me than anything else in the world that I can easily sacrifice? Is this habit of me is hard for the people who love me? Is it worth it to quit for them? But if it's negatively affecting my life, then nobody needs to advice me, I will quit at my own will. I don't like addiction to anything.
I don't know about quitting, it depends on the situation, because if gambling helps me get financially stable, then I might rethink about quitting it. Even if it's good for me but my family thinks differently, then I'll consider quitting this for sure. I can find another source for money, but I can't find another source for love easily.

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Quote from: Suzume on November 11, 2023, 06:04:44 AM

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

You can say that now because you are not in the situation yet, I think your perspective will change a little in the future but it really depends on the person if they know how to handle it. When your partner sees that you are not an addict and that you can handle the gambling well, she will allow you as long as there is a limitation.
But for now what you are doing now is good. While you are still young, just explore and have fun. Your learning.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on November 11, 2023, 05:25:17 AM

Quote from: wallet4bitcoin on November 10, 2023, 07:58:48 PM

Surely will.

What's there to be a gambler and displease family in exchange for peace and togetherness.

As a man, if your spouse tells you to give up gambling and you don't, you just singed up for a great deal of subtle trouble. I personally appreciate peace more than my ego and other stuff, if leaving gamble will ensure a lasting peace at home, so be it

Becoming a gambler can have negative consequences for his household after he gets married, especially when, after marriage, he turns into a gambler who cannot be responsible for his gambling activities. This will give him bigger and more serious problems because his partner will definitely find out what he is doing. If it is gambling, arguments will arise in the household, which could lead to divorce if the partner cannot accept the fact that her husband is still gambling.

Someone who wants to marry us definitely wants to build a good household. She will advise the man who will become her husband to stop his gambling activities immediately. That is good advice because it is all for the sake of his home life and he can avoid financial problems that can be disturbed by gambling. So it is better for those who want to get married but are still gambling to immediately stop their gambling activities so that they don't cause problems after they get married.

Marriage and gambling? Similar to water and oil. Gambling first attracts people with its thrill, danger, and big payouts. Isn't it a rush? Then,weddings stop you from sabotaging your own life. You're gambling with your spouse's happiness, too. She wants a lifelong partner, not a gambler. She's right to say "stop gambling." Money is vital, but so is peace of mind and faith. Don't touch the cookies. How will you face marriage's challenges? It ended this way. You're risking marriage? Quit. Now. You think winning is more exciting than getting married? Slow down. Marriage is risky enough - don't make it worse

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Quote from: Suzume on November 11, 2023, 06:04:44 AM

Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

Well as i've always said, It depends to every individual because we have our own perspective when it comes to this matter. For you, it's okay for you not to leave gambling because it gives you a money and this is your source of income but is it much better to have a stable job rather than gambling? no matter how good you are in playing, it is important for you to know when to stop. Do not let gambling affects your relationship with your partner.

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Many of us started gambling at the teenage although it's required 18 + but many of started before 18. I started gamble at the age of 17. I am also 17 years old. I take my own risk and I started sports beating. Sports waiting help me to be a self depend a person. Continuously I am doing this in my opinion I am not going to leave this in future because I started earning from batting and day by day I get more experience. I will do it in future because that will be a source of income for me. I am not leaving it by listening my future wife told me. Because itself me to be a self depended person that's why I am not leaving it. Limitation gambling help me not to addected.

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Hello there I'd like to respond to your question. There are different opinions on this matter Personally, I am married, but I still play games for fun without feeling the need to inform my wife. The key is knowing how to play responsibly and avoiding addiction. If you choose to be honest with her carefully explain that gambling is just a habit for you, not as risky as it may seem. It's about moderating the games and understanding the odds and managing your time. But keep in mind that women's attitudes may vary based on their mentality.

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Quote from: wallet4bitcoin on November 10, 2023, 07:58:48 PM

Surely will.

What's there to be a gambler and displease family in exchange for peace and togetherness.

As a man, if your spouse tells you to give up gambling and you don't, you just singed up for a great deal of subtle trouble. I personally appreciate peace more than my ego and other stuff, if leaving gamble will ensure a lasting peace at home, so be it

Becoming a gambler can have negative consequences for his household after he gets married, especially when, after marriage, he turns into a gambler who cannot be responsible for his gambling activities. This will give him bigger and more serious problems because his partner will definitely find out what he is doing. If it is gambling, arguments will arise in the household, which could lead to divorce if the partner cannot accept the fact that her husband is still gambling.

Someone who wants to marry us definitely wants to build a good household. She will advise the man who will become her husband to stop his gambling activities immediately. That is good advice because it is all for the sake of his home life and he can avoid financial problems that can be disturbed by gambling. So it is better for those who want to get married but are still gambling to immediately stop their gambling activities so that they don't cause problems after they get married.

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Quote from: Westinhome on November 10, 2023, 07:41:00 PM

Being the gambler,I will choose my wife who allow to play the gambling or if my wife is gambler.This may allow me to choose the wife,after the marriage life should be more pleasant in the gambling sites.Choosing the life partner was in your hand,

Choosing a partner is crucial and that's why both of you should click or you should understand each others hobbies. And if you don't click like only you is the gambler, then you have to decide and need to have the conversation and agreement for both party. No one wants to be with a partner that will just give you headaches forever. That's why marrying your partner comes with a condition and that's all up to your talks.

Quote from: Westinhome on November 10, 2023, 07:41:00 PM

So choose like I said and play the gambling along with your wife.If your marriage was the arrange marriage made by the gambler parents,then you need to convince your wife or husband to playing the gambling site with some good strategy in the gambling.

How I wish that there are couples out there that both gambling together and have no problem when both of them loses a lot of money. If ever you find one that has the same hobby as you then all you need to do is to continue both of your hobbies and never ran out of money together. Because if the time comes that you don't have money anymore, for sure that there will be quarrels when both of you are into gambling.

Quote from: Westinhome on November 10, 2023, 07:41:00 PM

If this fail,it’s better to play outside without the knowledge of your wife and family members by keep this as the secret to them.

This is what happens when both of you disagree and didn't have the conversation and agreement that it's okay to gamble for both sides. You're going to hide at most times when you gamble.

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Quote from: wallet4bitcoin on November 10, 2023, 07:58:48 PM

Surely will.

What's there to be a gambler and displease family in exchange for peace and togetherness.

It just that everything comes back to the gamblers themselves, whether they care about their families or potential life partners or not, because there are quite few who still gamble even if it in secret.
If we are still aware of family happiness and normal life of course we can easily stop following the advice of our family or future wife, but not everyone will have thoughts like this.

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As a man, if your spouse tells you to give up gambling and you don't, you just singed up for a great deal of subtle trouble. I personally appreciate peace more than my ego and other stuff, if leaving gamble will ensure a lasting peace at home, so be it

A man has big responsibility when building household so that whatever happens if it impacts the peace and happiness of the family, he can definitely take wise steps by abandoning this activity.
After all, when we are old even until we die we will be with our partner and family, so it is highly recommended to maintain the integrity of this peace.
Only stupid and irresponsible men are willing to lose family happiness and peace just because they prioritize ego and momentary pleasure.

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